Shocking: My Parents want £800 monthly // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 70
Shocking: My Parents want £800 monthly // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 70
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"…you are the one making coffee for the guy making tea in the office.." 😂😂😂😂😂 bro, you are a mess.
You on the money, Phrankleen. Credit card companies do run an entrapment business. That's why I'm all for debit cards: spend what you have. Period! Anytime my bank sends me an application for one, u bin it. Thank you very much!
£19k credit card debt? Dad, you on your own. Carry that burden and miss me with it!
When they were investing and pouring into you you were not complaining. Oya, pay up and stop the noise. The truth is that some African parents were not given anything and poured their last into children, so they could have a better life.
Phrankleen you are correct. There is no place in the Bible that it says it's a curse not to 'take care of the parents'. That sentence is used over the head of many by lazy and destructive parents and some pastors. Give what you can. Do Not put yourself in debt or do without because of family' 'back home', or retired parents.
Sell the £700k house buy something much smaller for around £200k, pay off the debt you owe, buy life insurance and put the rest into the stock market £300k paying 10% annually from the stock market would be £30k/year, £2000 per month.
The trick is to become aloof… don't invite me over for easter, don't invite me over for x-mas, don't even me over for birthdays, don't invite me over for SHIT. LOOOL I've taught them to give me my distance… now nobody asks anything of me, and I don't expect anything from them either. We just chat here and there a few times per year. But at least I am not expect to pay £800 per month LOOOL
This is the thing about African people I noticed here in the United States 🇺🇸! They think 💭 CreditCard equals FREE MONEY 💰!
I personally only spend money on my credit card 💳 that I already have! Your credit just show to banks 🏦 how trustworthy you’re with money!
That’s one reason why a lot of Africans in the western world 🌎 with legal documents are poor! They create liability debt 💸 that they can’t pay off! Smh 🤦🏿♂️!
In my opinion, I think the parents are demanding all these money Becos they feel the children will inherit their house someday and benefit a lot from it, So they are making them pay.
I could never take from my children. My job as a parent is to provide for them, not the other way around. I am the one that brought them into this world. They didn't get a choice. My children will never owe me anything other than respect.
Just send them(parents ) back to their Village of origine
You're doing a nice job my brother educating all this people thanks
I am going through the same mess
Though I do not support parents who use children as retirement fund (I'm a child under this Category), 1 of the root cause here is poverty and financial illiteracy. The time our parents spend in church and looking good (well dressed) to impress the rich could be spent to improve financial knowledge and invest. We really need to change this narrative.
Sounds like the parents need to rent out the two extra rooms in that morage free 🏠 js
Parents are suppose to look after their children and spend money on them .. where else would they spend their money and isn't that the reason for their hardwork.
Some parents can be so greedy and never satisfied
Morning sweetheart I'm in uk and a mortgage free property owned by parents is great.
They are very coniving as parents they have to be happy with their situation.
I suggest leave their property alone until they expire. A contract should have been made up between parents and siblings regarding monthly payments of £200 per siblings already paid.
Plus the mums outstanding hospital bill still being processed. The father responsibility surely to provide for his wife not the children.
Surely you'll realised the father as being unfair and deliberately taking advantage of this situation.
I suggest draw up a contract amongst the siblings and parents to avoid any further issues of money infact either or situation,
Pay off hospital bills or £200 a month.
Cut the £200 to £100 and placed the £100 on your mortgage to over pay on mortgage.
Your personal home life is the most important.
Some of this old parents they are too greedy not they don't have enough to survive the just want surplus
Parents personal ATM
Thank God my mom is not like that when it comes to money. 🤦🏾♀️
My mother only buys brand new SUVs but she always complains she has no money. I myself always buy used cars. We both live in the United States. It’s very sad. I do not give any monthly allowance to her. I can only help ever now and then. #financialyirresponsible