Why is dating so DIFFICULT today?

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Anna Bey

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Why is dating so DIFFICULT today?


Dating has become a nightmare, but why is that? I will reveal the reasons why modern dating is such a mess, and what you can do to find your partner. Tomorrow I’m hosting a 5-day level up bootcamp, start your level up journey with me here: https://levelupbootcamp.me/

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  1. So true and I'm certainly grateful that I got out of the dating scene so quickly (by getting married early.) I disagree that there was a time when women were enslaved to men. Cooking and raising children and keeping home is absolutely not enslavement. Women are more enslaved to their bosses and their bosses and their schedules than they ever were when the pressure of work was absent. Some men are stupid enough to not see the value of homemaking and femininity and they only see the value of the paycheck. Nu joining thenwork force women are just enforcing these flawed values. If a man can't honour and respect the woman's role as mother and wife, he's not worth your while. I despise when either men or women praise me for my professional successes all while demeaning the years I spent at home raising and educating children….I'd also warn against dating myltiple men at once. Engage in discussions or projects but absokutely do not got emotionally involved with anyone unless you have good reason to believe thats a worthwhile investment.

  2. all women are chasing the top 1% of men until they can no longer even get the bottom 1% of relationship oriented guys. Work and school are off the table for men so what does that leave? bars/apps

  3. 3:08 😂😂😂😂😂😂 You were even smirking when you said it.

    -98% of men lose on dating apps.

    -Men are the only ones that pay on dating apps and you don’t keep your payers paying by giving them results.

    Online dating is a buffet of men ENTIRELY meant for women.

  4. 💪🏻💪🏻 exaaaactly! All of the above! Hate dating apps- and am stuck in being out alot in different places but most cant hear nor see- those senses have been replaced by a phone screen and pods🤦🏼‍♀️ totally draining

  5. "Men are more visual than women. Women want men with personality traits like humor…"

    I used to think this, and then online dating happened. Men swipe right on virtually anything with legs. Women swipe left on 80% of profiles, and that's why online dating is dying. Most men are abandoning it, and women complain because they're getting used and abused by visually appealing psychopaths because they won't give any other kind of man the time of day.

  6. Maybe if women want to meet men and they expect men to make the first move then maybe they should not be mean to the ones who do. Punishing people to doing something means that they do less of it.

  7. I think that a huge problem is that so many women have had sex with so many man that they can no longer pair bond or fall in love. So, with no real attachment, they go from man to man looking for fun, entertainment and sex…until something new comes along. Without being able to make an emotional attachment, they will have a very hard time being able to commit long term and make a relationship work.

  8. Women who are successful in their careers are actually less attractive to men. So all these women who have made it, and now think that they deserve a man who has made it, have not taken into consideration that their work success is not going to get them a better man.

  9. Very few of us will ever have the perfect house or the perfect job…so why should be expect the perfect man? That is simply unrealistic. Those who demand perfection are in 99% of cases going to end up being disappointed. If you want to find the perfect man, a woman is going to have to be realistic. That is also true of men…but women seem to have a hard time understanding this reality. Some women have such a long and demanding list that is seems that they almost do not want to find anyone.

  10. Far too many women have impossible standard for the perfect man…while at the same time women seem to be unaware of their own huge unresolved faults which makes dealing with them some where between very difficult or impossible.

  11. I don't want to date, men have been too violent towards me. So I decided to travel all over the world and find the perfect person. Haven't travelled yet so I might never get married. As for the deed, I will never have sex with anyone again so help me Jesus. I experienced too much astral rape so I hate any intimacy with a man because of rape and sexual assault on astral plane. Also, I only want to marry really tall guys, 6ft, who are English or Asian. Because I didn't date those types I got out of the dating scene about ten years ago, maybe eleven years now. No sex for eleven years more or less, I don't know how to get back into the mood so I stay out of it. Jesus Christ will return very soon and words cannot explain how glad I am that I didn't get married. If I was married I wouldn't be able to devote as much time to Jesus Christ as I wanted to. My entire life is based on my love for Jesus, so I'm glad that I got this privilege.

  12. I hate to admit this but I do judge a man by his looks. He does not need to be model perfect at all, but he does need to be healthy, fit and take care of his appearance. I am. It attached to unfit or overweight men regardless of their bank account and character. This is not something I am proud of but it is important to me since I am physically active myself.

  13. Everyone expects some "spark" on first contact. No one allows for growing a connection.

    Getting someone to go onto a first date for just coffee is ridiculously hard. Most will turn down and make some excuse. It's like…what do you honestly have going on tonight that prevents you from going on the date? More re-runs on Netflix? A long sulk? Drinking alone? Why not just go on the date? And…Martin Luther forbid…maybe go on another one since most people probably won't perform that well on a first date anyways?

    I know I am suggesting something radical…but I gotta try 😅

  14. The most shocking thing I've encountered while dating is undiagnosed mental illnesses. That was something. Makes you feel hopeless because someone can be a gentleman but if there's an undiagnosed mental illness it will destroy the joy in the relationship.

  15. its good to be alone u can dedicate ur time however u like is it gym & cooking or playing a guitar also work is great place to communicate with people and i just know that i am not dating material i always think women can find better men even when beautiful females ask me when i gonna take them out on a date just kindly reject them because i dont want to waste their time on me they have their life i have mine thats simple as it gets. Selecting a partner is one of the hardest thing to do in life and i don't want interfere with other people finding them.

  16. Small town or villages . at least in england are the worst for singles! Everyone is either, alredy married, or in a long term relatioship with their sweet heart or, the man are gay (in the cupboard still) so, nope. Not looking at your phine, yes, but everyone else still looking at their phones and by not dong it, all you so is to notice that no one does eye contact !