My parents hand picked my wife and concealed her child
My parents hand picked my wife and concealed her child
My parents hand picked my wife and concealed her child is a YouTube live stream that stemmed from an individual’s true life story. It is the story of a man whose parents connived to hide his new wife’s child for their own selfish gain. it is an interested session.
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Since his ex wife has a history of being a good liar, I hope he also did a paternity test on the child. Someone who would do something as extreme as hiding her child is capable of committing paternity fraud. He should DNA test his second child. That woman cannot be trusted.
I understand very well what the brother is going tru because I was there myself for 18 years and it wasn’t a joke
That the lady had a child is not enough reason to divorce his wife. That he was not told about the child, big deal! He should have considered the child support before the divorce. Instead of going for outright divorce, he should have separated and let tempers to cool. This whole saga could have been prevented but for him acting in anger. He can't go about dropping children all over the place without considering the consequences.
Bro I think your favorite word is “sugar walls” 😀
Wow! Very interesting, but sad story. I am an American with a child, who is now grown, so, yes, I do know that in the states, they don't play when it comes to child support. That's why I feel parents should NOT interfere in their children's relationships. I would definitely say the guy is the victim in all this and I'm praying he makes the best decision.
The parent are crazy.
But he is a fool. Why would a grown man like you look for a new wife when you are already struggling with paying for the first child? Why you let parents chain you up with this getting a wife foolishness? I don't understand this mentality black people have. If you cannot afford children don't get married. What money did his parents expect to get if their son is struggling with two children?
On another note there are an increasing amount of americans that are renouncing their citizenship all around the world however you have to pay off all debts first before the US embassy lets you do it.
The few Nigerian families I've met I've always felt that these Nigerian parents saw their children as extensions of themselves or tools. No hugging or affection shown. Yet they had demands that these children must do well in school and obey them when they try to find spouses for them. Being tricky and deceitful to others while quoting bible scripture under the same breath.
When people are adamant to marry you, it's a red flag funds and favors have been exchanged behind your back!!!
Let him stay or go….as long as he takes care of his children. He has to shoulder his own responsibility.
It’s a bit concerning to me that many people in the comment section are fretting about child support, 😅. Please, people, please understand that a divorce does not free you from your parental obligations. If you were providing for your children during the marriage, why should it stop just because you’re divorced?! You divorce your spouse, NOT your children.
Also, people forget the historical context that brought laws such as child support and alimony to be enacted. Back when men were the main breadwinners and women stayed home to bear and raise children, with every dad that left the household, a new family (single mom and kids) was added to the number of families living at or below the poverty line. This became an economic burden to the U.S. government, since such occurrences increased welfare costs. I can go on about the origin of those laws but we are all capable of doing our own research into the subject, so I encourage us all to look deeper into the subject matter. Folks, please stop thinking that the government/law is after men (remember, the majority of lawmakers especially in those days were men). Most capitalistic governments only care about efficiency, not feelings, not gender, but efficiency. My dad always told me that whenever you wonder why the white man’s government is fussing about a certain issue, just ask yourself where is the money’s role in it and you’ll have your answer.
Oh, and I must add that contrary to the underlying belief in most comments, child support is a higher earner vs. lower earner thing, meaning whoever earned the most during the marriage will have to pay, regardless of whether it’s a man or a woman. If you were the main breadwinner in your household, the courts assume that your leaving will undoubtedly affect the financial standing of the family. So, there are women out there who have to pay child support and/or alimony(once again, look it up).
For those of us who know families back home in Africa where the dad left and doesn’t provide (or very little, whenever he feels like it), we know all too well how painstakingly hard life became for those children.
With all of that being said, I am against the mindset of some women who weaponize child support to get back at their former spouses. You know, the ones that negotiate to get more than they genuinely need to take care of the children. And the ones who cash in the money only to support their hair/nails/ makeup costs every month while the children whom the money is intended for eat poorly and wear rags. That is plain WRONG! But that’s another story.
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I know someone who’s family member matchmade with the partner. She had a child from her previous marriage and the family member concealed it, they concealed that she was married before too, a male child in his teens at that time.
He got to find out some years into the marriage, the wife didn’t want to hide it from the get home but the family member who connected them kept insisting.
From the point the man found out, he embraced the boy and welcomed him. That man is very rare, I’ve never seen any like him. He’s late now though.
That is very very wrong and high risk, concealing such an important fact.
In the Catholic Church, such marriages are nullified. Marriage based on deceit.
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I will take care of my child without a government. If she files child support, I will quit my job or business and play renegade. I will gladly go to jail if caught….I aint paying shit to that corrupt sexist system!!!
This child support deal goes on for 18 yrs. The parents back home destroyed this guy, in a way they will never comprehend. All because of money.
One option he has is to try and reach a deal with those women for a one-off payment. When some women see that chunk of money, they could withdraw the child support horsewhip. He should then stay in good terms with the women to pacify them, then swallow his pride and crack jokes with them.
He could have run back ground check on the girl introduced by her parents through his friends in the area. Before marry her…
The mistake we men did on child support is that he need to make sure he has a low paying job before he could go to child support office because the child support we'll base his salary on amount to pay for his child. For example if he gets a job paying $7 an hour he might only pay just $200 a month but if he has a job that pays $16 an hour he will end up paying roughly $500 a month. He doesn't need to run away from it. If he doing two jobs and he will just need to drop one job before he could filled up another child support. He will only pay just 18 yrs…
The parents made mistake.
But the man should try to work out things with the wife and go on with their lives.
How much is child support?
Its just small fraction of his salary. Those children are his nah.
Not to sound religious, but this life is spiritual believe it or not. He alrealdy committed him self on having sex with her.. whatever plans they prepared for him , he swallowed it hook, line and sinker. They could be using the church umbrella to cover their evil tracts. It's sad and this is pure evil. He needs Jesus, read his bible and know God for himself.
The crucial lesson of this video is to NEVER EVER allow your parents to control your adult life and more importantly choose your future partner for you…because it will end up in complete and utter disaster.
No one put a gun to his head, he choose to marry her. Would he still be married to his wife if she had not had a child previous to their marriage? It seems this is his 'non negotiable" This man also had a child previous to the marriage, He's arrogant
Very true, the lies & manipulations from the ones he loved / trusted. I think he should stay to fight & use an attorney to expose the conspiracy. It may not free him totally, but it will deny her alimony and there will be considerations given to his income and # of kids. Leaving doesn’t serve him either. I feel sorry for him .
This man needs to sit and think clearly and make a plan.
It is hard but maybe can be overcome.
I understand. This is DESPICABLE!!! His own parents brought him into a situation that was DECEPTIVE, DISHONSET AND INTOLERABLE!
The man has to work to support his children let alone being g caught up in this type of situation.
I wish the guy would get a lawyer to fight this instead, yes it costs a lot of money but if other men would rally to change that law especially for this types of situation. This is insane!
Phrankleen, when it comes to child support for Canada and US you can't evade child support. I know of a rich african man that was ordered 30 000 canadian $/ MONTH you read that right. He left and when he came back he was given a choice between jail and paying the arrears which came to about half a million by then. The guy paid because he had too much to loose. The court dictates that the children have to live the same lifestyle, as if changes dont happen in life. 30 flipping thousand dollars a MONTH gosh!
How is going home going to solve his predicament? He's going back to where his predicament started. He's going to end up dead.
He is not an innocent man unless he is mentally unstable. He made this decision. He has a child and his wife has a child so what's the problem 🙄. He chosed to exit the relationship, let him care for his children. Child support is based on both parents income and even the one he is already paying will be considered. The US is not unfair with child support, the thing is most black men do not like to care for their children in or out of a relationship. Trust me, an able, well accomplished sensible man will have no problem with child support.
WHAO! This is a very sad story for this innocent gentleman. Sad, in the essence that his own family members put him into this "MESS".
My personal suggestion would be, since he can´t go along with another child support, the best is to stay married. There are so many marital homes whereby the couples act as a "married one" but they are not deeply inlove. So, he should think about staying married in the meantime until he sees that he is financially stable and then, he can think about divorcing her. BUT, he should NEVER, EVER think of having another child………
Mr. Phrankleen, thank you for always speaking the truth. Can you please reply to my last email about ADRON HOMES?
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"The repeated Blood shooting downwards, so that he went home to get a taste of the Sugar Walls."
I am a Black American woman and I am always on the side of men but, why did this man go all the way to Africa to go lay up🤔 Stop with all this WHITE MAN crap that's an excuse. Anything that the people that share my skin tone touch it turns to DUST!! Why do people come to the Western world and want to reap the benefits but talk crap about the system that's dumb. Give up your Citizenship and get on. The only way you owe the US taxes is if you plan on returning that way you file a return. I'm sure these people that are giving you these stories don't give the whole layout. If you don't like the Western World EXIT!! You bring nothing to the Western world they don't already have…….PERIODT🙅🏿♀️
He needs to consult his lawyers
Phrankleen, sending my feedback via email. There are lots of options for this guy. Leaving the USA is NOT his answer. We fail to understand the laws of the states we live in, especially around family law. It's beyond I Love You or bringing a spouse here.
The solution is quite simple.
In filing for her permanent residence, she would have been asked how many children she had.
If she lied on the form, he can tip the CBP and Immigration System to her fraud.
This could result in her PR being revoked.
Wow… Not the sugar wall joke! You got me rolling again! You ought to be a writer for script comedy! 🤣😂🤩
Yoooo bros, your monologues are killing me. I am trying to work and from the beginning i have been laughing hard.
from "legs in the air, new relationship feelings", "dying phone, "bloodshot in the midsection – congy made brother fly home". it is well OOO and then it got serious, damn.
I heard you talk about amala ewedu and Nigeria life. I love you for that and want to join you
If someone is 62 and still acting foolish they may benefit from some guidance.
Baba you're so onpoint, thank you very much for sharing this 🔑 to a happy relationship and eventually marriage ✌🔥.
So you're saying he wouldn't have to support his children in Nigeria.
What about putting a cap on it! He is no victim.
This was a grown man living 1000s of miles from his parents. Sounds like he's blaming everyone except himself for his unhappiness. You said he argued and fought with his first wife so they broke up. He met someone from his parents church that his parents introduced him to. You spoke of him "liking the sugar wall." Well if he had put a cap on it while partaking of the sugar wall on that vacation that he took to see her get may have prevented the new child support. When you are marrying someone isn't important for one to try and do their own investigation(it's called getting to know someone). Not just how they look and what they do in the sheets. Did he take the time to meet her parents and visit them at the village. He may have found out she had a child. Did he tell her he had a child prior to them returning to the states. This sounds like an immature whiner. And he apparently has you snowed. Yes I'm a little harsh. But you are coming at women kinda harsh. As far as his parents. It sounds like the sugar convinced, not the parents.