NIGERIAN UK DOCTOR suspended for beating his son blames CULTURAL UPBRINGING
NIGERIAN UK DOCTOR suspended for beating his son blames CULTURAL UPBRINGING
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Life changing work Phrankleen!
I was a family and children Social worker but left after just 5 years. One of the white Manager I worked with hid the a letter of appreciation that a parent wrote to me because I helped her to recover her daughter from Social Services's foster placement with a white family. Everything you are saying is 100% true. The racism and injustices built into the system that target Black families to destroy is disheartening. Once the social services enter a black family, the totally destroyed it. Social services is the head that co- ordinate all the others, education, health, Psychologists, Community care etc. When they are involved with a Black family they stand no chance of escaping destruction. The system is so completed and our people are not equipped with knowledge of how the system operates, the racism, appropriate communication skills, the culture of those institutions, in the way they deal with Black people . Black people stand no chance of escaping destruction once targeted. The worst is exactly what you again identified, children taken inBlack families have no support system, like the Asians.
Watch out for the SDQ assessment by the school nurse.
My advise to anyone involved with social services is to listen and ask questions. DO NOT CHALLENGE them in your home. Ask the the questions calmly, the case might escalate depending on your body language with your verbal actions.
You'll never get a phone call asking how you're doing, they genuinely don't care!!!
Thank you Phrankleen. I was so emotional hearing this topic. You really nailed it. Learned a lot. Thank you.
As much as I do not support abuse of any kind, I am one person that is very grateful to the way we got brought up, even in school you could not escape punishment for coming late. Back in my secondary school days one of my classmate at 13 was brought back to school with us in Nigeria because the parents felt he need to learn culture and what have you.
The western world is in total mess and are in no position to talk about family and child care. Their children are way way out of control and I totally agree that it’s in our culture to not let our children get out with bad behavior, I too was beaten blue black both at school and home yet I have not turn out a violent person. All of us grew up being dealt with by not just our parents but family.
With how I see children behave overseas and the total disrespect for elderly and behavior ethic I can never change our culture for these western madness in the name of God’s knows what.
Yes some parents could go overboard but put side by side I would stick to our African culture and heritage when it comes to dealing with ones kids and not necessarily beating them , than the following the madness and parental irresponsibility’s we all see our here in the west.
Thank you for speaking out against the child abuse that exists within the Black community and is often disguised as discipline.
We’ve all heard that text: “Spare the rod and spoil the child.”
I witnessed a man Smacking his toddler in the face in church and his wife just sat there with a grin on her face. This type of behaviour needs to be eradicated.
Thank you Mr phrankleen for this eye opening first hand information.
I loved your choice of vocabs, I can relate to what you are saying. " our" toxic behaviour is unbelievable. I particularly spot your point on justifying this behaviour, for example a Nigerian father blaming and condemning their structure as regards family life and thinks he will be applauded? We really need to play carefully with the rules of their game(western way of handling issues)
Real talk. These are real life situations. How can we make changes when its ingrained. I wish our parents can watch this.
When in Rome do as the Romans do
I agree Slavery and Christianity taught us how to use violence. U give birth to a precious child and then as they grow, you beat and harm that child. That is not discipline, that's abuse nothing to do with culture. Shameful
I was raised in a madness house I did not understand a lot of things and always scared then came here I was told I have PTSD I did not know what was that, but before that When I was young I told my self I would never do anything like that to my children when I grow up, I have 7 children and I just talk to them and use everything that I went through to make them understand , why I treat them with so much love and my 19 years old
Now live in London his my best friend we talk almost every day and that made me to forgive my father and all his wife’s that mistreated me
Simply true! Thanks for sharing .
Hmmmm Phrankleen listening to you is refreshing I’m about to start having kids I need me some parenting classes from you 🤣🤣 you are such a smart man so much for me to say but no words. Please if you don’t mind recommending some parenting materials. I want more knowledge
This was an excellent use of your platform. Keep up the awesome work. Much love and blessings from Toronto
I like the way you dissected the whole thing.
Luckily perhaps, I didn't grow up with these badly painted sceneries. When I went wrong my parents, brothers, sisters and neighbours disciplined me but not with hatred. Same applies in my community so I tend to think 90% of these stories are not applicable to the Black Culture I know. I left home to the UK at 35 years. The black culture here is adulterated and therefore doesn't represent Black Culture in Africa or Nigeria. I got here before I knew the meaning of Gay otherwise my understanding was a reason who is drunk or happenings in Sodom & Gomorrah in the Bible.
Just listened to you on BN's live. Had to tell you, this one is your best.
Brother you are spilling wisdom as usual 💥💕
Oh my dear phrankleen u really know these people just like I do 😂
Is pure wickedness
Even the Bible says not to spare the rod. These are the reasons why the society is in decay. Look at the lives of those who were caned in those days, are their lives not better than the youths of today. Continue pampering your spoilt children.
It's deep…Educative and Awareness.
Spiritual Attack🤣🤣🤣
I love u Dad and the man says thank you🙄
The “hi-pad” part 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
This video touches me deeply, Thank you Phrankleen
Thanks for speaking on this topic. You always go in-depth on sensitive matters, which is why I love your channel and I keep coming back.
It's so true, we need to change. We can't going so
This happens in all African homes. I am a Liberian and was given away to a family friend at the age of 2. I remember things that that family friend did to me from the age of three because it was so traumatizing. She would beat me just because I started to talk and would say I talk too much for a three year old. She would tell all her friends and Clients that I was a witch and that I was older then I look but my witch make me look younger. I still remember the horrors like it was yesterday. I am angry and resentful when I think about it. I was abused physically, Emotionally, Mentally and abandoned.
Spot on. And instead of seeking professional advice and help, they call their pastors who is not skilled or trained in this area. I will expect the pastor to pray for and with them as well as refer them to professionals, but the later never happens. Rather they are given false hope, prayer list, anoint all etc.
Please dont kill me with laughter
I know there are some injustices here and there but it isn’t a disaster and moreover it’s improving.
It’s like a crab barrel,if one,two were to be unruly and the orderly lot in the barrel aren’t ready to push the unruly ones out but say-oh there’re only two,we can work around them and some say,oh we will leave those unruly ones here and crawl out and we all know with little pull,they’ll be hauled back into the barrel and unfortunately them good ones wanting to crawl out most probably end on the dinner plate first because they’re at the top so they are sold first-That’s where the good people bearing the brunt of the bad ones come from.
Things are improving across the country but it would be better if the larger community of good people can develop balls to call out the few bad people within the system.
Thanks Phrankleen for this programme👍👍👍👏👏👏. You have An all- round knowledge of these things.
Am learning alots here …. thanks phrankleen gbu
Seriously our african parent need to learn better. durring my childhood days i face alot of abuses both mentally, emotional and sexual abuse due to strict father which led to broken a home and it affected me to a certain point that it affected my past relationships due to temper but thank God i am a different person now full of love and care after listening to a lot of eye opener teachers like you and visiting opharnage homes. I have learn to tolorate and think before i react at things now. keep the good work Phrankleen.