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Guys, we need to understand & accept ( I know certain things we can improve on) people we be-friend, communicate how we want to be treated and communicate when we offended. People like Pearl have no filter and honest to an extent that they hurt some people and when you confront them, they'll say "but its the truth" and they wont see anything wrong. In that case it's your job to communicate it and also tell them how you interpreted it or felt so that they see it from your side.
I'm an overthinker, don't talk too much and I always try to find the right way to say something, and also try to not comment on everything. Sometimes we just want our friends to do things the way we do them but unfortunately that's not how it works. Zintle and Nomuzi seem to have a similar personality (I don't know them personally so i might be wrong) or she understands her, hence why she's said to be "pleasing" Zintle while Zinhle on the other hand is a bully for always wanting things to ho her way. If you've ever had a gay friend, you'll understand Pearl. These people will defend you from the world even without knowing the full story but will also give it to you when you wrong and sometimes we cant take it, and they'll add their opinions TRUTH where it's not needed and see nothing wrong with that.
Pearl was actually questioning Moozlie but her emphasis on her friends marriage was unnecessary but no lies detected and yes she could've just focused on the question. The same with Zinhle's video, if that was about Pearl, she also confirmed it's true but it was unnecessary and my question is did she communicate it with her because the problem with bottling up, you'll misinterprete things just because of what you already believe about them, only to find out that they're not aware or didn't even mean to be spicy and even forgot about what they said
That's just my 2cent coz i don't know them but i feel like i can relate to her character/personality and I've had friends like Pearl and Mozzlie
Saying this to the entire world. Pearl you are such a backstabber, witch, full of jealousy. Leave Zinhle and Murda alone. Should she keep on being friends with you…….I bet you're going to seduce Murda and sleep with him to destroy their relationship.
Why is on to Zinhle's case kangaka. Aai Bestie, this is not a friend for you and is waiting for that say you're say Urself and Ur husband you having serious problems, she will rejoice and God Forbid. U Pearl is jealous of Zinhle. Nomuzi is the one protecting uZinhle. Yhoooo hayi Bestie, uPearl Thusi is mean.
Uqinisile kodwa uPearl. IsiZulu sithi kumele ubenoMbondo, uMembeso and then uMabo, in that particular order too. uMabo noMshado are usually combined into one event, but they are still separate proceedings. You’re are only a real wife once you’ve gone through all these stages and wathelwa ngenyongo by your in laws. At that point you are recognised ancestrally. A lot of people chop and change things nowadays. But iqiniso is uyingoduso until the point yokuthelwa ngenyongo wamkelwe emagcekeni. A lot of people are fiancés claiming to be wives. I don’t blame them. These things take forever to be completed, especially in today’s economy. You’ll be a bride in waiting for years. 😅
So I don’t think Pearl is being a hater here, she’s just being honest unless we want to continue with the narrative of lying to ourselves. This is how we lose our culture.
In conclusion: Culturally she’s a fiancé.
Legally she’s a wife coz the law doesn’t follow the rules of culture. Once gifts are exchanged, the law considers you married.
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Pearl is just genuine
Yhoo I thought they were still friends yazi
Definitely not her place smh, she talks too much
If I was a true friend I would never expose my friends relationship like that it just shows this girl was not DJ Zinhles friend
Wena Wenda nini pearl walibala ukucacisa ngabanye uphi owakho umabo,umbondo umembeso, Yoh hayi suka sidikiwe finish ngumona wakho ngokududelwa ngujambase nje.
Zinhle is no saint. She deserves pearl
Zinhle is happy with her situation 😂pearl haai😢
Jesus! With friends like these (Pearl), who needs enemies?
Umona phantsi
They is nothing wrong about what Pearl said, but you cannot said that to your best friend guys you better choose friends wisely
Good 2:13
She's right but it's not her place to have such opinions ugh uPearl uyaphapha nje
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Hello sis ❤
Wooooooow Pearl talks to much
Nothing wrong with what Pearl said
I have a friend like pearl thusi😮
Guys, we need to understand & accept ( I know certain things we can improve on) people we be-friend, communicate how we want to be treated and communicate when we offended. People like Pearl have no filter and honest to an extent that they hurt some people and when you confront them, they'll say "but its the truth" and they wont see anything wrong. In that case it's your job to communicate it and also tell them how you interpreted it or felt so that they see it from your side.
I'm an overthinker, don't talk too much and I always try to find the right way to say something, and also try to not comment on everything. Sometimes we just want our friends to do things the way we do them but unfortunately that's not how it works. Zintle and Nomuzi seem to have a similar personality (I don't know them personally so i might be wrong) or she understands her, hence why she's said to be "pleasing" Zintle while Zinhle on the other hand is a bully for always wanting things to ho her way. If you've ever had a gay friend, you'll understand Pearl. These people will defend you from the world even without knowing the full story but will also give it to you when you wrong and sometimes we cant take it, and they'll add their opinions TRUTH where it's not needed and see nothing wrong with that.
Pearl was actually questioning Moozlie but her emphasis on her friends marriage was unnecessary but no lies detected and yes she could've just focused on the question. The same with Zinhle's video, if that was about Pearl, she also confirmed it's true but it was unnecessary and my question is did she communicate it with her because the problem with bottling up, you'll misinterprete things just because of what you already believe about them, only to find out that they're not aware or didn't even mean to be spicy and even forgot about what they said
That's just my 2cent coz i don't know them but i feel like i can relate to her character/personality and I've had friends like Pearl and Mozzlie
NB: excuse my grammar
Pearl is right however why is she going so hard to prove that her friend is NOT married
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The Vroumance ended badly 😂 when ur friend grows up, marries and moves on … Shame
You guys are such losers.😂 you want so much for these two to no longer be friends. EVERY MONTH! There's a story that they're not friends.
Saying this to the entire world. Pearl you are such a backstabber, witch, full of jealousy. Leave Zinhle and Murda alone. Should she keep on being friends with you…….I bet you're going to seduce Murda and sleep with him to destroy their relationship.
As much as eqinisile abt the processes they still hve to go through, its nt her damn place to say akashadile ,aibooo!!! Lmao isbindi esingaka!😂
Why is on to Zinhle's case kangaka. Aai Bestie, this is not a friend for you and is waiting for that say you're say Urself and Ur husband you having serious problems, she will rejoice and God Forbid. U Pearl is jealous of Zinhle. Nomuzi is the one protecting uZinhle. Yhoooo hayi Bestie, uPearl Thusi is mean.
Pearl is right they are not married infront of God
Ye pearly pearl say that in your mind some people don’t take things easily
Lol she just invalidated Zintle marriage
Uqinisile kodwa uPearl. IsiZulu sithi kumele ubenoMbondo, uMembeso and then uMabo, in that particular order too. uMabo noMshado are usually combined into one event, but they are still separate proceedings. You’re are only a real wife once you’ve gone through all these stages and wathelwa ngenyongo by your in laws. At that point you are recognised ancestrally. A lot of people chop and change things nowadays. But iqiniso is uyingoduso until the point yokuthelwa ngenyongo wamkelwe emagcekeni. A lot of people are fiancés claiming to be wives. I don’t blame them. These things take forever to be completed, especially in today’s economy. You’ll be a bride in waiting for years. 😅
So I don’t think Pearl is being a hater here, she’s just being honest unless we want to continue with the narrative of lying to ourselves. This is how we lose our culture.
In conclusion:
Culturally she’s a fiancé.
Legally she’s a wife coz the law doesn’t follow the rules of culture. Once gifts are exchanged, the law considers you married.
Pearls views always and ever so distorted.
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