You Create Your #Relationship Reality! #datingcoach #love #datingadvice #datingtips #lifecoach #fyp
You Create Your #Relationship Reality! #datingcoach #love #datingadvice #datingtips #lifecoach #fyp
You have to pay attention to your relationship! Stop taking things personally and realize that it might be you!✨
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Just what I needed yo hear right this minute. Thank you 😊
Me when my gf breaks a glass bowl filled with Ceaser salad i just made — because it's not sold in my country and I had to source those ingredients individually and at premium prices — for her birthday dinner in the presence of her family and our friends because I didn't serve her dad's food on the special china like she wanted: Hey, this is affecting me. Can we do something different so it doesn't affect me in a negative way?
It is very important for people to understand what reality actually means. Reality is the cold hard truth, it is proven by science, observed by many, and those many will come to similar conclusions.
But if one person in a relationship is delusional, brainwashed by society, changed by trauma, or a personality disorder that gets in the way. Those people, create most of the problems, and also tend to become victims to situations they themselves created.
And as an adult man in his mid thirties. I'm so done dating women that don't live in reality. I'd say half of them live in their own fantasy reality with wishes, dreams and ambitions. And it creates an unstable foundation to build on. If she's ambitious, the likelihood of her being hypergamous are massively increased. If she dated many high value men, she might be convinced she at their level, yet forgets those relationships didn't last a month.
Or guys expecting women to uphold certain standards. Behave certain ways, dress certain ways, feel certain ways. Forgetting that the girl they are with is a full person, slightly different because she's from the opposite gender.
There is no "creating your reality" there is only: staying in reality. And sadly, a lot of women refuse to accept that. Because they don't live in reality.
You can't project/wish/summon/materialize your future. You need to start, build and work on something that works for you both. And avoid with certainty that one side is living in delusion, or at some point, the delusion will collapse and show reality for what it is. Which to them… will be disappointing. Which is on themselves.