Single Motherhood: It’s the absent Fathers’ fault ? // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 72
Single Motherhood: It’s the absent Fathers’ fault ? // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 72
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This is a togetherness effort. Black women do need to stop reacting so fast and stop being naive. Men alike need to quit lying or acting like men and women are not women alike. What is this men matter and women matters when its not biological. We should be able to talk about everything together and unite our future and family. I appreciate you Brother. Wa she ori ire yeah!!!! Keep saying it like it is, call out WOMEN when they are being ill and same to MEN who are being ill in our community. Everyone who acts shamefully to our community needs to be called out and constructively see what to do to correct themselves. Mirror is fantastic for black people work on ourselves and stop stereotypically falling into meaningless relationships just because…….
Women need to quit using their feminist power to sleep with men and think he will stay when kids are involved.
If Government entities turn around and have social workers evaluate those families to not break up and still help financially. Our community will stay together. If abusiveness happens out I get that but patience is something we don't have. I personally have no patience for STUPID relationships, goals have to be open, constructive criticism is VITAL.
I no wan hear ohhhh you too fat so I cheated. Why didn't you and I go work out together. MEN CHEATING IS VERY HIGH ON THE LIST OF BROKEN BLAQ FAMILIES, FINANCIAL IN THE WEST.
I don't understand idiots that snore and feel it's healthy to keep drinking beer because that's what men do.
Also pisses me off when women shop till they drop and want to tell me that's what women do.
If it's beyond the family needs retract and put your family's needs first and excuse stupid habits for unity.
LOVE AND RESPECT BROTHER PHRANKLEEN@@@@!!!!
Thank you
Good morning phrankleen
My sister is a single mother. Yes, this IS the father's fault. He knocked up 2 other women.
Hypergamy is real
Relationships are not easy, both parties have to work on themselves and on the relationship to understand each other and support each other. But most people they just want go the easy way. When is getting hard they throw the relationship to trash. And think now days on social media you can get men / women exchanged…
Never get married. It's a fucking trap for us men period
Moms are extremely protective of their children and the best future possible for them. Trust me this single mom problem runs a lot more deeper. There is so much dysfunction in the black community. If I had to choose being mommy hood or exposing myself and child to a sick environment guess what am picking? Fully aware of what the stats look like for children in single parent homes. It’s so so easy to judge single moms but I would be curious to know why they made the choices that they made.
it was hams fault..jesus
What is your view about dating single mom? If you have date single mom
Pls drop your comments…
What about the homeless single father
This guy is actually saying the absolute truth without any bias. Most people know this truth but are not bold enough to say it publicly because of the society we live in.
What is the ratio of females who kill their spouses to that of the makes who kill their spouses!
That’s true, some big pipe, some money, some don’t like to be told , some selfishness , some career, some prefer multiple pipes as they get bored with one pipe, some dude pipe too small, some they like aggressive guys as they equate it to hardcore sex . , as they complain that nice guys are boring . Some is the guy is not driven, some is the guy behave like a women , some dates dude with good looks without looking at his character and attributes that constitute to a loving husband . some finds it difficult to respect man, some is the benefit they get. some are are gunning for papers once they have the kid they kick 🦵 you off , Some is they greedy so they date fraudster and they get gassed up in the process . Some are domestic abuse . It’s all about making the right decisions . by their fruits u shall no them . not by their trunks u shall no them : all stemming from up bringing passed from one generation to the other . Man, its endless. By all means women need to be protected especially black women they are so marginalised it’s incredible they feel like no one cares about them . We men need to do more to keep our women secure . Just look at the media black women are so marginalised. Also what we defined as love in the media are lies they are just tv show with don’t even know what real love is we go by what we see on tv dictated by screen writer who don’t have an idea what love his lol
One of your brothers wife have a child with another man which the husband has to accept, while they were still married, PLEASE COMENT,she was not single
My step dad married my mother as a single mother, he died 11 years ago, I which he was alive today
For African marriages in the West, Keep welfare out of the black family, and you'll see how husband and wife will form a tag team to build, sustain and weather whatsoever marital storms they may encounter within the course of that union..
The decades old union of our parents are a classic example to many of us that despite several quarrels, fights, disagreements and what have you, they remained together to keep the family intact and in that process, unknowingly transferred the spirit of "sorting out our differences" to their children.
Western Social Workers should play very limited roles in the lives of black families.. Their techniques haven't worked for them, so why then should it work for us? Why do we invite them into our families?
I've got a lot to say but I'll leave it here for now
@phrankleen, I think the only way to fix this problem is for fathers to start taking care financially and emotionally for their off-springs. Not just going around and being just sperm donars. So being a single mother is not the problem. Yes , that's true some women make the children hate the father. pity!!!!
Man, I just stumbled on this channel. This is fire. I’m like where have I been all this while???
Nice on @phrankleen, we forgot to mention the social infrastructural benefits like housing etc, that encourage single motherhood. In Manchester, women get pregnant just to get a council flat.
Only the two people in the relationship know for real why they really have to break up and move on.
If it is overly stressful its not worth it. You start to develop serious illnesses.
Its better for children to be raised in a happy home with a single parent than in a dysfunctional home with mom and dad present.
I see single moms whose kids have grown up to be doctors, engineers etc. I have also seen kids with issues, and they grew up in a nuclear family.
It's all about the bond you establish with your children and the environment you raise them in.
Sometimes the men that have two children with these women or not bad.
The women are not bad themselves.
It's just that they are not compatible with each other.
A lot of the men are involved in their children's lives.
The single mom is an unwed mother who had a child with a baby daddy.
Many women become single mothers because they don't take the time to get to know a man before they have a sexual relationship.
Many people enter sexual relationships less than three weeks of knowing a person.
If they would have taken the time to know the man they would have found out that they're not compatible and would have saved themselves from having children with these men.
Most of the time women don't make it easy for the man to still remain active in the lives of the children.
I tell my guy and my brothers if you have to cry, cry.
Don't like the fact that people say oh you are a man don't do this and that.
Men equally have a emotions!
As a woman or man don't just date because of beauty or handsome be wise and smart people.
Great topic man
Phrankleen brother, your work is good ..it’s educative …very very …u need to understand how not to let people get to you ..don’t try to figure it out u can’t help everyone it’s life ..people will listen very good amount will..some are born to just oppose any good in life so don’t try to figure it out just do the good work …trust me Good number of people appreciate your ideas 💡 👍👍
To stereotype men as useless is due to bitterness and forgiveness. No one is perfect and we have find solutions for relationship problems Instead of blaming. The blame game does not bring positive results.