WHY BLACK MEN DON'T DATE BLACK WOMEN ???

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Terri Abney

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WHY BLACK MEN DON'T DATE BLACK WOMEN ???


Someone asked me why black men dated women over sea’s and other? Stating the heard black women are hard to approach. I made a video called why black men date other….and The brothers pulled up in the comments and are showing out – I love it and appreciate your comments – I could feel there anger, frustration, they were vulnerable and…

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  1. Trauma and mental/ physical abuse. All the nerdy black guys i know told me they werent black enough or hood enough so they date outside their race for comfort/ happiness. Also i suppose black women have a temper problem like i suppose it's like being yelled at without actually being yelled at. Honestly this division will never change because young and older black men will only see black women as a nuisance while black women will onlh see black men as self-haters. My only advice is to find good black people who are uplifting and inspiring but thats slime to none. I blame rap music and hood culture for this but i also blame willy-lynch/ divide and conquer for this as well

  2. The constant shifts and lack of thematic consistency in your content make it challenging for viewers to connect. It creates a sense of chaos, making your content less attractive. Consider introducing more structure and coherence to present a polished and engaging image, enhancing your appeal to a wider audience… also food for thought.. mental illness should never be underappreciated 😏. Men will take advantage of a woman like you based on a lot of symptoms you're displaying in this video. Your issue is you, and it's obvious. Every man watching this knows what I'm implying. Your mental status is why you're being avoided.

    Sincerely,
    Tough love

  3. I've changed my mind about dating white women because my little brother I've told me the dark truth about them & I've changed my mind about dating black women Too because someone I've told me about the dark truth about them Too 😢

  4. My young beautiful Sista, your message and deliverance is what our people EXTREMELY need

    EMPATHY, GRACE and UNDERSTANDING

    the same attributes we extend to the white race irregardless of the countless times they show who they are to us.

  5. I’ll tell you the reason as a black men I don’t date black women. There other ethnicities I haven’t dated or spoken with. Ladies some men have preferences for one women or multiple women. Men like variety. I will say this first all ethnicities of women are beautiful black included. So whether she be lightskin, darkskin black woman doesn’t matter. When I was younger I usually went for Darkskin black women first. Now as an adult man being 24 not so much. I don’t speak to you guys anymore in terms of romance. Now as a a lightskin black man people would tell me all the time I wasn’t black enough. I have noticed a lot of colorism in the black community. I heard that more so in my life from black girls growing up. When I spoke proper grammatical English I was told I’m acting white. I’m not black because I’m lightskin which never made sense to me 🤷🏽‍♂️. From as easily as being in 6th grade to up until college I have heard words from you guys that I have not heard from other ethnicities of women. Black women are the only women I know who call black men the n word. Calling men that you love n words is emasculating, degrading, wrong, insulting. Any ethnicity of women can be argumentative. However I do tend to see more so between black couples argue the most. I’ll give an example my mom and dad since as early as I can remember have been arguing my whole entire life. When I was 7 years old I saw my mom and dad fight in the kitchen and she threw something at a window. Cops later came so as a young black boy I knew from that age that I didn’t want to date a woman the same skin color like me. Granted I grew up and I have encountered other ethnicities of women that argue. Still I see it more with black couples. I know not all black women do it but I’ve seen enough and encountered some that have said stuff not so nice about black men. Especially to me it wasn’t nice but I just moved on with my life. No other ethnicities of women say it 👀👀👀👀. Constantly saying you love black men while calling us n words is not a form of love. It just isn’t right to say and unfortunately you guys don’t understand that. When you guys say things like “ YOUR OUR MEN”. Those words absolutely terrify me because you’re implying that you own us. As a black man I will not be treated as property. It’s very reminiscent to slavery to me. Treating me as if you own me because we share the same skin color. As a black man I do not own black women at all. You guys are not “ OUR WOMEN”. You are free to do whatever you want. Date whoever you like whether he be black or another ethnicity. I want black women to be happy. So if you see a black man date out his race let him be please. It’s not like you wanted him anyway so let him date what he likes. A grown man is going to date whatever ethnicity of woman he wants and if that bothers you as a woman you just gonna have to deal with it no matter what his race is🙇🏽‍♂️🙇🏽‍♂️🙇🏽‍♂️. Shaming tactics ain’t gonna work so saying things like he hates himself, your momma black, sellout, race traitor ain’t gonna stop a man. I as a man don’t care what ethnicity a person dates whether they be black, white, Spanish or any ethnicity. It could be a man or woman it does not matter. Thats a grown adult so I just mind the business and live my life in peace. As for the women I want to date. I particularly like Asian, Spanish, White women. That doesn’t mean the other ethnicities of women aren’t still beautiful. They are still beautiful so I wish them the best. I hope this was constructive. Also please understand this has been my life experiences as a black man that’s lightskin.

  6. Who's emasculating black men? No one watching this video experienced what happened during slavery. Stop using it to try and make yourself look educated. You look weak.

  7. Black women are who have raised most black men from babies. Black mothers have let there boys see them be whores, and without realizing in his future he want have the same care, love or protective feelings for women that he naturally would have.(It is a way of betrayal from first woman's love)

  8. ive been thru my fair share but i wld like to thank u sista for making me second guess our lost sistas. im aware we all were a part of the struggle, jus seems like we dont get our respect or just due. bm vs bw per say. i subbed…thank u.

  9. The way I see it as a black American man is that the Black american man is the only man that has to be perfect when it comes to black American women; but now men of other races that you black American women date don't have to be perfect. Also most of you black american women don't want to build with a Black american man you want it now. Black women are the only ones who call building struggle love. I married a Latina from Velenzuela and I could not be happier.Also now days black american women are not raised or trained to be wives. Many black american women have too much masculine energy.Many many black american are getting their passports and finding happiness overseas.