Why are some AFRICAN WOMEN selfish in the DIASPORA?

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Why are some AFRICAN WOMEN selfish in the DIASPORA?


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  1. Typically, people don't rebel from what they think is a good deal. You're describing symptoms of a deeper problem. The deeper problem is Black men in the West have little to no power compared to the white patriarchy in the West, Patriarchy is a dying status that even White women are against to the point of white men complaining, and many Black men often bow down to White men and then top that with problematic views on how they treat their women thinking it's the traditional African way and not a colonized African mindset adopting unhealthy views of women from the Arabs and Europeans via their religions and cultural influences. Yes, there is internalized racism, but there is not a counter pro black movement of significance in the UK that promotes Black excellence , a unified Black singular identity and commitment to each other. Furthermore, if Black women are weaponized against BM in the UK by using the legal system, Black men are weaponized against Black women and children in the UK through criminality and helping to be destructive elements of the Black community via gangs, drug use, drug selling, sex trafficking, and so on. Both groups will be used against one another and the Black community. So, both sides need to get it together.

  2. Phrankleen, African men also need some teaching. Many African men marry good women but mistreat them so badly, I'm an African woman and I have seen this over and over again. Why do they think that as soon as a woman becomes a wife it's the time to start mistreating her. The women leave these toxic relationships, move on with their children, struggle through life and managed to stand on their feet. The men come later to apologize and claim "I don't know why I was doing it".

  3. Weapization of the black woman against the black man, YES, this is true. Even the agenda of the girl child was to destroy the black man. During that drive of promoting the girl child, what happened to the boy child????

  4. Good day brother. You've touched on the Willie Lynch letter. In this letter, it outlined how the white slave master can divide the black man and woman. They did it by putting one against the other; by skin color (light vs dark) and by pitting young vs old against each other. We see all of the above today. We also see native Africans being pitted against African Americans.

  5. Our men need to be educated on fatherhood and marriage just as the woman has been taught.our men are abusive,they want to subdue every African woman around them because they have been thought to subdue and conquer,no sane woman will love to loose an excellent man,let our men stop thinking that they can get away with everything because they're head and neede by the woman.sir, please make your research, check history and records, because the plague in the diaspora is women saying no to this wickedness from our culture.you have no idea what some women are enduring just to stay married.some of our brothers even goes home occasionally to cheat while the woman is working her ass off,some men due to pride are selective of the kind of jobs to do but wants to control their wife's sweat.

  6. If he gave her a “dirty slap” EVER, good on her for escaping in whatever way she has..

    I notice Nigerian men.. African men in general (?), encourage you to be long suffering with his maltreatment of you. Don’t talk to anyone but “family” and that same family is compelling you to long suffer as well. Where is the correction for men to be TRUE “men of God”? NOT adulterous, NOT abusive, to be providing, etc.

    It’s all abusive and shameful conditioning.

  7. African women in the diaspora are selfish…hmmm have you seem what the African man has and continues to do the the African women in the Diaspora. Interestingly you have forgotten. There is no need to have the conversation because the African men believe he is beyond reproach for the sexism, physical & emotional abuse, femicide, mutilation, trafficking , s3x as a weapon of war….etc.. and YES sexism in not about white people. The barbaric treat of women at the hands of men is as old a time and much other than racism. It you as a man do not want to be subjugated, oppressed and controlled what makes you think women want or deserve such treatment. Be better men because at the end of the no one wants to be a slave we are sovereign humans isn't that what the African man says to the Caucasian man…and yet the African man does not think the African women deserve such sovereignty…smh

  8. I would say they want to know your business so they can compare their to yours to see if their life is better than yours. They couldn't give a darn about what you are going through.

  9. Phankleen, you’re not only a VERY INTELLIGENT & HUMOROUS African brother but you’ve indeed done a lot of social experimentations on humans as a whole I can tell. Please don’t stop giving us this content. I hold back on watching Netflix a whole weekend just to watch your content instead.

  10. Thanks for this education and priceless free flowing knowledge Phankleen , I’m back on board learning and enjoying all your content. I feel re-educated and refreshed in many ways with every video of yours. I would rather watch you all day,any day than anything else that doesn’t build me up wholly as a person.

  11. Why are some African women living in the Diaspora selfish?
    Simple reason is :
    Since Hunters have learnt to shoot without missing, Birds have learnt to fly without perching !
    Figure that out .

  12. Women are by nature the weakest link in the family
    The western agenda to destroy African men use women because African men are very strong and feared
    There's no race in the world that has strong males than African men so the jealousy and envy is real

  13. Relationship problems stem from selfishness. The relationship between women and men is a constant add and subtract, subtract and add. The family relationship between animals have more sense than the modern black family.

  14. I am an African woman in my 60's & proud to be African. But i have succedded due to white men, and have not seen any African man who has added value on me apart from the socially, eg music, dance & good conversion.

    So i advice my children to marry whites , cos they will protect & provide. I want my children to lead a comfortable life. And so does any mother.

    Most black males & their families have a toxic culture . U say it yourself.

  15. This agenda is not different from The black African Americans society, They will rather go the government and get money than having a man at home. Multiple fathers's children!
    I am just like you, Brother ! My wife, EE !, makes more money than Me, and I am a Clinician with Over 100K income, but I have no Problem! My wife a Jamaican Back ground, with USA Uni. Education!

  16. Eight out of African marriages ends in divorce! and Seven out of Ten are initiated by womenThe women! I thought it was only Ghanaians! I am 50/50, Ghana and a Nigerian, Yoruba. From WOFa. Ilorin, Kwara State!

  17. Well most of your points are actually true. But I think they are men out there who use woman to their own advantages in the UK. I have seen a woman who is on benefit and not happy she wants to go in pursuit of her career and develop herself but her husband refuses for his own selfish reasons just because he sees her as a competition. Each time she makes an attempt and job opportunities comes her way he belittles her saying the salary is not ok. Meanwhile he grabs any opportunities that comes his own way. ITS SO SAD THAT THE WORLD WE ARE TODAY MANY ARE SELF-CENTRED.

  18. Traditional African Woman =, COOK, CLEAN, LET ME BREED YOU INTO OBLIVION, LET ME CHEAT ON YOU, LET ME MAKE OUTSIDE CHILDREN, GIVE ME YOUR MONEY, DO NOT SPEAK ONLY LISTEN, NO TALKING BACK OR I WILL BEAT YOU. …..nope forget that🤷🏾‍♀️

  19. Phrankleen all of this women came from poverty stricken dysfunctional family, that is why they re so smart in inflicting pains on there husband. Jealousy envious evil competitor towards the husband

  20. So all I’m getting from this is that the African Woman doesn’t want to be beaten up, disrespected & cheated on dealing with his outside children, he could do whatever in WANTS IN AFRICA, WELL THE WHITE MAN SAID “NO” NOT ON HIS SOIL, take that shit back to AFRICA. YOU CANNOT TREAT THOSE AFRICAN WOMEN THE EXACT SAME WAY YOU TREAT THEM IN AFRICA. Y’all african males are diabolical and evil🙍🏾‍♀️

  21. Our black brothers need to be more strategic and less emotional when faced with such women. Women are smart, they read the terrain then deliberately provoke you so you csn react like an 'African man' i.e. with anger and emotion. Problem is in this part of the world such a reaction is the same as going to London zoo, get angry with the lions then jump into their enclosure to give the lioness a slap because you are angry. Either you or the lioness will not leave the enclosure in one piece. But if lions were invincible they would not end up in cages. They got their because while Lions are stronger tham men, men are smarter than Lions. We lose because women play smarter. If we are smarter we can win
    But you cant be smart when you are consumed with anger as it clouds your judgement

    Dont get mad. Get even. Go to court, look for her weak points and reveal them in court in a manner that shows you are trying to protect your kids from them. We all have weaknesses. You were married to her so you will know what she doesnt want the world to know. Use that in court. But when you are consumed in your 'African' anger how can you think straight. Thats what they want. She is using the law against you. Return the favour, use it against her. If she has left your life how is that a curse. Surely a toxic person removing herself from your life can only be a blessing. Go to court to get access to your kids. Thats all you need from her. The kids grow fast. Soon they will be adults and history 101 will say SHE walked out. You did NOT abandon them. That is what your grandkids will hear about grandma. Thats why they dont want you to have access to the kids. So they can write you our of their history.

    Our brothers need to be less emotional and more strategic. Dont be provoked, its a bait to destroy you. Dont abuse the police they are not on your side. Dont feel sorry for yourself, you can handle it, stay within the law, in the western world understanding the law is more powerful than money or guns. The law is an arse. Anyone can ride it. She knows your weaknesses, calm down and think of hers. You were married to her. You not only know where her skeletons are, you probably help hide some of them in the cupboard. Go to court and exploit that knowledge.

  22. Baba Phrankonero. Everything you have said is true.
    If you want to conquer a nation and you find it difficult,conquer the women first then you will use the women to destroy their men.

    Using our women against us is the trend now and brainwashing their own women never to marry us.

    Destroying our black little source of livelihood so we can end up in their factory as if we are in prison.

    I realize the triks is they don’t like to see us on their street but they love our strength that they use inside their factory with long overtime so we don’t have time for family.

    My advice is that every black man should go create any business that gives him money without relying on these folks. Then get back to Africa.

    We have seen the worst part of these folks that they don’t mean any good at all. So why should we force ourselves to stay with them?

    Walking my own way back to Africa.

    As for Black women,they do fall easily for the lies of these folks. They paint a picture of a lazy black man to you and you believe it’s a white man is your hero and you go against your black brothers.

    While In Africa ,that same black man was doing fantastic even having what a white folks can not have in his own country.

    Much to say but let me stop here.

  23. I hope you’re talking about men the way you are women. Although i came here based on the title which doesnt seem fair and balanced.
    You need to speak about what men do too. They're mostly not innocent.

  24. The worst part is most of these wicked women are found in churches. They quote scriptures and pray heaven and earth but very evil once church service is over. I have them in my famliy and outside the family as well.