My Parents branded me a weakling for doing my Wife's laundry
My Parents branded me a weakling for doing my Wife's laundry
My Parents branded me a weakling for doing my Wife’s laundry
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Some men are awfully comfortable with their mums…
If my woman dat stood by me when things r complicated for me trus me I will wash her pant n do anything she want to do for dis is a woman dat carry my kids for good nine month I will wash anything she want me to do for her trust me
I use to but I stopped because I realised that society and even women see it as a kind of weakness. She rather you pay the rent and bills.
Leave for her the housework you can help out with once in a while.
Right Phrankleen, both parents would have been put out that day. Ridiculous!!!!
Spot on @ women are mostly the ones that bash others when they see men performing duties that they deem fit to be women duties like taking the kids to school etc. I honestly think alot of women are bitter and project their frustrations on other women that seem to have good men. Those women that bash good men only wish their own men took their ids to school…
Phranconero! Lol!
I just had a baby in my old age for that matter and without any in-laws, merely not sleeping due to night feeds, and attending to my baby and him having colic, and gas, etc. almost drove me emotionally crazy not to talk of having to deal with all that extra kind of craziness!
I swear some in-laws are so annoying! I know someone whose parents came a-visiting and complained about his foreigner wife. He and the wife connived to the point that none of his family members have come back sef to visit. I guess they created an environment that didn’t augur well with them so they stayed away! Awon asebi!
I like how you describe how to calm a woman down!!! Kisses on the forehead, foot rub, tea, etc. LOL. I love it!
I am the one doing the laundry at home but, nobody told me to do it I think it's moraly right to support your wife.. After all the washing is done on machine
How could ur father slap u in ur own marital home so disrespectful I would’ve done the same sorry! And I have a lot of respect for my in-laws. Wife is a loyal woman😜
To save a lot of hassle and problems with visiting inlaws/family staying over, look for cheap BBs or hotels in the area, 99% peace at home guaranteed.
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If a man cannot afford to hire a house help to help the wife with chores in the house, am sorry but he has to help with those chores until the kids are old enough to do the chores.
No man wants to do chores and that will never change, women don't take that for granted.
We have to be realistic and assist in the home where we can, no woman should be telling the husband to go and wash up.
What is being discussed is a financial issue, if the man earned enough to hire a house help even the wife will not have to do chores in the household.
Chai I have NO problem putting my wife cloths in washer & put it dryer. It’s about team work. Ladies please reject the idea of being a super woman ie doing everything for the family while neglecting yourself. People call me woman ‘Rappa’ if they want but I don’t care.
Phrankleen, God Bless you for your works. For me if any parent will tell me what to do, i will ask how much did you put aside for me or my children to inherit from you if nothing, ejo sir, e sho ibgayin. simple and short.
As a grown up man, is important to let your parents know their position in your life. They can play a role but they cannot take the lead
@1:31:56 why do we have to compete? How can a Mum fight over her son with her daughter? 😳
I agree with you on this one Phrankleen……..I think we need to learn the difference between traditional gender roles, how they play out depending on our geographic location, and what is clearly toxic abuse disguised as culture and tradition. In nature we are shown how interdependence and co existing harmoniously preserves life and fulfills highest purpose. All this other searching for reasons to disagree is destruction and it doesn't make sense.
He should let the perants leave
I think the next topic should address generational TRAUMA, which people like to call 'generational curses and CUTTING CORDS from ENERGY VAMPIRES. In this case, the energy vampire is AFRICAN PARENTS & Relatives.
To Mama R, your HUSBAND is the G.O.A.T! Greatest of all time! Yes o! That's a man!
You are a weak man when you fail to stand up to your parents. In a firm but not a rude manner. They need to know their boundaries and not stray beyond those boundaries. Parents always believe you are still a child no matter how old you are. It's your responsibility to let your parents know that you are now a man whether u are married or not. They will fight back but u must remain resolute. If u don't then you and the wife you marry are in trouble. However, whatever u do don't make the mistake of standing firm against your parents in front of your wife. Don't ever! There are some wives that would take it as a signal to start disrespecting your parents.
I rest my case.
Superior content, Phrankleen! Keep it up my brother. Utter nonsense.
@Phrankleen. A lot of Nigerian women will want a guy like u. From the things u say, u seem like a romantic African man, enjoy doing things for ur lady, cooking, helping around the house and defending her against toxic in-laws however a lot of our African men are just opposite which makes life more difficult for the ladies.
We are east Africans but my brother gave all his kids Zimbabwean names as their first names. Why?born in East Africa but raised in Southern Africa. He felt those were the names best suited for his children.
A good man according to the host is one who does the cooking, runs the errands, brings home the bacon and above all does the laundry lol; now you wonder why there's so much gender confusion. Listen to this silly advice at your own risk.
The guy should focus on his family, let d parents be on der own. Send dem food money if want. No more visit from them. I bet u will hear dem calling to beg again or sending pple to beg d man. I have seen pple it as worked for. After 3years d parents begged. But dis igbo guys refuse to renew der visiting visa. Several of dem i have seen in dis birmingham uk. When dey visit nigeria now, come see good face from d parents. Let ur parents be, dey hv live der lifes, if dey die tomorrow now oh boy u will be left with d broken love dey use der 2left legs to cause in ur marriage ohh. Hold ur heart tit. Choke ur heart, restrict d air flow to ur old folks. Dey will apologise later on.
Great talk, Phrankleen!
I told a friend that most of us know nothing about some of our parents childhood , we just know them as parents . If we truly know them and their childhood we would not even be friends with them.
🤣🤣🤣🤣. Very stupid mentality…I have been doing my wife's laundries for years now… she doesn't even know how her clothes and the babies clothes getting washed. 🤣
The grandparent situation is so out of line. African parents want to micro-manage the life of their children and grandchildren till death to them part
Husbands helping their wives in the home on a daily basis needs to be « normalized » because it’s natural that we help and support the ones we love. It’s very oppressive thinking when men are looked at as weak for helping to care for their family and it’s also sad when I hear women say am lucky or spoilt because their husband helps them. Grown men helps their wife and children!
Phankleen, tbh when marriages or relationships fail due to toxic inlaws, most can never recover.
It takes a miracle to stay and work things out.
The caller Senior Man is correct its happening in most homes.
Women rightly expect their men to defend or stand up for them.
In most cases men make luke warm attempts to put things right, they turn a blind eye. Thats where the problem lies, failure to make a stance or put boundaries enforce.
I too just had to divorce my husband when both his parents refused me to enter my husbands house which he had built while abroad. And my husband couldn't say a word to his parents. I now have a good life. Luckily, I saw it coming so I never contributed a dime to the house.
That is why women need a strong man who is their protector & not a dictator. Big difference.
Yes. Very toxic. But what happens when the wife dies , with young kids & husband is left. ?????
Give her massage. Buy her small presents . Yes! This culture is common in Africa. Even , my rich educated mother does it to my sister in law. It's not culture, its cos these older women are frustrated & hurt. " Hurt pipo hurt pipo".
Such parents are frustrated from before this wife came in this marriage. ADVICE:- The husband as to keep a distance from his toxic family.
Phrankonero hates razzness with a passion..😁