My Husband is Wheelchair bound, his Aubergine is asleep and this happened…
My Husband is Wheelchair bound, his Aubergine is asleep and this happened…
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Most people dont have the state we have care homes in zimbabwe not all parents want to be looked after by children. We also have care communities. My niece put her mum in her sons room and put him on sofa he complained to the school and teacher called social services her elderley mum had to go back to her house
Sex is more than penetration his hands and mouth work i aint going n nowhere
Were that me, I would ask her to get on with her life and put me in a home. Let's admit it, I can't sexually satisfy her, I can't do ish for myself. It would be selfish for her life to be put on hold because mine is. Nah, let her move on and live her life.
PHRANKLEEN(I KNOW YOU DONT BELIEVE IN RELIGIOUSITY) THE WOMAN SHOULD CALL ON HER SPIRITUAL ANGEL TO PROTECT HER WHILE SHE IS LOOKING AFTER THE MAN) THE MAN'S FAMILY WITH THAT THINKING WILL COME AFTER HER 100%) I HAVE THE SAME SITUATION WITH MY PARTNER SHE HAS BIOPOLAR) I HAD TO STRUGGLE WITH HER WITH MY BOY NOW 31-YEAR NOW( THEN THE BOY WAS 2-MONTHS OLD) ALL IN UK HAPPENING.(I STOOD BY HER BECAUSE WE MEET IN LONDON AT COLLEGE AND SHE WASN'T LIKE THAT) THEN GOT ANNONIMOUS LETTER THAT THERE IS COURSE ON FAMILY WHICH HER MOM CONFIRM) IF I HAD LEFT HER WITH 2-MONTH BOY THEN SOCIAL WORKER WILL TAKE THE BOY AWAY) IF I DECIDED TO FIND ANOTHER WOMAN) I MIGHT COME ACROSS A VIBROUS LADY.(MY VIEW AS A MAN IS ONLY A CHILD A WOMAN CAN OFFER ME NOTHING MORE).SO I STOOD BY HER UNTILL THE CHILDREN ARE OUT OF SOCIAL CARE CASE(31-YEAR FOR THE BOY)(20-YEAR FOR THE GIRL) THEN WE SEPARATED.
Well said Phrankleen.
I wouldn't want to put my wife through this. It is tough on anyone mentally and physically; we all need to be objective as a people.
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I like anyone who is able to see the truth and not afraid to say it loud. Right here you are doing it Franklin. I admire you.
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The guy had the accident here in Uk right, So why can’t the wife request for a carer for him from the government ?
As they will say out of their ignorant
“ she be witched him” 😳
But the family should also help take care of their brother na
She's a wife not a professional carer🤦♀️
"Until death do us path"…is a clause in the marriage contract. What about divorce? Does this rule out the "until death do us path"?
You talk a lot of sense men !
Your advice is very well thought out.
The family is wrong, the family should step in to assist the wife, children and husband. It would make more sense for everyone to put themselves in the husband shoes and the wife shoes. Heart breaking 💞
She tried she couldn't cope.
I can’t imagine how it feels, and you cannot understand what any of them is going through. The man is probably going through the worst and the woman must have sacrificed everything for him. The family of the man will wanna protect their children and the portray it differently. For the African community, we portray it in a spiritual manner which is also understandable. The woman could not cop with all that, which is understandable and decided to leave, which for me isn’t wrong. I don’t know what I will do in her place but she must be also aware that she will be hated for it and be prepared to deal with that. She just can’t win in this circumstance. I feel sorry for the man, woman and the families involved.
The woman donnated her husband into her witchcraft meeting Abi? God Will purnish them as many as they are putting pressure on that woman, after all she's suffered taking care of that Man, she put in everything, and its not enough. Terrible inlaws. Accussing her of witchcraft.
I think it’s awesome that she took care of him for three years while trying to work and take care of two kids on her own. Honestly that is too much work for one person. The family should be more understanding and flexible. Maybe they could work out an arrangement where he would spend two weeks with them and two weeks with her and two weeks at a facility. The rotation would allow everyone involved to help with his care but to also take a break when needed.
God I am goning through a situation where by my husband who has been diabetes since day one he has not be sexually active yet I have been with him, now the duabetes related problems have led to all organ not to function . E.g. heart problem., pancreas gone. Both kidney gone . He has a Stima,eye vision and now 2 week ago had a fall in the dialysis unit and now can't move and do anything . I have been doing everything for him and work night . To my surprise as he says he sees as though his life is coming to an end , he has said that his will is that when he his gone ,the house should be sold and his daughter should have the all money and if I want to remain in the house , I can take mortage and continue living in . The daughter is my step daughter . I am wondering should I just go now instead of waiting to be thrown away . I am Afriacan . He is western.i feel like breaking down
To be honest- f k his family!!!
I think it depends on the level of love that they had between each other. Personally I wouldn't have left because nothing fazes me. Some people are wired differently. I believe she gave it her best shot but the pressure from his family sent her away.
Many of our people are too backward.
…..out of service…..
The family members that have the loudest voice are those less available to provide support in times of needs.
Whats with the beer cup man!
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The wife was very right to move on , mainly cos of the mans difficult family. Secondly, black men are also not used to caring for the wife so the women too should not have the obligation.
Only those that have experienced this can actually explain its reality. I cannot fault anybody or party on this, I don't even know what to say.
This is a hard shoe to wear.
Sure it’s a Nigerian family , she shouldn’t have done that anyway !!! Marriage is for better and for worse.
U are psychologically too much man.
This satanic involvement of Extended families in marital issues have always been disasterius. Now, the poor and helpless disabled man, now have to sort himself out.
The wife, could have involve the help of a home care nurse, may be on a part-time basis. At least, to relieve the wife, of 24 hours care. She has got rights to rest and have sometime for herself. The facts that her beloved husband is on wheelchair, is enough pains for her. My heart go for the woman.
876🇯🇲🇯🇲 At this time, I'd like to thank my ancestors who were stolen from Africa and brought to JAMAICA 🙏. The spirit culture would have killed me.
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what happen to there vows for better and for worse ? oga o
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Full time caring for a family member can take a toll on the carer's mental health and overall well-being. The carer needs frequent breaks to be able to remain sane. This society refuses to remain as ignorant as where we come from and have made provisions for the cared for. This includes respite care, nursing homes and even hospices to reduce the burden of caring responsibilities. There is no reason why these so called family members can't also provide same care for the cared for in these settings and go home afterwards to rest and take care other matters. This is the only way to remain stronger for the cared for and be able to be sane enough to make informed decisions for the cared for's behalf. Anyone thinking otherwise is either ignorant or downright selfish. This is why carers' pass away before the cared for.