Now that I am old I want a REFUND from my Children
Now that I am old I want a REFUND from my Children
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I live in America and its not been easy. This Channel has become as a source of comfort for me. I walk around knowing that my family has no love for me nor my two children, the only interest they have is my money and my properties. I have now decided to live my life with my kids and enjoy my best life. I have written my Will and TOD to protect my kids. People write your Will
Boundaries are so key in African families
Love this and learning so much from your channel! Thanks so much Phrankleen 🙌
👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 Tolani
I would never cause my parents to go into debt over MY wedding. Never. If they would like to give a gift, it will be highly appreciated.
I think you may want to invest in a marching band for all your first callers. 😂😂😂
I am white British and my husband is South African since we have been together 15 years this year we have always had to send money to his parents they have financial ruined us we have always had debt because there has never been enough money for us and them. When we first got together he would send £409-£500 a month this went on for 6 years then in 2016 we paid off there house and all there debt because we had enough and said no more money we are done but then my husband still send them money to this day but not every month but still at least every 3-6 months and a big chunk like 300 – 500£. We have argued about this and it’s almost ruined our marriage over these 15 years. We have 2 small children and his parents still think there son owes them and that they are his responsibility his mum is so horrible to him they never say thank you they are professional manipulators they make us feel bad if we don’t send it’s emotional abuse that we have to cut away. It’s really hard because I understand what one man said when u are living in the west and they are in SA not living well but it’s not our responsibility they have a house and food that’s what’s important.
This is one of the best among your show
Asy Darlyn you have said it all. I love every bite of your comments
Exactly some are using Afose to get money from their siblings
It’s crazy, I’m a mother of 3 and a typical Yoruba woman. I’m in my late 50s i do attend many of my friends children’s wedding but that doesn’t mean i have to do elaborated wedding for my own children like them. Our elders son is 26 years and we don’t request money from him.
Exactly tell them the facts
Yes i support that, they hijack it for their personal interest. They go beyond their pockets simply because they want to show off.
Buying the whole Aso-oke and lace from idumota. It’s absolutely crazy.
😂😂😂 On the way to get ride of african parents. Mo re rin oo
Speak about children who abandon their parents too. But come back to spend millions for burial to show off
The reason Nigerian parents are manipulative is because of religious toxicity which is intertwined with witchcraft.Nigerian Christianity especially the Pentecostal outfits are all linked to witchcraft.
Asy Darlyn was bang on. Probably the most comprehensive contribution in this show –31:55
I think the issue here is the feeling of entitlement, There is nothing like a negative culture that cant be broken.
Playback gang here
When you deviate from normalcy you start to create excuses to start to justify your circumstances – it doesn't make it right or normal but it's appreciated that some people can acknowledge this – however, not all people who post pictures post fake life style – having said that, you do not, I repeat, you do not owe it to anybody because of your circumstances. You post fake pictures or real pictures – it doesn't mean you are suddenly responsible for anybody.
Laughed seriously at the title. Oh well if na so all fathers they do then my father should request for monthly allowance EXCEPT my father is part of the normal ones out here who despite challenges he faced while his kids grew up does not make any demands…even if you offer, he does not take it. Be like my father, FIL and mother.
Edited to add: For my wedding, sisters and SIL wedding, my father and FIL insisted on a big party and my father and FIL single handedly financed each wedding…No we are not rich, our fathers just had it all planned out. Plan your future so you do not have to rely on your children for food crumbs
I understand that she got needs but it is rediculous to demand financial support with authority. All parents should plan for their own retirment and any support the children gives will be extra.
'I have Rich Auntie Vibes!' Auntie Asy, pls chop knuckle😂😂😂✊🏾
'You are paying your parents EXISTENCE FEE!' 😂😂😂 my chest, God help us all!
Looking forward to see the video with Asy! She was was very honest and open!
Pastor Stan, you are a 🌟
Asy Darlyn, you are very wise. Thank you for the advice.
Phrankleen this is an eye opener for all Africans in the Diaspora to live their best live and not stressed out by family members back home. 👍❤❤
What. Chinese take away? Whay happened to eba and bitter leaf soup with goat meat? 😂😂😄😄
It's so unfortunate that parents feel entitled to be paid back or cared for…at times you've got to plan for retirement just as you've got to plan for parenthood from the moment it's discovered that the woman is pregnant. Personally, my parents know what life is to live in the United States. They've been living in the U.S. LONGER than being in Ghana. They've only recently retired back to Ghana. However, at times it seems they've forgetton that life in America now, compared to when they first immigrated is far different. Cost of living continue to rise while income continue to stay stagnant. So in other words, your money doesn't go as far as their income did during their hey days in the United States. Yet, even now, at times, their requests come out of no where to send this amount and send that amount because we have no excuse to be "born Americans" and not be able to send money every now and again…and this is despite the fact that they did in fact prepare for their retirement and Social Security and in US Dollars and live on it well, very well I might add in Ghana. They come with their statements about how their fellow people in the village and relatives talk about how they're (my parents) are the ones with three kids abroad and so suddenly it's as if their mentality has switch to those who don't understand the system like they understand the system and then we end up getting the backlash. Well…I tell them they shouldn't forget about what life is like in the U.S. all of a sudden to cater to their Ghanaian social peers and familial perspectives and expectations.
Sooooo….does the mother not realize that a wedding is actually a luxury and DOES NOT need to occur for a couple to be married?…We know this. SO WHY does she think she needs a refund because she "paid for" their weddings? If it was her honor to do it, then she shouldn't expect a payback UNLESS she was giving a loan to them to do their wedding.
ASY DARLYN YOU ARE A MVP!! I ❤️ your gesture Phrankleen 👍🏽👍🏽. Yes we will love do business with this wonderful 👩 of wisdom.
Asy Darlyn you win the award for the most sense. God will bless you, for your honesty. In my experience it is rare for someone living in Nigeria to empathise for the struggles that us in the diaspora can face.