Single Black Women – Get Married Now!!
Single Black Women – Get Married Now!!
Black Women can get married. here are some tips about selfishness and responsibility. Don’t lean into modern day laziness Black women, instead stand out by dedicating your life to your family.
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How about no.
As a man, I think women should stay single. Women say they are happier single so they should stay that way.
Life is better single without kids.
I thought about it and I can cook and clean on my own. I don't want kids and I don't miss people.
I can't sell women advice that would lead them to misery. After all, some men aren't really worthy of marriage or a companion. After years of hearing BW swear all BM are trash, dusty, etc, I think it's best we part ways and just leave each other alone.
I can't give up my peace for a woman, I'd rather get a cat and die alone.
Marriage doesn't become that desirable once you realize the grim reality of what it takes to receive a partner and keep a partner. You got to change a lot of yourself keep up the change because of conditional love and it still doesn't guarantee that the person won't flip a switch on you somewhere down the line and make you be miserable.
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Why? You are a mad man. A good vibrator and a pew pew and good friends are all most of us need.
How long have you been married, sir? … my grandmother always told me to check your references.
As a 21 year old black woman yall taking the fun out of finding a life long partner the way the men in this comment section acting make me wanna stay single I havenāt even set foot in the dating scene yet and I already know I donāt wanna deal with this
Plus we were given an option by Yah saying it's good for a woman to be single. Because we can serve Him better without distraction of man. 1Chorintians 7:8 8 Now to the unmarried and the widows I say: It is good for them to stay unmarried, as I am.9But if they cannot control themselves, they should marry, for it is better to marry than to burn with passion.
THEY HAVE IT TWISTED. MEN ARE A FULL TIME JOB if you get married.
BEEN MARRIED long-term wouldn't do it again. The only time women benefit is when it is over. I would prefer to own my own time.
Out of all the women in America! you mean to tell me there is not ONE woman worthy of Marriage!.
These dudes are down badā¦. Begging for the women they really donāt likeā¦..
Just go get your passport and get somebody else to do itā¦We the black women delegation defer you down bad dudes to Latinas š¤£
Black women please date outside your race.
Heres my ressons why I'm single as a man and proud of it
1) No comparisons of body count
2) not worried about a woman after me because of my salary and what I make
3) I don't have to accept women approaching me. Society is backwards today since when did God say its ok for women to pursue or chase men? Read your Bible Folks it said He that findeth a Wife, not She finding him.
4) You don't have to play games. Dating today is filled with games. I can talk in the age group of 30+ but as a 27 year old millennial this is one of the most undesirable times to be making friends from Snapchat, Instagram and Facebook.
5) No friendzone. Thats another issue women have played for centuries.
6) No hassles on divorce or marriage prenups or courts putting the ex husband on financial strain.
7) No over spending on dates, or wasting time to try to build with someone with different motives.
Here's the reality i wouldn't mind getting married as a man. But men have standards too. I dont want a woman who disrespects men or belittles others to try to boost up her ego. As a man, I would rather have peace than conflict
This seems a bit complicated – I'm glad I'm married. I know when I'm talking to young people I tell them to date with intention to marry and accept nothing less. Too many people let the idea of marriage scare them but if you waste time with Mr or Miss wrong – you may find yourself old, single and disappointed.
When I met my beautiful wife (who is a black woman) the very first day at a Starbucks (we met online first) she asked me what my intentions were. I told her that I would date her for no more than 3 years. If we were still dating after 3 years from the day I met her (not when we actually started officially dating) I would break up with her. It was a risky move but about 15 months later she became my wife and we have a very good life.
Some of these dating channels would have had her not date me because I was average income, had a child from a previous relationship and I rented my house (not to mention I am white raised in a town with nothing but white people). The sites might have told me not to date her because she was divorced with 2 kids one of whom was autistic – but that was before MGTOW and all the black women shaming things. It worked out.
She is a great wife. I'm no longer average income and we grew together. We wouldn't have gotten the chance if we had gotten a lot of the advice flowing on the internet these days. I feel sorry for singles. Date with intention to marry and accept nothing less.
To losers ā¦ Kings with no kingdom?
Get married? With whom, and with what finances? Who will the person they seek to marry turn out to be? Will losing a job for no fault of your own destroy your marriage? I think black people should make a contract with one another across the board to act as a fist.
Remember, all unions between persons can easily be made null and void instantly (it happens thousands of times daily). I know because, as a middle-aged black man, I learned the hard way, as the late historian, Dr. Clarke, John Henrik, I believe is the proper spelling, states: black people should not go to white people (family law courts) to resolve their disputes.
I think, in other words, the pressures brought about by manipulations and propaganda make it darn near impossible for black people to understand the terrible degree of force against them. The laws have no respect for us.
Sure, unions are essential (but controlled by a community standard). Do consider that given the state of the world, possibly moving towards WW3, it's time that black people take a break and re-evaluate their relationship with these institutions over which we have no control. Jesus Christ loves you. God helps those who help themselves.
It's scary getting married..not only do you give someone your heart you are trusting them with your life.
Dude pay for home help š
He is right if you want a husband. Don't be nobody's fool.
Be aware of any and all of a man's red flags. Some women get married to have a husband. Not seeing the present or looking at his past practices. But you can change his future? What? God was supposed to be in on it in many situations.
If its your friend or relative and you speak up. Then you're jealous and minding their business. Or a single old biddy who does not want to see them happy because you're unhappy. Not true sugar. I'm at peace while you're trying to fix a puzzle with missing peices.
Do we need/want a husband? Men are competing against a woman's peace. If he is not bringing peace, he is not needed.
I am selfish. I am not domestic. I do not want to cook or clean for anyone but myself. I do not want to entertain or satisfy anyone but myself. If I did, he needs to be submissive and take the wife role. I work and take care of myself. Many women are just not having sex. Nobody believes it, but everyone has that auntie alone. She is content. Why? She could buy her own tire. Peace over sex any day.
Y wud any woman start to act like a wife for a man who doesn't know his God and His purpose? There's NOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO WAY!!!
It never ceases to amaze me that so called believers NEVER EVER TALK ABOUT PURPOSE… so odd!!!! How come u always speak from a secular, worldly point of view? Where is GOD in this? Doesn't God speak anymore? To direct and to lead? IS GOD DEFUNCT? Y wud any woman marry any man who doesn't KNOW HE IS SUBMITTED TO CHRIST, KNOWS HOW TO HEAR GOD AND KNOWS HIS PURPOSE?