Your children are not your retirement funds – Your parents are not your emergency funds

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Phrankleen

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Your children are not your retirement funds – Your parents are not your emergency funds


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  1. I've been helping my parents since I came to Europe 9 years ago and still i don't get nothing done for myself and yesterday I got a call from them saying that we need to fix them monthly income atlease 400/ monthly that's crazy to me how someone will like to enslaved their own children because money 💰

  2. Latino families are like this too. My father is 55 years old still very young and wants to retire early and “enjoy” his life. Problem is, he never saved up during his retirement to fund this goal to retire at 55 and has been pretty much living off my sister and my mother who send him money. Occasionally I send him money too. Its hard to get ahead when you have to support your parents retirement

  3. I’m in my mid 20’s and just graduated started working a year ago. I wanted to send $450 to my parents to help them with a project they were doing back home. They ended up saying it’s too small. -while in the same breath trying to tell me and my fiancé that I just introduced to them that we would have to have a big wedding. They’re so pressed about the wrong things and Impressing people I don’t know even know. We want a small wedding because we both didn’t grow up in Naija. We are a young couple just trying to start life. I decided to go very low contact and face my life for now.

  4. Woeful that as Parents, We do not get it that our Children are to be nurtured and we allow them to fly the nest, once we create and build Foundational Peace , trust and truthful relationships with them… I came across your Video with Blaxitt, yesterday,, it’s 7 months plus old,, DO HOPE YOU GOT LEGAL Justice from UK issues. Olodumare (Giver of life ) assist you , Equity of Esu, and your ORI working in unison.

  5. Phrankleen you will not believe it, l watched this particular video have a huge quarrel with my husband ,sent same video to my girlfriend , she watched with her husband and also had a quarrel over the manipulative in-laws. Thank you so much for the eye opening.

  6. You are telling the truth. I have Nigerian friends, they talk about the parents always wanting money, which they stopped sending years ago, but would send them something two to three times a year, and far from the amount they used to send. Many of them say, when they do travel, they do not let the family know they arrived in Nigeria until 3 days later for obvious reasons, and they stay at a hotel. This they said must be done for their own mental health and welfare. I understand more now.

  7. I never ever fall for their stories or some useless sentiment so they don't ask me for anything. I have a sibling back home his wife is upset with us for not taking care of their children. I asked her who demanded that they have three children that they aren't able to take care of? There want us to pay for their kids school fees. I told her that my kids had to take student loans to go to university and they are STILL paying if off their salaries till now. I don't have time for their nonsense so they call me wicked and stingy…I wear the names with pride…AFTER it my hard earned money! I work for our health care system in the UK as a nurse and we know how the salaries are here…

    Then my mother thinks she has the right to demand money from us for my sibling back home, we told her that's not possible. She is in the UK herself so understands how difficult it is here! My point is say NO…if they don't like it tough on them!

  8. My parents were never married when they had me but they married different people after. So I am the eldest on both my mother and father's side.

    I remember when I got my first salary, as in just first salary after I started working full time after graduating, after suffering for a few months while looking for jobs. My mum immediately started telling me that they don't have enough money for my half sister's school fees… I was confused since I literally got paid that day.

    My father was also upset because I did not present my first pay cheque to him and went to tell my extended family because he said according to African values, I am meant to present my first salary to him before spending it.

    Then my father's sister called me telling me my father feels I am ungrateful after everything he has done for me. Madness

  9. Please this you topic is not necessary because you leave abroad were the government is for the people dont compare african nations especially nigeria like that, the government has made survival very difficult for the old/elderly, no pension, no jobs etc for youths and worse for elderly.

  10. My only challenge is that I don’t understand Yoruba; I wish for subtitles so badly because of the way your facial expressions sir. Please subtitles; God bless you bro! That conjoined twins got me!

  11. It’s always a delight to listen to your chat, and to know that there are critical thinking people out there just like myself . I agreed with you 💯, thanks and stay blessed 👍