WINE WEDNESDAY WITH XO : HOW OUR FRIENDSHIP ENDED + STEPMOM CAUSING FIGHTS + MORE

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WINE WEDNESDAY WITH XO : HOW OUR FRIENDSHIP ENDED + STEPMOM CAUSING FIGHTS + MORE

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  1. i love you so much Miss XO, this video has given me so much hope and not in just one aspect, in many and i just pray that the Lord continues to bless you abundantly in everything that you do. 🥹🫂❤️ Thank you so much Aunty Darlin ❤️

  2. OMG. So like I barely have the time to watch vlogs especially because a lot of people become boring and add very little value. I'd always watch yours when I crave vlogs and TODAY! Sana I am gonna be here every week to watch. Also, praying for a man has blessed me with the best relationship ever. God bless your journey my love.

  3. To the people who are confusing state with their partner and feel confused about the state of their relationship, pray, pray, pray, pray. I'm not a religious person in the sense of church going or assigned myself to "a religion". In my opinion having relationship with God and being religious I dont believe it tied together. (We can have an ongoing debate about this some other time.) But back to my point pray. Last year I left a 5 year relationship where I too like one of the anon felt like I was an after thought to this person, was not feeling the love, felt like I was being ignored. I prayed. A simple prayer. God if this man is not for me then remove him from my life, remove these string feelings and hold over me and give me the strength to leave. It took me about 6 months and I eventually left. It hurt like hell but today I am far better off. To show this man never really cared after his last text in July after being ignored for days and weeks then texted he wanted to release followed with a water imojee and a meme of sexually compromised picture of some random ppl, I never responded to i to this day. That was the day I walked away bcuz that was disrecpectful cause cacile I was the only one invested emotionaly in our relationship. I aalked away. Didnt ask or holler or make noise, I walked away and to show he never cared not once did he reach out to ask whats happening, my birthday came around nothing, taxi strike happened (CPT) not once dis he ask if im ok, safe or checking how I was getting to work. Point is prayer helps. Dont wait until some thing drastic or some thing extremey disrespectful happens. If you dont feel the love and you have tried your best, communicated your concerns but no change from him, dont be constantly repeating your self. He heard you but chose to ignore your concerns. Dont wait to be shown more than once that man dont want you. I learnt that the hard way. Inxaki we women want to fight, holler scream in his face etc. Leave, just leave with your sanity and isdima sakho in place, leave babes. Of that man or woman as Xoli says was meant for you would not be in such a confusing and hurtful place/relationship. This year I have told myself, struggle love will not be my fortei.

  4. 14:03 I cut of my friend of 10 years after Matric because she was toxic for me and she did not realize it . Moral of the story when you lose friends look at yourself . I mean observe yourself first❤ The bible says remove your speck first

  5. sometimes people cut you off because you did them wrong, you might be used to doing something to someone without knowing that what you doing is offends your friend because she never said that she doesn't like it. this person wont even talk to you about it, she will just cut you off. im that type of person that hold everything in and will cut you off over a simple thing. the whole time you think i cut you off for something simple kanti its from something you did 5 years ago that never set well with me. sometimes we think people cut us off and we don't understand why but most of the time, you caused this person so much hurt. not everyone is confrontational, others would rather remove themselves from people and situations than talking about it. as for me, when i cut a person off best believe that its a build up of things its never just one thing.