Single Parent Household: The Black Community's Demise?
Single Parent Household: The Black Community's Demise?
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Single Parent Household: The Black Community’s Demise?
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What are your views on women adopting babies and raising the children without a man especially if they adopt a boy?
Is in black men dna to abandoned their children, because of slavery were black men who detached from their wives and children, even today there a lot single mom from other races of women from black men
Good video. We have the same problems happening over here in the United States. Can you make a video about how Africans discriminate against Blacks (non-Africans)? There is so much of that here in the United States. I wonder if it happens over in the UK as well.
Not this clown again talking rubbish THIS GUY IS A LIAR AND A SCAMMER AND HE DOES JUJU
I am working on my book 📕 on Motherhood…..
Thank you 🙏🏾 for your Discussion!
I didn't grow up with my mom or dad. I lived with my grandma and a relative. I lived with my grandma for the first six years of my life and I lived with the relatives for 10 years. I used to steal, money, clothes, iPad. I still don't know how I didn't get caught. Luckily I had good friends and they always called me out when I was going something shady. I lived with my dad for a year before he died. My mom was never in my picture. She got married to another man and has kids. I'm trying my best to keep my head afloat and act like the past doesn't bother me, sometimes I even fake a smile to stop the tears. I'm only 19 so I have a long ways to go, by God's grace. I hope it gets better
All children with two parents do better. Even positive co parenting. Not a race issue. The stats. Are against these kids. Most gangs are kids with NO dads. Not rocket science. All
Kids need dads! ❤️
It's turning into a global problem to be honest & good video
Advice for BW: Marry before you carry. If you don't plan on getting married, don't plan on having children!
trust being black in the uk is that deep
In South Africa and I relate 100%
Growing up, I could see that culturally speaking, all my Caribbean friends were encouraged to sleep (and cheat on) with as many girls ('gyalist' was the term) as they could possible. Commitment to a partner was treated with ridicule and regarded as 'weak'. It seems that their definition of what it means 'to be a man' was to collect as many sexual conquests as possible. In other cultures, 'to be a man' would be to stick, commit and raise a family. Also, just a side note, who are the women complaining about this and are they the same women sleeping with these men helping rack up the conquest points? Just a thought.
I also observed that were also incredibly sexually active at a very young age. Where as pretty faces and kissing was the goal for me. It seemed that the body and sex was the goal for them. This cannot just be a socio-economic problem because we were all on the lower end of the socio-economic scale.
My only conclusion is that it's a cultural phenomenon as many of these same men would often joke about their "baby mama drama" without ever really seriously thinking "How do I solve this problem?". It was an acceptance, or even a kind of pleasure in the drama that came along with it. The problem of course is that the child is the victim in all this dysfunction and grows up with the same problems…UNLESS by chance and a miracle of some sort, they choose a different path despite being called a traitor to their group.
Hi Phrankleen could you do a review about the moynihan report. It deals with this issue.
You get more government benefit as single parenthood.
I Luv you're mind #Phrankleen, as u know I'm a fairly new subscriber to you're channel but I can truly relate to most if not all the subjects / Dilemmas you talk about. 💞🙏🏾💜 including this one.
I have kids but I don't want them I don't want to see him I don't even want them to know me I hate my kids I hate my baby mama for having my kids she ruined my life
God sent the angel Gabriel to convince Joseph so that Christ wouldn't be raised by a single mother!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I will not say that black single mothers are the main downfall of the black community, but they can be one of the factors.
Truth 1000%
It’s the responsibility of the two people who create the child to make sure that that child has a family structure period. If you can’t raise kids don’t have them and that’s facts
Cracking on….. and donkey years
Those are your commonly-used words here. 😄😀😄.
Well idk but I have no interest in marriage and i plan to adopt two kids, Hence I’ll be s single mom. As long as the kids don’t lack the basic things in life I think it’s okay.I was raised by a single mom myself and I’m doing fine, just finished uni and going for MSc al my siblings are Doing Well too. No criminal records nothing 🥳
It's not always the case, my mum raise the 3 of us alone , dad absent, we all are doing well, university graduates married and doing well
I'm telling you man there was a time I was in Stratford east London Westfield shopping centre i saw a black kid finished drink of juice and just threw the bottle from top floor and landed on an old lady downstairs this infont of many shoppers. ..I was ashamed of my race to be honest. .
Best vlog from you so far, unfortunately I have to bash you based on your previous topics. You have previously bashed couple who have stayed in the marriage bcos for their kids, you as a black Nigeria man I found it disgraceful that u once advised ur followers not to stay in marriage just because of their children, I was so disappointed in you. Children are blessings from God and must be guided properly. In marriage couples must sacrifice for their children no matter what. We as a Africans our culture is different from the Europeans and the rest of the western world
Good one
This a topic that we need to talk more about but in Africa we have a saying “that it takes two to create children but a whole village to raise them”. You can not even look at someone child when they are mis-behaving without getting shout at. Our children needs us as a community to lead and guide them to be the best we know they can be. It a shame instead of us uniting in raising our children we are busy with hating each other.
Yes you have done it again
Thank you
please cut that white supremacists nonsensical talking points out
In most if not all African cultures it's the man who decides whether to be left with the children or send them away with their mother.
However, these mothers are not supposed to return to their parents or relatives.
Particularly if dowry has been paid in part or full.
Even outside of her family, not many people risk taking them in for fear of being accused of being the one who was the homewrecker even when It's obviously not so.
This forces those wives to go into hiding and keep changing hiding place. ..enonymous hardship to these women especially if they took children along.
Another reason why the woman parents don't return the dowry is because it has to be returned in multiples like double triple even up to 7 times depending on ethnicity. I know a particular cultural group that requires that the father of the woman has to go work 7 years for the inlaws to finalize divorce.
Such are reasons that cause married women to do whatever they can do so as not to leave husbands homes. Unfortunately as well, many end up being battered to death by their husband.
– Very bad to especially children, family, community and finally to wooow, Mama Africa.
We all know that this is going on to this very moment, but fear of backlash for speaking is HUGE!!!