She Kept Two Short let apartments from me for 5 years
She Kept Two Short let apartments from me for 5 years
She Kept Two Short let apartments from me for 5 years is another interesting live stream packed full of lessons for all to learn from. This looks at the issue of mistrust within relationships. What will you do in such circumstance?
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Watching playback. This woman lived a lie for five years. Unbelievable! The woman remained BECAUSE SHE WANTED HER CAKE AND ICECREAM. WHY NOT LET HIM BE WITH SOMEONE THAT WANTS A TRUTHFUL, AND TRUSTING RELATIONSHIP. BELEIVE ME THATS NOT HER ONLY SECRET.👌🤔
This is what I called deception fraud, how can she called the man her husband and kept this kind of secret from him?and I will not be surprised if she have
I don’t understand why some women think men should be responsible for everything
Maybe he's a great father holding on for the kids
If she had these property before marriage thats her personal business. But she should have still made him aware of her investment.
Phrako Nero.
That guys Experience, is what's known amongst Igbo speaking tribe; As the "Mbaise Syndrome".
Guy, "Na Small shit. Dey stain yansh o"(Niger-Delta saying)
That same woman. Would've led the Husband, to his Death.
Afterwards, be the Loudest mourner. At his funeral.
*These daughters of Eve.
Once there’s 50/50 that’s the end of marriage. You’re now officially housemates. Better join your finances snd work together
Anyone that called you biased is capable of doing the same thing. That woman can plot against him and kill! He should test his children’s DNA to make sure they’re his. If that man was my brother, I’d tell him to divorce her, let her see what it’s like to pay the bills by herself. We’ll see how much disposable income she’ll be able to use for more projects. Nonesense! If the man was controlling the wife, she wouldn’t insult him saying he wasn’t a man if he didn’t pay all the bills.
you should listen to both sides before judging a woman and calling her bad names.
NEVER EVER GO 50/50 with the MAN, STASH YOUR CASH IF YOU CAN.
my story. married Nigerian went 50/50 on everything. took the loan out for his business and he cheated on me on his first business trip. he also has abused me emotionally for years and also physically in the end. Never ever go 50 /50 with the man. stash your cash if you can . i gave 100% of me and lost in the end.
i am really proud of this woman ! she has saved enough money to buy property which will secure her children. men quickly forget about children when new booty comes around. have too many stories when men use women for everything.
I suspect some people are behind that blackout😀…awon egbe eleye.
Thanks
But it looks like they are going 50 on bills and domestic expenses… so not sure what she does with her 50 matters… not sure if I'll hide the projects from him .. but trust me she has her reasons… she may ne making more money , its hard to go 50/50 that way
But i think u have become to British. But that hiding of assets it very common especially men do it very much. Its mainly cos of the toxic culture we have in Africa. Particularly in east Africa. Specifically in uganda.
The woman mistake from my knowledge is not telling the man about it. I will let him know, whether he agree or not I will go ahead, since will are not doing Joint Account. Also I will do whatever I agreed to be doing at home. Most of the problem comes from irresponsible men. If me and husband have the same ideology, we will do everything together, especially if known there is no outside children.
People are quick to create gender war. What point are they trying to make.
You can not justify concealment fraud as well justify cheating by a woman or a man. What is bad is bad.
Frankleen, I respect your judgement. Men and women do same stuffs.
Though if possible it would be better to hear the woman's side of the story.
But in my sincere opinion, the woman is not doing the right thing. She is progressing to the detriment of her marriage and husband.
The man was too slow to discover that his wife had been going against him for long.
What the woman did is inline with our mentality in nigeria. But video is good. Its enlightenment how to do thing rightly.
Some husbands would frustrate their wife from achieving their aims of building that houses.
Alot if men in thus situation won't bounce due to the upcoming payments that will lead to his downfall and her excuses as to why she did what she dud…
Mr. Phrankleen, you are so on point. Some of we Africans find it difficult to leave a relationship/marriage when they realise that the trust built has been destroyed.
This life is all about choices and decision-making. Likewise, we all need to be responsible for whichever decision we make.
The guy shouldn't feel so SAD. He should start counting his losses that he realised this now not when it has been more than 5 years. He should go have DNA test on the children too. Just to avoid another unexpected secret.
If really this is how the story goes, he should think about separating to assimilate this, and if he wants to go along with the MARRIAGE, then good, if not, he should divorce and if the kids are his, never stop being a father to them……
It's not going to be easy but this life is already HARD, why make it harder when we can see the light at the end of the tunnel?
You always speak the truth. Thank you
I totally agree with your analysis
That’s evil
Women be wise and be careful of the advice you take from family
Build yourself home showing love kindness and support.
More transparency
It’s all vanity
What does "Head of Household" mean?
PHRANKLEEN (AS A CHRISTIAN MY BELEIVE IS THAT ORIGINAL BIBLE IS "HEBREW BIBLE" BUT KING JAMES VERSION WAS TRANSLATION OF IT . WHEN HE GATHER THE CAMBRIDGE SCHOLARS TO TRANSLATE IT.
As a human being , i don't support 50/50 all the time, may be the man should have tried 60/40 or 70/30. communication is key. will never support deception and selfishness. A woman should help with bills and join forces with the spouse to build family wealth.
WHAT u mean!! Jesus is the head of the family 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 ridiculous
I am not condoning what that woman did and she should've never withheld such information from her hubby, but we have seen cases were husband and wife have done business together putting 50/50 funds in it, with the Man's name on that business.
Only for him to leave his wife for another woman and enjoying the wife's sweat and contribution. in such cases the wife cn not claim anything (considering its in Nigeria).
My honest opinion is that if the wife was not comfortable doing that then she shouldve communicated it to him and say that its best that they do business separately
Yes phanklyn ur talking truth 👏🏿king James was a vile an disgusting man 🤬🤢
bet yr Bottom U are DEREGOGATORY ABUSIVE PRIDEFULL characters thats synonymous with Certain Persons🤔and Show us yr Husband oOpenLy Prank Leen!!STOP BASHING WOMEN!!!!
Black out moment! Were you recording from Naija, Phrankleen ? 😁😁😁Never experienced black-out in the UK in the last 17 years.
Phrankleen Is So Stingy Gussssssssh‼️‼️‼️❗ U are anti feminine
I will never understand why people avoid discussing financial managent before they even think of getting engaged. This should be one of the first things discussed before marriage. You should know your financial goals as a couple not individuals. Find out how you each spend your money, how you prioritise it and also find out your future financial goals as a couple. How can you be married and yet be both heading in totally different directions financially?? Isn't marriage supposed to be an institution that you raise from the bottom as a couple? If you 2 cannot agree on finances, money management, expenditure etc, then i suggest you halt the idea of getting married. I'm a woman and i cannot be with a man that is financially irresponsible and does not want to openly discuss money and how we are going to multiply our wealth. I understand some people can use their partners. However, then why are you staying in the marriage? Have set rules around money and if you are buying assets, then involve the banks and lawyers. That way, if shit hits the fan and the marriage is not working, the lawyers handle the division of wealth. As for my fellow women, the truth is, sometimes we listen to the negative and paranoid whispers from our friends and family who themselves have had failed marriages. Just stop comparing your marriage and husband to the others. For example, your mother or sister has a bad financial experience with their partner, later, they generalise all men and start telling you all this crazy stuff. You then go ahead and apply that crap to your marriage. Don't be shocked when yours goes to hell too.🤷🤷
WHY NOT JUST GO.WHY NOT JUST GO🙄? DO U KNOW HOW DAMAGED THE RELATIONSHIP HAS DONE TO A POTENTIAL GOOD WOMAN?? MOST
WOMEN BECOME WHOM THEY BECAME MAJORLY BECOS OF A MAN. STOP YELLING AND SHUTTING PPLE DOWN U SOUND THATS THE TRAIT OF A NARCISSISTIC MASOCHISTIC MALE. yup i said it.
Phrankleen U doing what u do best precisely. U are paintingvall womenvwith same brush and hyper ventillating untop discouraging our men becos of yr own personal misfortune. WE SEE WHAT U ARE DOING . SADLY FEELING SORRY FOR D WOMEN IN YR CIRCLE. TRY TO FIND HELP COS NO ONE WILL SUCCEED IN LIFE WITHOUT THE BLESDING OF A WOMAN. GO FIGURE. SHEBI YORUBA NIÈ. Ire O🤗
Yr voice is so aggressive and also a lot derogatory Ok. Whats all the open wide yr legs bla and have s*×@Phrankleen. I'm not gonna take sides, i can see frm hus view point, depends on whatever story she must have told them🙄. .the womans behaviour is disgusting,U can share yr views but i dont have time for attacks, I dont CARE WHAT ANYONE SAYS!!!,kini obiri shey fun e oga?Abeg huncle be Calming dam joor! most of yr topics seem to be an attack on women and get aggressive when pple share their views on yr shows. How many women are in Psychiatric homes becos of men? how many women have become a shadow of themselves after marriage, how many men died and their secret other family(s)showed up at the funeral?,how many men build houses for side chicks and her family whilst denying the wife at home and children basic comforts and amenities ? how many men help their wives out with domestic chores and or let her have a break frm time to time?, is a wife a Stone or furniture or an acquisition to a mans repertoire? U can block or delete my comment but i cant hold it anymore the way u bash and talk over women multiple times in yr show and if u come for me i can make U more Famous than u expect. kini gaan nor. U are so brash proud and have an air of untouchable whist u shut anybody down for trying to let u see reason now and again. U dont judge frm one side man Did U hear frm d woman to know what made her go that route? the family are not in support but she still stuck around to have 3 good kids for him?
This is things people should talk about. Agree on what everyone does with their money since it's family money. Also time is important. Discuss also the value of time in a marriage. As a man don't ask for 50/50 money contribution n also expect your laundry to be done, food cooked, clothes ironed. In other words be reasonable. Also as a woman if you are earning what exactly are you doing with your money for the family. Are you a parasite?
My guy said mountain of grenade, I am actually dead . 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
If something should happen to that woman, her husband will be the first one on the scene, the husband is the one the bank will talk to not her mother or family. It goes the other way hence goes back to trust. If she thinks husband does not have the capacity, still discuss and go ahead and invest. 👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿
I have adopted your" Sugar wall" phrase and my wife is wondered where do I get that from. Thanks phranko- Nero.
Phranco,only the right thinking & smart people will get what you are saying,some people are empty brains that can't just think outside the box.Why will a woman do such to her husband for 5years,that is evil,simple as ABC.If a man did that to his wife,those saying all these bullshits will say otherwise.Phranco ,just keep on doing the good work.
There is always a root cause. What is this woman’s fear? Why is she afraid? You cannot resolve these issues until you know this.
As a Christian, I don’t believe that Pastors have a right to try to dictate how people relate in their marriage. They can advise and counsel, but they do not have the right to exert control in that domain.
I have a problem with men wanting submittion in a relationship, then asking to go 50/50
I also have a problem with women asking for gender equality in everything except the bills.
People need to decide they want 50/50 in everything or not at all, and pick their partners accordingly. Each has it's pros and cons
A lot of the female commenters did not even consider the fact that the "wife" did the investment behind the husband's back after marriage!
Good luck to women who think like that.