When to Leave a Relationship, Why People Cheat, Playing Hard to Get & Listener Q&A with Dr. John
When to Leave a Relationship, Why People Cheat, Playing Hard to Get & Listener Q&A with Dr. John
Dr. John Delony is a mental health expert who offers guidance on relationships, anxiety and wellness on his hit podcast The Dr. John Delony Show. He joins the show to answer all of your pressing relationship questions including when you should leave a “good” partner, how to balance not settling with realizing nobody is perfect, why men…
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This was a beautiful discussion, thanks
Cheating is a flaw in someone's character, they have no integrity plain and simple
I'm 10 minutes in and Dr. John has already hit like 17 home runs!!!
Because they are liars. Deceivers.
Creating a whole universe together is something I'm still looking for ❤
Men with other women on their mind all the time are boring and if we as women had men on our minds all.the time we would be boring too. Why bother with those boring people and how could you ever trust them, you can't!!!
Men all seem to need a fantasy world to run to and then they try to make it reality. They want fun and fantasy not the reality of life.
I get the feeling that at some point during the interview, that Dr. Delony realized that he had walked into a lioness’s den. That’s why he continuously talked about his wife. This was SUPER SMART of him. He sent the EXACT NEEDED message. Umm Hmmm!
I get that we all have doubts about ourselves but when I heard Arielle say she was worried during her divorce about whether she would be able to meet another partner, I laughed. She’s young enough and beautiful and I think she knows that. It’s just a ridiculous comment by her.
We all know Delony is a Christian and that he generally says Divorce is a last resort. If she called into his show about her reasons for her to divorce, he would probably try to advise her not to. I think you can sense that in his responses to her divorce type questions. Her reasons for her divorce weren’t very convincing to me at least in this interview.
Uh, so the answer on how to make sure I don’t marry my unfinished business basically sucked. The subject is very serious. Especially when it comes to women choosing an abusive person like their father was. Or marry a person closed off emotionally like dad was etc etc. So there’s no way to stop the cycle???? THAT is discouraging 😳
There is no real happiness. İt's sometime hard sometime good. That's life. İ think people are brainwashed from "tony robbins" gurus and Hollywood. Reality isn't that. Everybody who disagree is a liar. The first life is hard. İt's a test for the afterlife. Believe in God alone. Don't associate any partners with him. Believe to the judgement day and do good deeds. So simple and you are real happy in afterlife.
16 minute mark…did he just say his wife was not attractive?? did i hear that correctly? I love his wife's appearance..i am SO EXHAUSTED of these cookie cutter Christian wives that all have blong hair and the same look
Add Bipolar ti the mix
Is that the hot ass girl from Outer Banks?
Yes i am settling because i am comfortable and we have 3 kids and a farm and successful careers – we can try harder to create a better harmony together – go on family walks, make a family feast together, light the fire n watch an old pioneer movie together. Ive grown in my faith while he went the other direction and cheated but i have an ultimatum, turn it all around n try harder for the next 6 months with therapist plus pastor meetings. Forgive like Jesus, and try hard to make it work, make changes and plan future together. By 6 month if nothing has changed, go separate ways.
Stronger than ever = complete and utter denial
“mmhmm, mmhmm, mmhmm x1,000”
How has no one addressed this with her?
@daisyela4 you are wrong. Alex starved marriage for 20 YEARS. Emotionally neglected and sexually neglected. We both have trauma. But I have asked him FOR 20 years to get help. Do not come here and judge me when you have no idea what I have been through living with a SEXUAL ANOREX. Look it up. Dr. Doug Weiss.
Sexual anorexia. Intimacy anorexia.
I have stayed to keep my family together. But my husband is a coward. Stop judging me and do some research. Don’t talk out of your butt. Get knowledge lady.
LOVED "PROTECTING AND PRACTICING" GPS.
Once the passion and desire is gone it’s over believe me. Sad but true
Delony's a brat!
That is SUCH A GOOD QUESTION because of all these talks you see:
Is there any truth or validity to playing hard to get and having someone chase you?
Interesting answer: Yes there is as long as you are not playing games.
Great question: How do you cultivate desire for each other?
Great answer: cultivate fun, mystery, excitement, and allure.
My husband and I have been incorporating more fun.
Awesome questions. Great job interviewing.
That was really powerful and so relatable. I don’t even know where those voices (aka words) come from but we get to choose if we listen to those words.
WOW!! Great answer on the cheating. Nice how he talked about the levels.
In relationships the only thing we can unsure is I’m going to be there in the moment. So good.