Why Do So Many BLACK MOTHERS HATE THEIR DAUGHTERS? The Mother Wound Explained
Why Do So Many BLACK MOTHERS HATE THEIR DAUGHTERS? The Mother Wound Explained
On this episode, you get to meet Jennifer Arnise, an author and guide who helps black women navigate toxic relationships with their mothers. Jennifer shares her personal experiences and insights into the complex trauma that stems from strained mother-daughter relationships. The conversation delves into the “mother wound” and its impact on…
source
Reviews
0 %
EyE have many words, but the pain won’t let them come out. 🥹
I truly thought that I was the only one who was being abused like this. This is sad.
My mother has hated me all of my life. She treated me horrible when I was a little girl, yet treated my brothers perfectly. I believe my mother hated me because my father loved me, and she looked at me as if I had taken her husband from her. It was always mental abuse. Teasing me, belittling me. Etc. I had begun to hate her. She was my worst enemy. I'm 59 now, and I honestly don't want anything to do with her.
18:33 amen
they take no accountablilty
all boomers moms should be put in jail, they are generation that got away with alot .
10:13 I want to say that I'm not hearing her story in her description of a mother wound. I'm hearing a feminist story. She said her family were sharecroppers. Not saying that being a woman classified as black does not have "disparities." But, being a sharecropper left no room for either male or female to dream in parity of fair pay, getting a loan or buying a home. I'm just saying. I have two sides and four stories too. And the narratives are opposite.
I'm a man, this conversation really drops gems and helpful for me
Great topic… very prominent issues
I laughed out loud so many times lol ! Such a real raw interview ! Good job to you both !
This was such therapy for me to hear that I am not the only one who has a strained relationship with a mother. I feel so guilty at times for not initiating calls anymore. I'm now 52 years old and over it. My dad was the love and hell of my mother's life. I've been the curse of him all my life. At least that is how I've felt.
Some people can't heal from their past so it controls the present. I was not raised by my mother so that could be a void for me?? My father died 2 years ago in hospice at my home and my mother never picked up the phone and called me. She didn't speak to me for 8 mo. because she didn't care for the obituary and picture selection. It did not shine a light bright enough on her. His ex-wife of 47 years ago. As a mother myself, I know how hard I love children. It's very hard for me to wrap my heart and mind around our relationship, so I stay my distance.
Thank you for this discussion Ladies. Blessings~
Our mother's are closer to the trauma of neo slavery than we are. Have compassion, find a a solution and create a program for them or say nothing. This is disgusting.
My time stamp is at about 22:23. Make this a private venue for black women only. How wise it for you to allow strangers in your cultural living room that you don't know? So much was stolen from us as a people. Young mother's are not the only one's that need healing. Our black men do too. I hope your next episode is less bias
It is sad to hear you publicly demean mother s with generational trauma. You need to evolve, detach and analyze like psychological doctor, not a daughter. Do not demean any of our women in public. Demeaning one of us, demeans all of us. We are being watched as a feminine collective. Get out of your feelings and think!
HATE & DADDYS GIRLS……Because the *daughters are examples [features, attitude, etc] of their *Fathers who dump MUM…[DIVORCE etc etc]… * "Apple doesn't fall far from the tree…✍🏿🇻🇨🇻🇨🇬🇧
Wonderful and Informative discussion Thank You
Real talk Success as a trauma response 😢
❤
This topic is so disheartening to admit I’m listening to.
I AM NOW 64 and I’m in spiritual healing from a narcissistic mother.
I’m so glad I happened upon this conversation. Wow 😮, this was such a great and constructive discussion. I was able to do a lot of reflection. I’m 65 now, and my mom’s been gone now for 8 or 9 years. But throughout my adult life we had an unhealthy mother adult daughter relationship. I didn’t trip about it but was annoyed. It’s been since her death that I finally began to address our dysfunctional relationship. I suppose I didn’t concern myself so much about it when she was alive because I was not going to let her be a drag on my spirit. Now that she’s gone, I have developed more compassion for the trauma in her life that I didn’t focus on while she was alive in order to protect myself. Hopefully I make sense. Thank y’all for the dialogue 👍🏽.
The Queen in the Pink is 1 million % correct….
This good talk I have 2 daughter 26, & 14, Thats very rebellious however my 26 year old daughter have 2 kids and I have custody of my grandkids and she treat me like shit…. I don’t want nothing to do with her and my youngest daughter following her footsteps … I try to do everything in my power to keep her from going down that path but she don’t listen I just pray and ask god to cover them and protect them and this crazy world …
This is so true, Women have been at war with each other forever, including our Mothers.
These mothers will try amd live their unfulfilled lives through their daughters and resent and hate you all the time.
Peace and Love to all my Queen Sisters….😊
WOW! I have a similar memory regarding the mommy dearest movie. I can't watch that movie today and I'm 61 years old.
My daughter hates me! I dont hate her. We were close up until about 8 years ago. She's 43 now. I have tried for many years to mend our relationship but it only last if im doing something for her. Its never anything more than an opportunity for her to get what she can get. She's intelligent and was given all the opportunities to be successful in her life. We basically took care of her and our granddaughter who is now 17 years old. For some reason out of no where last March she stopped talking to us again. I have tried but you get to a point where you have to let whats going to be be! I pray for her and hope that they are doing well but i can't do it anymore. When she's ready to talk I'll be here.
Very powerful video 💯💥✔️ Thank you Beautiful Queens 🙏🏾
🗣. 📢. It's not that black mothers hate their daughters 🗣. 📢. What it is Jealousy Because their daughters
🗣. 📢. Start moving a different way And they can't accept It. 🗣. 📢. A lot of times mothers like to lean on their daughters to be babysitters. Housekeeper