Penuel The Black Pen In Conversation Penson Mlotshwa, Marriage, Modern Dating, Being a Deputy Mom.
Penuel The Black Pen In Conversation Penson Mlotshwa, Marriage, Modern Dating, Being a Deputy Mom.
THE PENUEL SHOW WITH PENSON MLOTSHWA
00:00 – INTRO
04:10 – Dating scene in 2024
12:40 – Male struggles, societal conditioning
20:30 – Telling ordinary stories
22:00 – Fatherlessness, absent father’s
30:00 – Dating & marriage
40:20 – What would you do differently
43:00 – Body count
51:20 – Marriage
1:00:55 – Our mothers, loyalty &…
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THE PENUEL SHOW WITH PENSON MLOTSHWA
00:00 – INTRO
04:10 – Dating scene in 2024
12:40 – Male struggles, societal conditioning
20:30 – Telling ordinary stories
22:00 – Fatherlessness, absent father's
30:00 – Dating & marriage
40:20 – What would you do differently
43:00 – Body count
51:20 – Marriage
1:00:55 – Our mothers, loyalty & infidelity
1:04:35 – Jada Smith , Red table
1:07:30 – Relationship age gaps, mental health
1:18:50 – Is Jada an alpha
1:20:50 – Minnie Dlamini
1:29:35 – Fatherhood
1:37:34 – Polygamy, Polyandry
1:42:45 – Honesty
1:46:55 – Closing comments
1:52:55 – ENDS
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Yho the rare commodities that are also losers 😂😂😂
Penelope keeps interrupting this guy yeses hai
bathong Penson is hilarious☺️☺️🫠
I was scary to my nephew til he became a teenager & now he only listens to his dad.. so i truly believe in that balance ukuthi a male figure needs to bring a different flair to parenting.. like im a nurturer id never lay my hand on him but my brotherinlaw's look and voice will get him in line.. that's the reality🤷
Being a present father has nothing to do with are you married to this woman. I have an uncle who, like Penuel, has multiple kids with multiple women. In fact, none of his kids share a mother except the 2 sets of twins who each have their own mother. So they only share a mother because they are twins. My uncle is not a rich man, a teacher in fact. Lived elokshini with his mom all his life. But he was a present father. He had great relationships with all his children, his children knew and cared for each other and they have close relationships with his extended family.
Being present as a father is not necessarily about being deputy mom or marrying the first and every other woman you get pregnant, it's about being responsible for and loving the life you brought into the world period. Even if you got no money, be there. Do your best.
But we live in RSA where lack of personal responsibility is the trend so … ya.
These two things came to mind listening to you gents discuss The Smiths🤣:
– Psychologist on The Real Talk Show on SABC 3 said "in general relationships have a duration of 20-25 years." Now let's think about that statement. The behaviour of partners are bound to get better or worse.
– Will and Jayda are self-employed so "do what you gotta do for income".
Business mindset: If the world loves a subject you provide then releasing a book wouldn't be a bad decision.
If there's a need for you to know my body count, there's also going to be a need for me to see your 3 months banks statement Sir. Sprinkle Sprinkle!!
Penson you are crazy, your terms are obsurd. #tolly!!🤣🤣🤣
WE WANT A MUFASA, that's real facts!
You guys are hilarious at the beginning !!
Thank you obhuti Baka Mlotshwa🙏🙏🙏…I am so glad I tuned in.I love how the two of always try to come up with solutions and a a Single Boy Mom I m always trying to find positive male role models for my son🙏🙏🙏keep having honest difficult Conversations that we not ready to have.
Lol i can tell who the younger brother is
Cela nenze iplan for i Bridge for iyNgane zase Zama High, the school is performing but the kids might not get to school when there's heavily rains… Part of giving back to the less fortunate 🙏🏾
Bro i love this relationship.
Why does the profile now say, KONVO?
30:02 Peson is 💯….. fathers and mother… males and females are biological different and therefore naturally have different role in society and within the household. Where i do disagree or might add is that it's up to that union to define their roles that works for them and not to fit in society
I loved the conversation OMG Nina nobabili amadoda alamanayo axoxe kanje lovely❤….you kid’s especially sons must be proud to have ubabomkhulu nobabomncane ofana nani….please bring him back 🌸🙏😍
Clearly, the younger one has more depth
37:00
Allow your brother to speak man do not disturb him
1:23:10 Ezinye izinto, they not for the world – facts
there is many rare commodities that we dont value
I dont care what people say about you guys, you are our black success story. Siyabonga – kukhanye njalo
@Penuel King, please allow your guest to make their point, don't interject and you don't have to want to be smarter than them. i believe you called them for a reason, let us hear them please. thank you
@1:08:34 😆😆😆😆😆
Hello Pen, First of all thanks for bringing up the conversations that matter,you doing good in all ways in my opinion, we could also improve on giving our guests room to construct their conversation, their statement, the point they are trying to make before an interruption, its not necessarily happening often, but jusy enough to kinda f up the conversations in some way, i noticed it too on Vusi, a number of times he would say "sorry" , professional for "let me finish", i think there could be an improvement there …Thank you again
This brother should be an African relationship consultant
"Keep it here" a quote by Penson🤣
I love Penson..wat a beautiful sense of humour ❤
An incredible conversation. Please invite Hakeem Anderson Lesolang, one of the dopest black therapists in this country and incredibly insightful. We need more of these, please 🙏🏽
Penuel allow your younger brother to share his perspective without you backlashing😂
Team Bekezela: I as a sister, I find it hard how in a partnership of us agreeing to walk a journey together I must now bekezela while you creating different paths trying to get away from what we BOTH agreed to do… This is the reason why we are so different from our mothers who “Bekezelad” through everything bebalaka iHlazo or staying loyal to nonsense… Why must I bekezela what you wouldn’t bekezela? Moreover if you facing challenges why are you not letting me in on them& let’s tackle them together instead of “Shaya-shaying” me as your partner but I must bekezela for the sake of what we building together, yet you dribbling the one you should be building with. Ekubekezeleni , let’s bekezela situation that come our way not me bekezelaring your dribbles.. Weeeh🙄🤦🏾♀️🤣 angeke.
I have to be neat
(Please like this for me to come back to it)
Apart from women wanting a Mufasa like Penson is saying. Women are generally raised by strong women, who are independent “absent fathers”. We learn to be ambitious & also independent. In this day& Age Men Really have to work harder not only bcoz we want a Mufasa but you must Hustle more than I do…. You have to provide more than I provide myself. Problem with men nowadays is that they think that’s not important, As a man it’s not gonna work longtime not providing or taking leadership… therefore you must look at your level & go for a woman that’s below your level that you can provide for, u will be happy. E.g You a teacher, date a cashier. One instance where women date below with future hopes is when they see potential, you not there but you hustling to get there, & it better come to fruition bcoz if it doesn’t it still won’t work. So it’s not THEE Mufasa but Mufasa’s of different levels based on which level your woman is,is conditioned to or used to. You can’t drop the standard of provision I had before you came into my life, whether I was providing me that standard or another Nigga was providing the standard. If we could all understand that I think things would be JUST a bit easier.
Penson's sense of humor is out of this world 😂
This is the thing with society how does wills credibility go down because of his life experience and mistakes? Will smith can’t be the same legend because of his wife portrayal of him in the bedroom, decisions in life, not leaving Jada. Why can’t all of those things exist and will still being legendary and a person you can aspire to being even disagreeing with some of his decision.
The problem with Penuel is that he is not interviewing Penson but debating him. We understand he is your brother but have some respect and keep it professional
Aahhhhhh this guy is lying, dude does not watch superhero movies
Louise loves clerk before she knows he is superman and Mary Jane falls for Peter Parker before she knows he knows he is Spider-Man 😂😂😂
Penson is crazy
Assimilation kills black society
Something about these two, makes envy the brother relationship that i wish i had with my own brother🙇🏾
Penson is a naughty Lil Brother🤣🤣🤣.
Amazing episode gents👊🏾.
Good conversation.
❤😂Penson Penuel combo
Let him cook 29:04 🎉😅
As I was listening to this dating and multiple partners segment, Penuel was struggling to listen, defensive because the points were hitting home. But he was not attacking him but clarifying his belief.
“I think it’s through introspection, ulalela iDeep house, ebumnyameni”😂😂😂😭😭
Yes. Its marketing and guess what!? Black people are the biggest consumers of these shows and they try to emulate these in real life. This never works out.