Why should a Woman share her Wealth with her Man?
Why should a Woman share her Wealth with her Man?
Why should a Woman share her Wealth with her Man? is a helpful YouTube Live stream into this interesting topic. This is one to enjoy and share with others.
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I cannot give a man I'm dating a single kobo of my hard earned cash (if I had any). I will pay for entertainment and food on occasions, gifts on special days, etc..but cash? absolutely not!
Even if you have a committed partner, have an agreement about what percentage of your incomes to put into a joint account for the household monthly budget and other monthly expenses. Things can get ugly whenever money is concerned. And not everyone is responsible with money. Why would you let someone bankrupt you because you have given them access to all your money and they either make nonsensical business decisions or spend it on other people?
What happens if things don't work out and he empties the joint account and makes you destitute, despite the fact that you contributed equally to that account? A relationship may be nice and rosy in the beginning, but turn vitriolic in no time at all. One must always look out for oneself…This is a cautionary tale…
Yes, he is certainly encouraging divorce when the relationship is dead.
If you cannot share your wealtj with the man you are currently in a relationship with, he is not the man you really want.
Marriage is a social and emotional business enterprise.
If you cannot trust them to be financially faithful, then can you trust them at all?
It’s not easy leaving marriage when children are involved, while growing up and saw what my mum was going through, I told her why did she remain married to my dad. I couldn’t understand her explanation, but now I do. I’m in unhappy relationship but can’t leave because of my children.
I have never been happy in my marriage, our pastor has come in to help and some friends and they are all surprised at his attitude.
It got a point I wanted to take my life as it’s seems impossible for me to leave the relationship.
Most women stay in relationships to keep appearances and not necessarily for their kids as they say.
"What will people say…"
In 2020 how can a woman not have the money to do anything for herself? Those were the old days when women depend solely on her husband for provision and all she did was cook clean procreate raise children and be her husband's accessory when they were in public 😳 🤔.
My husband worked until he became ill 10 years ago.
We managed because we both recognise it is wise to invest in our future, before hand because you don't realise what lies in the future.
We invested in property as he became ill and unable to work before the full plans could materialise he took I'll.
We sold some of our properties to cover our bills.
Now we manage by moving in to a tenanted property rent upstairs and stayed downstairs.
The pension age went up which I rely ed on . I now have to wait 6 years more.
Sometimes in suffering pain he forces work but we manage.
It's my duty to care my man.I don't force him.
When he manages to work he pays some bills which I appreciate and gives me money which I accept.
We still pay bills abroad for ourselves because we also have our home abroad.
I would let go of him if he abused my trust.
Emotional trust in your partner is very important. Respects is more in a relationship than love.
I have told my husband I respect you and prefere your respect regardless of this LOVE thing.
LOVE is a game for a person who will be taken advantage of. I love him obviously but RESPECT IS HIGHLY FAVOURED OVER LOVE.
WE ARE BLESS AND HIGHLY FAVOURED.
I PRAY REGULARLY OVER OUR FAMILY AND OUR RELATIONSHIP.
Staying in a relationship because of the children is teaching the children to accept abuse.
They got it wrong!!! The BIBLE does support Separation Not Divorce.
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Well said sir.
You are very analytical, but you're oblivious to the realities, that one cannot just leave a marriage, given it is costly, may end up being homeless, real estate being so expensive, and taxes. Had it been easy to leave, many would have. Granted, some ppl try to work on things, but stress, debt, and finance is destroying families. To buy a house in the UK, including taxes and lawyers fees, you need a million pounds. That doesn't include maintaining that home. Plus food etc. Women crave for security, so they wait until the right time appropriate, especially when young kids are involved, and no physical assault is involved, which puts their life in danger. That's the practicality of relationship overall
A woman's patience & tolerance is like that of a donkey. Most women endure hell from husbands/boyfriends. They've mastered to exist in the same space & NOT DESTROY THEIR CHILDREN'S FAMILY. BUT they are Emotionally, Psychologically, Physically & Financially DETACHED FROM their partner to PROTECT THEMSELVES
The pastor who says the Bible does not support divorce is clear not fully educated in the bible. The Bible gives teaching on when divorce is permissible. The Bible is against Divorce with no real reason, because in that case why get married. The Bible says it's better to be single.
I agree with phrankleen
Good job… You right, lots of negative vibes
My Dad was not verbally nor physically abusive but he was useless..didn’t contribute financially to the family a;though he had a great job and all four of us told my Mum she should walk and we would go with her in a blink of an eye..she never did and he apparently had a side bitch..what a waste..that’s why I have no tolerance for bullshit..my time is valuable and I don’t give second chances where my heart is concerned..if you cheat..you’re done..best believe I will make sure the door hits you where the good Lawd split ya!
whats your email address , i need to ask some questions
It is hilarious to hear women who could never get a man to commit to them for marriage give marital advice! These desperados should stop this madness now! These men know your likes. Sorry for yourselves🕊
Most of the African(Nigerian) women n men stay because of
1.what people will say
2.Staying for the sake of the children
3.wanting to want the title"married"
4.Fear of the unknown
5.Religion,Tradition,etc.
I could go on n on………
Thanks for this lovely teaching. Wake up time. Enough is enough.
According to Yoruba tradition, a man cannot expect money from a woman. That's why marriage is rubbished today. It was to the point that a man could not even inherit from his wife if she died. Her children inherit.IF no children , her closet relative, if no relative, the government. Why was this? It was to stop women from getting hurt, cheated or killed. Our ancestors were smart. This was before islam or oyinbo form of Christianity .
You stay in that relationship because you don't want to be a statistic on the divorce list. It's for face value
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I just appreciate your eloquence bro…..real topic, affecting each one of us and dropping gems👌🏽👌🏽
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Marriage is a partnership , both couples have to know they are coming together to build a home
What I can draw from this convo is for people to understand each other
Yo phrankleen nice video
Anyone telling you the story in a relationship are always the innocent party in the relationship.
A lot of women are afraid to be alone. Having a husband does not complete you, having children will not complete you. Having a life that you find fulfilling is what should be your goal and that fulfillment can present in many ways. Society has made women believe that if you are over 30 and have no husband then they are nothing. I actually cant blame society, I blame these women who believe that nonsense. I hope women can get some self esteem and choose partners they can establish mutual loving relationships with and not any partner just to show off and claim to have a husband.And for those who choose to stay in a horrible marriage for the sake of the children, I will tell you this as a social worker who has worked with children for years, you are damaging them. Children are not dumb, they see the mistrust, the sadness, the abuse, the unfaithfulness and as parents you are setting an example for the type of relationship they will accept for themselves as adults. Its better for a healthy single parent to raise children than for an unhealthy two parent home. Children are a lot smarter than people, don't underestimate them.And one more thing, I say this as a Christian, I think people that choose to take everything the pastor says as gospel make a mockery of God. God gave you and the pastor the same brain, if your marriage is toxic why would you choose to stay in it even if the pastor says you should. If you need prayers for God to give you insight as to how to exit your situation then go and pray yourself there is no need to involve the pastor. God does not choose to listen to the pastors prayers over yours, he listens to all prayers. Critical thinking is essential.
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Agree with your point champ 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Yes Phrankleen, I agree with you, you can't force a man to love you,..is better to walk out of the relationship, than to commit suicide or die in a dead relationship. Thanks so much Phrankleen.
A woman should never give money to a man that isn't her husband.
Now once you marry things change.
Here in the U.S. a lot of black women make more money than black men. And the most successful marriages are the ones where at some point the man comes up with a good business idea & brings it to the wife they work the plan; at some point when its feasible he quits his day job to fully work the business; she continues working her day job until its feasible for her to stop and start working in the "family" business.
I encouraged divorce if the relationship is toxic
For any relationship to work out, it must be a "threesome": Both parties have to love and be passionate about each other, and then find a goal that they are both equally passionate about.
One thing I don't like about African men is that they seem to be overly focused on the woman's money. Why ? You really need to know the sort of person that you are planning on entering a relationship with. If he is the type that his every reference is about money (especially yours), then you should move on. I'm not saying that you can't pool your resources together but that should be secondary behind the love he has for her. I just read today that Jason Njoku's wife, Mercy Njoku, has just sold her company, ROK studios, to Canal+ (the French equivalent of the BBC), one of the rare exits that occur on the African continent. Jason, founder of IrokoTV, and his wife make for a dynamic duo and are a fantastic example of what can be achieved when you have two partners supporting each other and working together for the future of their family. Finances should not be the be and end all.
Huhh 🙄 excuse me sir 🙋🏽♀️but his money is our money and my money is my money 💰 😜😂😂 periodt….
You are right bro, I left an abusive marriage and my pastor sister is laughing at me and calling me a divorcee. I am now happily married ( married him in Africa and brought him over) and have cut my pastor sister out of my life. I cut her children out of my will as well👍👍
Marriage is not for wicked people.. those who are in marriage know exactly what am talking about.
When you are in a relationship, you both have to be open about your finances and decide whether you want to entangle your finances.
If you are married, however, there is no way, your finances would not merge at some point. And you will suffer each other's financial management or mis-management.
You both have to have an open, honest conversation about your finances.
Women said their husband's money is their money but their own money is their own personal money. Hello
Facts
Hmmm, so much to say but just being discrete.
You couldn't say it better, Phrankleen.
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Without offending anyone Iwill not share my money with aman here in Africa itried I invested a lot even when he wasn’t working iwas patient but when he financially got stable that’s when issues started he got his new wife and now am alone I left with zero but only children now I have to start afresh it’s hard for me to deal with all the expenses .😫😫😫😫😫😫😫
I WILL FIRST ANSWER THE QUESTION BEFORE VIEWING , It's NO NO. HE WILL BENEFIT FROM IT AS LONG AS THEY LIVE TOGETHER BUT SHARE IT NO NO, HE WILL GO MARRY ANOTHER WOMAN, BUT WOMAN DO NOT REMARRY MOSTLY FOR THE SAKE OF OUR KIDS