“There was no sex without fighting” – BBC Africa Eye documentary
“There was no sex without fighting” – BBC Africa Eye documentary
In our series of films looking at the topic of modern masculinity in Africa, we are looking at a culture of toxic masculinity and rape in some parts of The Congo.
The Congo Men’s Network is dedicated to promoting positive masculinity among men who used to abuse or rape their own wives.
Filmed, produced and directed by: Aaron Akinyemi
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If only Europe could learn this from Africa: that to eradicate violence against women, you have to start by educating the men.
l wont except the fact some men thinks when they marry they can any how treat a woman ….no way l can except that…only COWARDS beat and abuse WOMEN…not only in Afirca,it happens al over the WORLD …
I wouldn't say this is "reality". the BBC?
Awesome ❤️🤗
This kind of message should be propagated through music so that the whole african nation can learn from it…I believe that africa is no more a dark continent.
Wow this is good
Great Wonderful Great, this goes for Men all over, with loving kindness, u lead and show your sons and daughters the way it's done,not this violence and murder, being a loving kind man don't make u less of a man, but a man your wife and children will be proud of 💞
👏👏👏👏👏👏👏❤❤❤❤❤❤
THIS is good.
Congolese brothers ..our women have suffered at the hands of those we know too well ..let's not also become their enemies..they need to find peace and refuge in the presence of any man who has any self respect and calls himself Congolese.
A laudable cause. Well done
Kicking his own pregnant wife. What a lovely husband
I liked the way he framed his sentence
" REWIRE MEN'S BRAINS " 👍 and he nailed a very important POINT right there coz men seem nuts and gone insane abt sex.🤔
# LUV THAT IT IS A MALE "PORKING" SENSES TO EACHOTHER.👊
Poor women’s
Nice piece here. Love it. Love the story. Way to go African men!
Western media always doing their best to make us look bad. Why can't you do reports like this in your own country
I sometimes ask myself why Africa is suffering like it is but now i see why.
This is very good. African men will win out. our people are teachable and open . Americans no.
I don't understand this trend with all negative reporting on Africa from Western media outlets.
Just like learning anything, it can be taught ro socially engineer good or desired behavior / culture into a society. Some of these things developed in the age of ignorance, but we can do better. It is not wise to behave treacherous towards you spouse, who cooks your food, who bears your children, who protects you house from being, corrupted, who share your bed. " God say, he hates all treacherous dealers ". You go out and break the bonds of the relationship and cause / gave demons legal right to destroy / scatter you and your house. Be wise, be faithful with the spouse / wife that you have chosen, love, treat her well, that your house may be blessed.
Sir, define small kick:
I gave her a 'small' kick and she fell down and bled
smh!!!!
Omg! Only in Africa. Bullshit to me.
Jesus Christ… bless them with the wisdom and materials they need to educate the men… help the men to change their mindset and apply what they are being taught… No one deserves to mistreat nor abuse 😭
You should introduce this method to South Sudanese men
I lovee Congolese music. Another Great documentary BBC
Shameful
Where is the African u universities? Corporation parks? History museums? Writers? Inventors? Or you only have funds for this kind of rural stories?