Why I left my white hubby and lost my UK visa after 4 months of moving in

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Why I left my white hubby and lost my UK visa after 4 months of moving in


Tess Ogamba, a lively and driven young woman, believed she’d found true love with a dashing man from the UK. But soon, her world began to unravel, and she lost pieces of herself along the way. Join us as Tess shares her powerful story of love, loss, and the fight to rediscover her true self. Tune in for an unforgettable journey!

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@Tuko

What message do you have for Tess Ogamba ?
You can reach her through her tiktok account ‪https://www.tiktok.com/@tess_ogamba?_t=8plJQj9ijqg&_r=1

Her YouTube channel is:https://youtube.com/@tessogamba?si=SZ59AH0IWig5brSN

To share your story with us, send a message to our WhatsApp number: 0115106407.

Or email us through: yvonne.kawira@tuko.co.ke or eucabeth.mukami@tuko.co.ke.

@Deedor72

Thanks for sharing your most vulnerable moments. Did you ever reunite with your siblings who your step dad left with?

@LyndahBro

This interview is bogus the fact that she didn't mention what the man did. Generalising everything to DV and narcism doesn't justify your claims. You're just a loser who was expecting heaven on earth from that man.

@SamueMwangi-p5o

I am an introvert. Crying is our med.we love wholly but we don't get love as much as we give. Very strong ❤

@MiaAnena22

Peace is everything

@nataliamutilifa

After listening to your story you are strong dear you nkow who you're i salute you for leaving that marriage.

@phillipinachari8872

What a warrior ua gal…jus proud of who ua .u story has inspired mi alot

@tmuguro

Truthfull girl,,,,nice.

@DrMosesOnyango

I used to THINK that The Kenya High School PRODUCES A students – largely into STEM courses – they move to top IVY LEAGUE institutions. WHY would a Kenya High graduate be looking for Wazungu online..??. The problem with this people is LACK OF ACCOUNTABILITY and GREED. It is that simple, Ladies take the STAIRS, the ELEVATOR might be faster and easier – but such things never last

@Du-Rango

You wanted a flashy life to show case kwa internet friends back home, shenzi type kula ujeuri yko .

@phil5689

This girl is not telling us the truth, her story is so inconsistent with her past you tube videos where she described the husband as having a Beard and mucus running on her nose, Home office is very serious with this marriages that are met online, and to them it's a red flag. The girl just wanted an easier route to UK through fraudulent marriage. If at all she got her permanent residence or indefinite leave to remain in the UK, then why did she pack her belongings and come back to Kenya? In UK she would have gone to college free of charge, she would have secured a good paying job and further her goals, but she states that she locked her apartment in london and left, so who pays for her rent in London? And if she has already secured a job and and apartment in Nairobi, what was the purpose for the UK residency? It's to my believe this liar will not be flying back to UK anytime in the future, her spousal visa was cancelled due to the fact that the home office deemed her marriage as fraud, and lastly i hope she remembers being told not to tell her story on YouTube because it may compromise her spousal visa appeal, and she even deleted some of those videos, i am from Fish ponds in Bristol UK and your story is not true, you were forced to leave UK. If a foreigner gets married to a British citizen you have to abode together for five years and failure to meet those requirements is canceled spousal visa, and the fact that home office learnt you guys met online is also a disadvantage to you and a serious red flag by the home office.

@gracemwanza1106

I can relate came for something else here in uk and eish it’s a whole different place.

@kennethkiptoo9431

This mzungus are sex predators kwanza wanapenda matako they will really mess you up wasichana wetu fear this mzungu men

@emmanuelgbetuwa5472

Sad that things did not go well for you in the UK. The lesson to learn from your traumatic experience is that you need time to know someone before getting married to them.
In my opinion, you both were not ready or prepared to make it work. You are young, beautiful and confident. So, don't let this experience affect your attitude to men and marriage

@Mamaafrica-r9r

Life happens. Pole for your experience, may God heal and restore you.

@inty-l8e

Why the hell is this woman using the F word and sh**?? Tuko is an honourable family show?? This is disghusting, shame on her!!

@wa_njiru749

I love how she's solution oriented.she isn't the type to wallow in her problems and complain about everything

@mercykaranja6726

Tess your courage, resilience will take you to great places.

@gracekadegbite971

No offense…I do not think that the she was ready for marriage.
She said never really said what the husband did.
I felt felt a bit depressed when I moved to England at first, but felt a lot better and acclimatised when I had settled down. England is now my favourite Country to live in.

@Lelowalk

I understand Tessa was abused by her husband. I feel bad as a woman. Women are not men’s toys.
What I fail to understand is why did she not return to Kenya after she was rescued by the police.
I do not get that bit.

@mmabe7577

Jeeesus! Speak for yourself lady. Life is what you make of it. The problem is YOU. Not England. I've been here for 25 years and it was hard in the beginning but I persevered. I agree home is good or better, but I'm NOT depressed. I've had the most amazing opportunities.

@euniceketer7676

This girl is brilliant my God! What a brain.

@fleviahella9818

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@Massaone6676

Living abroad is not for the weak, you must train yourself to learn to be strong alone.

@naburgr

So fake this story 😢

That's online relationship for you

@meagain9649

Not UK let's call it YUK

@meagain9649

You leaving that hell hole is a BLESSING

@seritikhabisi7969

I thank God bcoz I never liked to stay and work in foreign countries coz I hate stress and discrimination. Immigrants never find peace and freedom in other people's countries as they experience stress and being hated by citizens of foreign countries. I want to be free and happy in my life and you will only get happiness in home country not foreign country and its real.

I don’t understand the concept of needing some space when you are married .

@anneanjao7008

Tuko, find a way to block curse words or swear words.

@chepkiruilangat9725

This is good

@chepkiruilangat9725

Let's be informed

@chepkiruilangat9725

UK

@chepkiruilangat9725

Yeah

@modikiramaisa4619

I wish her healing and I hope she regains all she lost and then some

@kingmaafa120

Now pls change your hair back to its original ❤African color

Otherwise be blessed 😮

@andreacamille3918

That man is a narcissist 😢 am sorry for the next woman he meets

@mandaechesi2027

Why do Kenyan women like white men from any part of the world ?Watched a YouTube where a lady sent to the UK to study was instructed by her mum to marry a white man before coming back.😮

@jacklinenyangasi1367

The way I pray one to go there to work anyway sorry for what you went through

@Ronila-ul5gp

LIVING abroad is not for faint hearted the loneliness culture shock, , people think when you move abroad bread and red wine awaits you , all you meet is depression , racism

@Eniola0ne

Many don't know some poor miserable Muzungu run to Kenya to go look for desperate, obessive Kneya girl. Because many know, Kenyan women worship Muzungu. Who is the Dirt Muzungu, that always runs to Kenya. Kenyan women have to take it easy, I withness many terrible lives some Kenyan women went through, in the name marrying. In Kenya, marrying is like status.

@kristycuthberts7073

A good lesson to all black ladies who think marrying a white person means more happiness. There are some out there who still think the black race is beneath them and must be treated as second class. I've heard so many sad stories from women who thought they would be happier settling with a different race

@dianahndiritu6752

What's the point of giving a story without details?

@zeanattlogzine5679

It doesn't have sound 😢

@annienderitu215

❤ I love you tess