The REAL Reason Black Men Are BOYCOTTING Dating!
The REAL Reason Black Men Are BOYCOTTING Dating!
The REAL Reason Black Men Are BOYCOTTING Dating!
There’s a growing trend happening in Black America—more and more Black men are stepping away from dating scenes, skipping singles events, and opting out of dating mixers altogether. But why?
In this video, we’re diving into the real, unfiltered reasons behind this shift. From feelings of…
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Arent all men boycotting dating
It'll be 97 years before modern women understand this 🤦🏾
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I recently spoke to an woman from Grenada based in UK via online dating platform. She said she wouldn't date a man who earned less than her. I told my profession and have been for over 12years +. She must have realised I wasn't broke for sure.i asked her what job was and a range of what she earns. She unfriend me. It's this kind of repeated ghetto and idiotic behaviour men experience from black women who think they are better than you that makes us lose interest and don't even bother no more
Gone are the days dude you are definitely out of touch. Men are not showing up because women have become almost intolerable, insufferable.
The racial group that has the most negative views of, and speak the most vile sh!t about black men, are Black women in America; and there is no close second. Brothers aren’t trying to hear that nonsense any more. We are collectively leaving you to your own demise and going to greener pastures. No more disrespect is being tolerated. Black women need to start checking each other because human nature lumps you all together. We good over here. We aren’t our parents and grandparent men who needed validation from black women. Sisters need to have more self awareness or it’s girls night out and girls trips for the foreseeable future.
BLK, SWOLL, gab teeth…HARD PASS
I refuse to be disrespected & rejected by a woman at a speed dating event… I'd rather watch AI images of fantasy women….
Wasn’t there tik toks of girls saying that they don’t like it when guys they don’t know or want approach and shoot their shot? Didn’t yall say that if u didn’t have a hood edge, tattoos, or a baddie roster, have 100k or be over 6’2, have 5k plus on IG yall didn’t want nothing to do with us? I’m 6’4 built, 230, handsome face but im clean cut and I have a traditional/christian upbringing so I don’t fit the personality that these chicks like so when I approach they look at me crazy or just always seem disinterested. Forget about IG I don’t have 5k followers plus all the girls im attracted to around me that I try to follow don’t even give me the time of day so what am I supposed to do?
Jesus a black man wouldn't have a chance
Lol every man knows that if you don’t accept no means no or keep pursuing that we’ll be going to jail. I’m not going to be considered a creep. Women only want to be approached by men they consider attractive.
Hitting on all cylinders, Sister Charde. Also, I agree with the brother about marketing. However, he did not really give details of what kind of directed marketing would be necessary. Men who are comfortable and blessed to attract women organically, don't need these events. However, the women who go are specifically looking for Chad. The men that would attend these events are not the Chads so they get shit on by the women who usually attend, even if those women are middle to low tier, so to speak. Thus, the non-select men say to themselves, "why bother."
Women only find 10 percent of men dateable. So…
Should’ve done this mess before you let Gloria Steinem get a mouthpiece.
I think the main reason men don't show up to those events is because it's an unnatural setting. a lot of dudes don't want that type of rejection. if dating apps teach us anything, 20% of the men will get 80% of the attention. So you are basically rolling the dice that your top 20%. any man confident enough to show up doesn't need to.
Decades of saying that Black men aren't needed, wanted, or are not essential to the lives of Black women, and children (even if the Black men wanted to be there, or was there, for Black women and children, by extension)-on a substantive level-has finally caught up to this era and generation of Black women.
Once Black men figured out that with many (not all) Black women, it didn't matter how good they were, and how good they treated Black women-there will always be problems, and a lack of appreciation.
Many of the men, today, have finally gotten it, and are now reacting accordingly. You can't say all of those negative things about your male counterpart, FOR DECADES ON END-even if it was out of anger, and frustration-and expect positive outcomes.
It will always backfire. It has backfired.
Such decades of talk (even spoken over the sons), have produced bitter fruit.
Lastly, you're right about just wanting peace. This is why, in part, Black men, as a race of men,, are no longer trying to prove their worthiness to a race of Black women, as they did in previous decades. Their collective approval is no longer required.
The best way to rebuild this, is one Black man/Black woman relationship, at a time.
They are done. I would not touch a black women ever again. Keisha is the same globally. STAY AWAY FROM THEM. Deal with them at your own risk
We not boycotting dating we just outsourced it. Dating a Filipina now
Black men, hold the line 💪😮
Passport bro.
I'm being sarcastic asking this question: Ladies, what happened to the 4B Movement….?
Ask yourselves then answer (Ladies) "Who TF wants to pay to attend an event where you GET rejected?"
I am 38 yr black doctor, making almost half a million a year. but Im 5'7. 95% of women want a guy a guy over 6 foot. So why waste my time. Every woman at that event already knows the ideal guy they are looking for .Anything less than that they feel they are settling and will treat you horribly. Im good. I rather just stick to my hobbies and make this money.
Black women exposed their playbook. RIP TO THE BLACK COMMUNITY.
Men have no need to entertain these types of women
Im Black Man and I don't miss being in a relationship. I haven't been in a relationship since 2010 and I was 17 years old at the time. I been saw through the bullshit women be on especially black women. Now im 32 years old single with no children. It feels so Peaceful and Liberating. I'm glad I never gave the best Year's of my life to a woman especially a black woman. Im now celebrating my 15 Year Anniversary of being Single. 😇😇😇😇😇😇😇😇
What could work is couples activities/competitions where the partners are randomly paired. Men aren't showing up to speed date. They might show up to something like a bowling tournament. This removes some of the pressure to create conversation and leans more on the activity to create social interactions. This is generally a great approach to first dates so I don't understand why people haven't done them.
The reason men don't attend singles events is because it's not very fun for us. Imagine having to sit through a gauntlet of job interviews. That's our experience. We'll likely get a few numbers, but it really comes down to how receptive the women are. Rather stay home or go out to places I enjoy.
Men find modern dating too
Much hassle drama and expense and marriage with its no fault divorce even worse where they could lose half their assets.
The men they all want, do need to go…….And the men that will show up, they don’t want……..So why should they waste their time?
They don't miss the men, they miss the validation they get from rejecting men.
They don’t want their time wasted.
Hell, what man is going to jeopardize their livelihood over a petty vindictive person .
If a man isn't 6ft, why bother. He could be a millionaire but black women wouldn't even get to first base because they didn't give themselves a chance
The wound is too deep man..no turning back
Ten of my male friends have had difficulty finding compatible and feminine partners at singles events. However, they had much better luck abroad, meeting their future wives.
Its because there is no such thing as “black people”, “black culture” or “black love”. All of these are socially engineered constructs that inhibit us from our own sovereignty. To call yourself black is to negate your true origin and orientation. Not all skin folk are kinfolk. Just because we share similar hues dont mean our ancestors were on the same sides of history of even share the same cultures in our family. Most are living in a false paradigm. Ofcourse no meaningful connection can take place when people dont even know their spiritual designation. Its characatures roll playing in eurocentrism.
Bw are the only group of women that would turn down brothers because of the shoes they are wearing 🤦🏿♂️🎯💯
wtf is dude talking about 😂😂😂
Buy tickets to meet someone, that u then have to pay for everything. Yea nah ӏօӏ. I’ll pass 😒
It's not marketing. There's no marketing in the world that could get me to one of those events unless they were giving away free fishing rods and reels.
I think it comes down to rejection fatigue. I stopped approaching BW and other women cause you get sick of rejection so much. I just go overseas. Women in America, their heads are too big!
"The slaves are leaving!" -hair hat clan
I thought they were "decentering" men? Where are their white husbands? I thought they were divesting☕
So proud of my men. I know two duded who rather play video games then date. One of them is divorced.
I cant stand when people are purposefully ignorant about a situation. Like the brother in the video is annoying talking about "lack of marketing towards men"🤨 🥷🏽What? Men aren't showing up to singles events because they aren't being marketed too, rather they aren't showing up because most women at singles events are rude, entitled, superficial, and have the perceived image from most men of being ran through and now desperate to settle down. What well put together man would pay money to be in a room full of women like that. And god forbid you don't meet the ladies qualifications, like what man under 5'10 is showing up to these events when he assumes ever women is looking for 6 foot and taller men? What man making minimum wage or under 40k is thinking to pay money for a event just to be judged by a room full of women who have no problem telling him he don't make enough.