What Black Women REALLY Think when Black Men Date ANOTHER Race?
What Black Women REALLY Think when Black Men Date ANOTHER Race?
In today’s society, interracial relationships have become more common and visible, sparking important conversations about race, love, and cultural dynamics. For many Black women, seeing Black men date outside their race can evoke a range of emotions and thoughts. Some view it as a natural progression of an increasingly diverse and…
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you ppl have a fixation on celebrities, unless you have empirical data that suggests this trend is common amongst non famous successful blk men.. whats the point of this discourse?
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So I guess LeBron and Obama didn't get the class memo?
I think there are three main reasons, first one being validation. We are so desperate for others to respect, notice, and love us. Hence why we buy their expensive brands, or invite people to the cookout for silly reasons.
Second reason is the representation of black men compared to black women. Males are supposed to be masculine, while females are supposed to be feminine. Black being masculine and tough is a black stereotype. This is attractive to women because this type of man will protect her and protection is key for a woman. On the other hand, black women have not been shown to be feminine. They have showcased to be rude, disrespectful, and sassy. This links to my first point about validation. Because of the way black women are perceived, non black male executives and owners don’t marry them, and so black men (seeking validation and opportunities from these men) avoid them too.
The third reason is interests. Many people have no problem talking about the black fathers who were not there for their kids but don’t wanna talk about the mums choosing these type of guys to begin with. Often black women go for the black man that hustles, gets with many women, or been in and out of prison, instead of the “nerd” for example. While the other women actually like black nerds and intelligence. So when these nerds grow up and become successful, it’s natural for them to go where they feel loved
People ALWAYS forget about social class.
Particularly when it comes to race.
I don't know why…
Especially when social class shapes out behaviour much more than skin tone.
Also, I think a (western) black woman's "toughness" is a consequence of not ever feeling safe because (most of the time) the protective presence in the home…the dad, was never really present. If the (single mother) stats are accurate that is.
In my opinion I believe for some its simply the fact that you see someone with another ethnicity and it stands out and raises questions because of the observers preconceived notions.
The same person observered with a different ethnicity is likely same person who wasn't seen before being seen with any person in particular.
Sometimes you attract people that find you inspirational and other times you'll find things that are different that may appeal to your curiosity.
People may find you physically attractive but boring or uninspiring. They may feel that you are not exciting or all that intresting, curiosity is what feeds a person's intrest if there is no curiosity between the 2 parties than the relationship will likely drift apart.
So in conclusion as a person who has observed this so called behaviour of black men as example for dating interracially do you believe that the person you believe should be with person would find that man all that intresting, if so why or why not? And why are you only curious to know now that its got your attention?
All facts…
do you know that black man’s dating history? Maybe he’s always dated white women and is doing the same now he’s successful 😂
This is actually a myth. Most successful Black men are with Black women, simply because our women are the prettiest period.
He's talking pure nonsense
This is always a complicated topic.
1. There is a small sense of frustration when a successful black man is with the others because most of the time the others don't like the black women. They like and enjoy our sons/brothers/cousins/nephews, but hate the mothers, the sisters, and black females that helped groomed this black man into what they appreciate about him in the first place.
Another part is a black man becoming wealthy and getting with the other is a subliminal message that the black women doesn't deserve the wealth that he has now accumulated even though black women helped him get there one way or another. He sends a message that his black nieces, female cousins, sisters only deserve the bottom tier black man and the others get our best and brightest.
2. In America, the system is set up for black men to be separated from black women at an early age, especially if he shows potential at being a star athlete. They surround him with the others, which have been trained to cater to that athlete….not the person. I had a brother that went through this.
Looking at history, this system made our men unemployed, then offered our women welfare ONLY if the man was out of the home.
While it sounds disgraceful, this is how black women became this so-called independent. It was to show our men that we were capable of holding it down while they were away, but this mindset has morphed into hating black men, which I don't think it was meant to be.
Because we know our history, in America, and the efforts this country has taken to divide and conquer the black family, is the reason why black women get ANXIOUS, NERVOUS, sometimes angry about our black men dating the others….we always suspect there is an agenda behind it…sometimes deadly agenda….it's hardly ever for genuine love. Their wealth goes back to the others and the others get to enjoy the success that black women (mothers, sisters, cousins, aunts, black classmates, etc) help build just for the others to swoop in when all the hard work has been done to mold & shape this black man into the man they get to enjoy.
And if you look hard enough, they same is happening with successful black women.
While we have the option to be with whomever we want, we can't ignore that there's an systematic effort to keep successful black & women apart.
You have to be intentional when it comes to preserving black greatness…otherwise you will get distracted into being with others and thinking your own kind is worthless or classless.
It looks like black people is more racist than white people
Yh we mostly want black women but they're non-submissive and masculine.. ask yourself the qs bm 'why would I want that when I can get submissiveness from where I'm appreciated not where I'm tolerated
Whats wrong with women being independant
What about Bill Clitons wife.She wanted to played Bills position.
What is wrong with black men trying to marry better partners?
Westernized women ( especially BW) don't respect, nor care what BM wants in a woman. They're wearing wigs, tats, lashes and attitude like it's attractive. Even the bad boys/ Pookies and Ray Rays will only "deal" with them so long, and give them babies. It's a revolving cycle of BS.
11:30 It comes from Daddy Government and feminism. Black women chose assistance over having the fathers of their children in the home. Black women bit harder than other women on feminism. Black men have found that their options are plentiful and saving themselves is > than saving the community. Everybody can't be saved. Everybody doesn't want to be saved.
If you’re not trying to change to be a family or a team.. find someone who likes all that they be doing and saying! ✊🏾
some black women gonna hear this and still believe black men dont date black women smh
In my experience I've found that black and white women are both prejudice against black men so I find it hard to trust dating either one because every woman no matter the race wants to be with white guy
There's only only one race: Human Race
black women are NOTORIOUS for having the worst "man-pickers" thats why black women have the highest single mother rates in the U.S… black women don't care that you exist until a woman of another race cuffs you & then when you're a product thats no longer available on the shelf per se, all of a sudden you become valuable to them. kinda like how Kobe Bryant was feeling Brandy Norwood but she had him firmly in the friendzone, then a latina saw value in Kobe & scooped him up. then when Kobe died, all I saw on social media was black women cheering on Kobe's death because his $300 million estate "left the black community" they conveniently ignored the fact that Brandy Norwood (a black woman) had first right of refusal on Kobe & didn't want him.
Completely agree with Kit. Its not a race thing, its an energy thing if it happenes
To properly understand please research THE NEGRO PROJECT from white woman Margaret Sanger in 1939.