Single Black Women Are Listening to Bad Dating Advice
Single Black Women Are Listening to Bad Dating Advice
Many Single Black Women choose to follow “teachers” who are full of hate instead of finding ones filled with love and realistic hope. Bad Advice is rampant on social media and in regular media. It’s important for Black Women to find people they can trust to speak life into their dating world and relationships.
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Hey bro. It ain't the men. The women are out of touch today. Jesus couldn't help the women of today. These modern women with their Degrees carry themselves higher than God ordained them. They don't even cook. They are too high for that. Again, Jesus couldn't help these women of today. Sadly, no one's gonna marry them unless they humble themselves. If they return traditionally they might have a chance.
Preach!! This is a great channel and one of the only relationship channels I watch because it is a Christian channel and you are unbiased in your videos. Keep it up we appreciate it!
I think that it's all good. Everything is perfect as it is. Life and everything in it is designed perfectly. There's no need to blame the media or anybody bcuz people are doing what they want to do whether there's the media or not. It's like, if you take all of the bad influence away, people will recreate it, just as if you take all of the drugs and alcohol away people will recreate it. Bcuz you can't force people to be a certain way and everybody has to develop at their own pace.
There's a path for everybody and people do what they want and avoid what they want. And for the most part, I think that marriage is just a scam, bcuz guys never wanted to get married before, so why now? It makes no sense. And since the guys want to get married, why not appeal to them? Make a video for the guys saying: Let's Get You Married.
Bcuz women are fed up with men and men are the ones who have to prove that they are serious about love and commitment. I think men are the ones generating and following bad dating advice.
And truth — when it comes to providing, many if not most black men don't want to provide for black women bcuz black women are black, so they will only provide for women who aren't black. And that eliminates black women right there. Get black men married to a woman they will want to provide and make an effort for. Work from the male end.
Amen brother!!! I'm happy to see your growth. And I agree with you and that young lady. The people who watch those videos bring about rage from their viewers. We need more people like you who bring balance and still believe in marriage. Please keep it going!!!
Brother Jay!!!!!!!! So glad you posted this clip.
I have so much to concur with and my own personal testimony of growth like the lady in the video.
Confession: I too used to listen to the "sprinkle lady" known as the godmother of that movement on YouTube and a few others. I used to have an Atlanta women's dating meetup group and Youtube Channel around the above content and have since DELETED (privated) them both. I never intended to be a part of the problem. I may start another meetup group on loving relationships but not sure. I now BLOCK all the hypergamy, red pill, misandry channels. You have to train the algorithm.
The bad advice on both sides is making us repel each other in large numbers. This looks like a DEMONIC THOUGHT FORM inflicting our people and it seems to be winning.
To who much is given much is required (accountability). During my dark moments of the soul while dating….. the spirit was dealing with me about the online misandry content. I asked…why was dating unsuccessful and single seasons extending so long, and I heard because "Your light is flickering" to men.
As I was engaging with that misandry content faithfully, I was taking on a REPROBATED MIND in this area…I knew better because of my religious upbringing, and particular calling, therefore I was held to a higher degree of accountability.
As far as 'My light was flickering," …..You are the light of the world, and a city set on a hill cannot be hidden, nor does anyone light a lamp and put it under a basket. Matthew 5:14. In other words, you have to move away from the herd mentality. That's what absorbing that content did to my spirit, and hence my light, until I dissociated myself from that herd and hurt frequency.
Why waste time trying to save something that does not want to be saved? Going by how badly the black community has failed its people by embracing nearly every act and ideology that destroys healthy family structures, does it deserve to be preserved? It’s to the point where decent family oriented individuals must look outside the community to find decent people to marry. I see great individuals, but the group is geared to remain at the bottom of the socioeconomic ladder.
It's hard to do when you have no moral compass uneducated, no job, ghetto lonely 😂
Really like your content brother. I like your approach. We need more Brothers like you out there sharing good wholesome advice from a Godly perspective in regards to relationships that will lead to marriage. Keep up the great work and I will be sharing this video.