The Broke and Worthless (by SendWave App) // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 91
The Broke and Worthless (by SendWave App) // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 91
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There's no alternative for love.
If love isn't the foundation of your relationship, then that relationship is temporary.
I agree with you Phrankleen 100%.
Nothing wrong when a man can't afford to support his wife/family due to reasonable circumstances. The issue for me is when a man is capable, but chooses not to and insists on both paying 50/50 even when his woman isn't making much.
Situations in life change.
NOW days people are more interested in money money money/material shit.
Thank God my husband has a very frugal and understanding wife who loves him for him, even though he lost his second job she😀😍😀😍I LOVE THAT MAN and i don't let the fact that we have 7 children i/we make it work and NOT one time have he had to worry about our marriage/family because we are one.
So for all the years we've been together i have always saved half of my funds that he gives me for my personal use i went to my secret space and gave him a freezer bag with money to help out on paying two of the cards off and purchase xtra food and another big freezer that will be used for the half cow and half pig i purchased to make sure my husband doesn't have to worry about his family☺😀and i don't have to worry about my husband stressing his self.
Men/Women rather your dating or married make sure that you test that person's loyalty, just pay attention to their spending and what's important them……………u or the money🐘
I always wonder why successful black football players are always married to white women and not black women . There is a stereotype about black women been materialistic and gold diggers.
Never been a woman who sought out a man for his money. Can make that on my own. Not impressed by money and things. But most females…of every species seek security. Sometimes financial security, sometimes emotional security, sometimes physical security…or all of the above. What most women cannot abide by is a man who offers none of these. Or men who claim to provide one without any ambition to provide the others.
Women prefer men who don't have anything. They reject and use men who are successful. This is due to feeeling inferior and insecure with a man that has his life together.
Nice topic Bro Phrankleen. There are many good geniune women out ther but guys (pay too much heed to their family and friends) dnt aprecriare them or even take a decond look they call them mumu, they only want materialistic women and women with degrees, meanwhile not every eoman is stupid they just didnt all have oppourtunitys to go to uni etc, some women went through so much hicups they v tried and tried but that doasen t make them bad woman. To an extent its visa versa men women. A woman with not much man with not mch but they are ambitious and go getters what is wrong with such people, no one gives them a chance. People lets stop judging and being negative before you find out how beautiful every individual is. To cut story short, there are many good women, men out there use your own common sense majority people contribute to the table, and to those who are wealthy hv all the money in the world than help children who are struggling, women and men who need the encouragement and finance to make a start. Many hav nots hav many good ideas but no money to put idea into motion. Much love my people
Yes. We women expect the man to pay for most of the household things cos she is going to carry your children and cook your food , and all domestic. It’s a high time u black men start doing the domestic so that to talk about 50/50 issue.
I think pipo have to hookup with their own class. Men have always been selfish with their money . Especially black men in Africa where the laws favor men.
Sweet heart you only talk about men whom their women have disappointed and you forget about the women who pick up good for nothing men from the gutter clean them up set them on their feet, comfort their bed shelter and feed them just because they need a husband, at the end of the day the man is exposed to the people who matters and can now speak like a man, later the man starts seeing things differently fall in love with another woman and disappoint the very one that pick him from the gutter who gave him that exposure broken and battered, what is your opinion on that
I do not condone degrading anyone because its not nice. i personally will never verbally disrespect anyone but am cautious of struggle love.
Do you think it's fair for a woman to build with a man then get left for another woman when he becomes wealthy? It's a very painful thing to happen to someone. That was my mom's life and she was heartbroken and would never agree that any of her daughter's build with any man.
Another thing is what about a man that waste a woman's time strings her along for 8 years, breaks up with her and get married to another women in 6 months.
Gold digging Is not just one way a woman's time is also her gold.
There is no guarantee that when you build with a man he will remain faithful with you when the wealth starts coming in. We have seen that happen frequently in our society's I guess it the reason women are a bit cautious with building with a man. Just my thoughts.
In every thing there is always a place of compromise but I will advise caution.
I am currently in my 30’s and she is older. I dated this girl in my 20’s. I was going to get married to her but she left because I was college student, without any money. I didn’t have a nice car and the extra cash to go around. She went for a guy with money and cars. This happened in the States. She was with him for more than 4 years only to find out that he was married with 3 kids. Now I eventually finished college. I bought my own house, cars and I’m hoping to get married soon. She also is waiting on Mr. right. I told her recently that if she had been patient life would have been different. I live in the States and I agree that a man should not be left with all the bills because he is a man. I don’t mind 60/40 but with take advantage because I am a man I should pay all the bills because it makes me more manly. Men die early every year because of that, breaking their backs for relationships where women thinks is there god given right to stay at home. It is so unfair because this society here is different. Women are given equal opportunities and more so it is unfair to men to do that. Except this is an agreement in the relationship or the man is a millionaire in dollars
Men and women aren't the same and will never be. Women have been "liberated" from their obligations and responsibilities of wife and mother and are "expected" to perform at equal levels with men, whilst men are still expected to continue their social responsibilities and obligations of provider/protector. Thats why women still choose to date/marry men who out earn them because its in line with their biological imperatives (to be provided for and protected).They want "good men" ie rich handsome and inspirational which is fine. Theres just one problem. Such men are the minority of people in society and due to their status they have access to the top tier of women. However thanks to the lies of feminism most women today think they deserve such men. On the other hand men have been ironically liberated. Since gender is nothing but a social construct women too can pick up and take it from there. Men too aren't obliged to accept and condone disrespectful feminist boss btiches. It isn't mandatory. If I provide, I expect submission and compliance in return. If she doesn't like that arrangement she can leave.
An eye opener to all young men, planning to tie the nuptial knot.
It's always a woman from Ghana. Lol. Poverty of the mind
What is Love self? i'm talking about real love before the arrival of Tv, hollywood and them love stories that dosent translate to rreaity buried in our subconsious mind self … lets's look at this objectively .
Hypergamy brother not gold digging. I sit at the table as the prize_traditional feminism.
Do you.
They want the mans money and material stuff and all they have to offer is what is in between their legs. You can smell these women from a mile and more easily on Instagram. Only very spiritual and/or deep women are beyond materialism. As for the women in Africa these days, they are finished. All they know is money for hand – back for ground. As for men, go to women who will uplift and celebrate you. Dont go near any women who are poison. Discern and you will see her for her true colours. Red flags will always pop up. Thank God I live in London, have a good job and dont suffer fools gladly with any women. I think most women especially born back in Af are gold diggers irrespective of age. Greed is very powerful spirit. I have just thought of Nollywood babe Regina Daniels and Ned for some odd reason. Great video Phrankleen.
Hi phrankleen great vid as always but being honest here I feel the way society is us men are viewed as bejng disposable its almost like noboduneeds us anymore even getting a job due to diversity an inclusion its much more harder to land a very well paying job for a young man.
Wen you come across dating ifur not showing off pom wilm always view u a the broke boy which is foolish inmy opinion i urge young men to find self worth so hey feel bit more secure, 85 suicides a month isnt for nothing
The first guy that wanted to marry me had a lot of money but no career no life plan he did had money through some temporary contracts to me that was a deal breaker but I advised him to get a career go back to school and get a degree that could give him a license that will get him a more permanent Job. For 6 years I kept pushing and encouraging him but he didn’t listen during these 6 years I went to school sponsor myself got my degree but he was same. I decided to break up with him explaining to him why I told him I cannot follow a man without a plan nor a vision. I finally meet my now husband who had a regular job , was going to school and had a clear plan and vision written down that was what I was looking for. He has realize 90 percent of the plans and still moving. So know exactly what you want
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It’s a mixture because we have lazy women/gold diggers but at the same time our society facilitates this by the sexist mindset of providing positions and jobs of influence only mostly to men irrespective of if a woman is more qualified or not. Our young women are groomed to be dependent on their husbands for financial security. I’ve been in the U.S. for 17 years and apart from the first 8 months
(I was ready to work as soon as I got my work permit in my 5th month and was prevented from working because my husband seized my work permit)I have always worked. I don’t believe in depending on any man for my financial security. That would be a big mistake. I have never asked any man to pay my bills and I have never been like that. Some women are ridiculous that way.These same issues is why we have such a high rate of single women today and they’re confused as to why potential husband are not forth coming let alone the social engineering that’s been perpetuated by the govt on black race this is the reality that the black race has to deal with boyalomo its about to get worse now that everything is data driven .we better start learning how to unite as a couple and prosper as a couple . Not dividing and conquering each other as a couple . It’s not us against us, it’s us against them .
The question is what exactly are they admiring ?
The money or the guy , the engine of the car ? Or the candy paint? Lol 😂
I come from a family where the bills were split 50-50. Again ladies now just want everything easy, I've seen guys are doing a job that has no long term future in it just to be able to tell a lady I do this or that. I don't mind being broke now I want to be able to set my kids up for life and That's not something a side job can take care of. I'm not here to please any lady with my job title. Maybe men should stop trying Extra hard to Impress a woman because that's when most of the mistakes are made. A lady that wants to stay will stay and try to watch the crowd you hang out with… Most times I think guys make these mistakes because they got thirsty and they have no discipline over their sexual desires. Brothers need to be strong willed. Know what you want and stop getting excited over everything like a 5yr old in a chocolate store
Just get a caterer man, I pay £50 you, she pays £50 and we give it to the caterer . the caterer will package our food for the month end of story . That way, I can enjoy my wife with hardcore sex with no story about being tired lol 😂
bro you are right thank you for this message peace🤞👌👍