the swirl-ificaton of black women (“pasta and lobster”/interracial dating)
the swirl-ificaton of black women (“pasta and lobster”/interracial dating)
drop your roster in the comments with race/ethincicty, height, and age attached. are you messing with the swirl or do you prefer pistachio?
00:00-03:49 intro
03:50- 16:14 the relationship of black men and women
16:15- 19:07 statistics
19:09 – 25:25 pasta + lobster analysis
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No they are not 😂
The logical thing to do, is for women to be more feminine.
Women that are super masculine, are wondering why they have trouble attracting a man. It’s crazy
Black women never been loyal to Black men. lol!! Black women ahve 1.4 million interracial children in this country. The only female group that has more interracial children than their male counterparts. All you redbone kids are rejected white babies. Stop it! All y’all was waiting on was the cowardly white man to accept you in public.
You make some valid points, but it’s still delusional.
Stats clearly show that Asian women outperform all women on dating apps. And black women and Asian men are on the bottom. Stereotypes do come from reality, and many black American women live up to them. Of course they have socioeconomic reasons, but nonetheless they are still real. Many BW look up to Megan the Stallion, Cardi B etc.
This doesn’t mean you can’t find a partner, but to somehow believe a large portion of BW will do IR dating is silly. All races have a preference for their own race, and it’s only a minority that will do IR dating.
Let’s be real here. Majority of the White dudes that date BW date are not the most masculine and good looking ones. Black guys that are straight A students and hardworking are seen as lames by many BW, why don’t you talk about that?
One funny fact, I read that IR between White women and Black men have actually the same divorce rate.
This is not significant. White males are not our destiny. We do not marry for happiness. White males are purposeless and do not treat us well. Check your history. You are confused. Some of you are desparate for the white fairytale.
'' black women have been so loyal ''
if you're in an area that isn''t the uk us or france I could see your point otherwise NO.
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I think the point she is making is that if you are going to date interracial or multi ethnic, do it because you love/attracted to the individual but not as a defense mechanism against your own ethnicity?
i’m a child of an interracial, my mom is black and my dad is white, and i’ve learnt through them that love isn’t based on color, culture, or wealth. They were brought up completely opposite to each other but they make it work. I’ve heard stories of the backlash for their marriage (only on my moms side) and it makes me sad that adults care more about the color of your skin than the quality of you heart.
As a White male I disagree with you. Most men prefer a woman that has not spent her 20's and 30's sleeping around. It has nothing to do with race, men of all races like traditional women. American women are not raised to be wives or mothers, they are raised to be independent. The reality is no man should date let alone marry an American born woman of any race. The only successful relationships that I know of are my friends who date asian and hispanic women not born in America. I totally disagree with you it's not the men it's the American woman.
I'm not black but I'm proud of y'all ❤❤❤
Black women are NOT loyal, it's yte men who are loyal. Black women claim loyalty to black men because they're unsuccessful with yte men and EVERYBODY knows that
I'm surprised Madisyn ventured into this kind of content. You have to have your armour on, the IR dating discourse can get every toxic, very quickly.
4:00 with all due to respect, you cant just use that as an excuse. Not only did black people very well after slavery ended, it isnt white supremacy that created pimp culture etc. I mean how does that even work that a black man suffering from racism, letting that frustration out on his woman. Are you saying they're incapable of logic and reason, or lack autonomy
Also black men being the least married to men of other cultures does NOT equal being race loyal lol. It equals men of other cultures don’t want you. And black men have to take you.
Mind you black men are suppsoed to be the privileged ones here 😂😂😂😂 the math ain’t mathing sisters.
My mom is black, my dad is white. It was not the best relationship ever, they did get divorced but race was never a big deal to me growing up. My mom dated everyone, black, white, hispanic, middle eastern. No woman should ever show more loyalty to a man than he's ever shown him. That is beyond color lines and just a reality.
w.s working at it's finest. only our culture have this lack of discipline
Are they marrying y'all though? or is just women being fooled into being a white man's cum bucket? Remember men will sleep with anything but when it comes to relationships/da ring????.. well I guess you already know this.
As a black woman, I feel we created the concept of race based dating. I bever heard any group go around talking about dating people exclusively by race until bw normalized it. Did we not die for people to be valued based on character not color? So many of us endured abuse of violent crowds for integration. By not dating based on individual character, how are we keeping the morality of this country in check? Race should never determine someones worthiness of love or anything else in life. Race loyalty is racism. We of all people should never promote or practice that.
Black women are the ones who need to aim higher and just ignore Black men. Black men have been abusing Black women for decades. This didn't just start! Look at the domestic violence rates in the community that our mothers, aunts, and grandmothers suffered at the hands of Black men. Not only that, more than 50% of Black girls are sexually abused by Black men before she reaches age 18. There is no benefit to BW to get involved with BM. Just ignore these men. The damage is irreparable. They can date whoever they wish, and Black women should do the same and move forward in peace ❤
lmao quoting kodak black is insane
I don't think she made a single mistake during this argument, every fact was on point. I could perfectly see the logic in the entire video and from my own experiences of what I have heard from friends who are black women witnessing ill treatment of black women from not just black men but white men too (saw this all the time as a nightclub bouncer in the uk) was absolutely appalling and out of line, just because you're drunk doesn't mean you get the right to spew your ignorant hateful opinions. And the fact that these girls most of the time took this shite like a trooper it only made me admire them more. Ive always been attracted to black women since childhood, The first girl i dated on the council estate i grew up on was a black girl and we didn't see race or differences back then we were kids, it was just pure uncorrupted admiration for eachother. It unfortunately came to an end when her family moved and relocated and we lost contact over the years. But i admired her for her beauty and energetic personality. She makes a good point of this and even i ask this please.. please.. do not put us white men on a pedestal we are still men just the same as any other, You have suffered many trials already with neglect, oppression, colourism, sexism and double standards with dating please do not do this to yourselves, realise that you are the prize, date for your own happiness, security and peace of mind. Because let me say this now i have never found anything sexier than a confident educated black woman who knows what she wants and what she's worth ❤
..and the agendas to destroy the black family and black community grows more insidious. YAH'S people need to return to YAH.Stat.
maybe cuz im Gen Z but i ant have no one jumping hoops for me 😂
I'm a black caribbean female and I'm mostly attracted to non black men
I believe mostly,because growing up,in the 70's/80's
I saw more white men,on tv
even though,they had black shows.
It’s cute that a few black women are getting into interracial relationships and its a “movement” but Black Men are overwhelmingly still desired by black women I’ve been dating interracially my whole life and all I get is Hostile glares when I’m with my Asian dates, idk…I get called handsome all the time but I think some black women feel ugly with me and disrespected me thinking I wouldn’t go for them but ah well too late lol 🇰🇷🇵🇭🇨🇳🇹🇭🇻🇳
great video!
BW are becoming more and more brainwashed. BM are the ONLY ones who've uplifted BW in the mainstream. When the wyt mainstream would only put a bald (cause of the kinky hair), Sudanese model on a magazine cover, BM featured BW prominently, and often exclusively, in their movies, music videos and magazines. BM are the ones who made BW the body type, beauty standard.
BM earn MORE than BW, despite the disparity in college degrees, but y'all believe we can't even pay a light bill? Men, of all races, have far more high earning opportunities that don't require a college degree than women do. That's why we still outearn y'all. Our median income is also higher than Hispanic men. You talk about BM's struggles when BW struggle more than us, economically speaking. Y'all earn less, you have more 'bad' debt, you're eviction rates are higher. Every milestone BW are trying to reach, BM have already passed. All black directors EVER nominated for best director were BM, for example. The richest blk people are men. Most Fortune 500 black CEOs have been BM. Most black companies are headed by BM. Y'all gotta get this propaganda out of your heads that BM are bums.
You discount gay men as if the pool of eligible black men is severely constricted because of it, but black women are THE gayest demographic, TWICE as gay as any other demographic (Google it). You discount BM with kids when FAR more BW have kids than BM. I don't know where this trend if BW looking down on BM came from, but it's based on lies.
I admit BM can be colorist, but other races are even worse, and BW are just as colorist. Y'all are judging BM by the online cesspool of self hating coons. This is self-destruction. You say you love seeing BW in loving relationships? There aren't going to be too many black women's happiness to celebrate at this rate, a generation from now.
racist azz
Every single thing you said Black Men do/are doing to Black women also goes the other way,Black women also insult us and put us down as well. So trying to act like Black Men are to blame for everything is just plain wrong.
Date whoever you're happy with,life is too short to be battling the world.
you got physical beauty for no reason smh you're DILUTED and CONFUSED "true pure love" Lmfao okay with the same people who put ur family including Waste self in the position you been in … Ur legit a waste and I hope the worst for wyte men's thots like you
stop lying u shameful disgrace… The ONLY reason why…ores of your elk didn't run and jump on the white mans ship earlier was because y'all thought you would get rejected. You thought the wyte man wasnt interested. As soon as his desperate goof ass showed y'all some attention y'all showed ur true colors. Save the rest of the BS
It’s funny black women lust over these pookies and ray-rays, street dudes, dealers and scammers
But when it comes to dating a white man
Y’all go for the law abiding, cardigan wearing, blue collar, overall good man 🤦🏿♂️
Black women are loyal to their race. Not necessarily the men. The same way that black men were lynched and burned black women were raped by white extremists.
Black women pedestalize white men. White men fetishize black women.
Black women have an unexplainable lust for thuggish black men. A white guy can be a nerd. A black guy cannot.
Only 20% of black men date out.
Ralph banks found it hard to write that book. But ultimately did it because he loves black women
Date who you want at
They don't wanna girl with 4c hair but they get mad if you wear wigs, you can't win? Them is 2 different men. Only in your mind can you only attract white men with your nappy as head coz you brainwashed
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Have fun black women. Im good.
I bet you won’t send this video to your father. How embarrassing
Overweight 80% / Out of wedlock children 70+%….hope that was covered in this video. Also, there are over 1.5 million children born to black women conceived by other than black men.
BW have never been "loyal" to BM maybe in your mind concubine!
When have anyone heard black men complaining about black women dating whoever they please??? Just go! You don't have to announce anything 😂 be happy, no one cares. Why is this on my feed 🤦🏽♂️