My HOUSE-HELP HORROR STORY! | STORYTIME
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In this storytime, I share with you all, my very first (and hopefully the last) house help horror story, and how I handled it like a boss!😄
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The same excuse of work is too much was the reason our help packed her bags, claimed she was going to pour dustbin and never came back just because my Mum said she shouldn’t go and learn hairdressing rather stay in the house and be helping her while she waits for her admission. Meanwhile my Mum was busy gathering money and pleading to know if they will give her Law in UNEC oooh cos dats what she said she wanted to study and her cut off didn’t reach. I guess that phone is a major influence cos this is someone my brother bought a big phone for in SS2 just cos she asked for it even me sef got my first Android phone after I had passed Jamb and my Dad rewarded me with it. Maybe it was even a man dat distracted our own too😂😂…….
One thing I’ve learnt is just do your bit and leave the rest for God cos if it’s for niceness or any oda thing, our help had it all, like we treated her like one of us, but she still left or will I say got distracted🤷♀️…..
NJ, thank GOD your young home is still intact. Wise up, my dear. Beware of those 'suppliers' of house helps/homewreckers/highway to the grave/monitoring spirits incarnated. If you could do without them… BETTER BE SAFE THAN SORRY! A WORD IS ENOUGH FOR THE WISE! WATCH THIS MOVIE FOR MORE CLARITY.
Proverbs 26:25
When he speaketh fair, believe him not: for there are seven abominations in his heart.
GUEST IN THE HOUSE (1944) – Full Movie – Captioned
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Aunty Nj, even when you where saying "I'm not that nice" …I could still feel your niceness😫😫. God bless your kind heart❤️
Hmmmm….
Well said sis! Actually the wicked ones have helps that stay long with them.
Weldone, you tried you did your best, I love the courage you had to collect the clothes.
I'm still trying to set boundaries with my househelps. Like, you just spoke like me right now coz I think I have a heart for young girls.
I ensure I treat them well. They eat what I eat etc but most of them still misbehave.
I have had my own fair share of the househelp palava.
I have had one insult me when leaving and many of them take one's niceness for granted.
It's a long story….
Most of them are actually after men, they don't want to work for money, they just want men to give them money.
Just recently, my cousin told me that my relationship with my househelp is making her take me for granted which is true and my husband once said something, he said that I care so much about the lives of these girls but they care less about me and my family.
Most of them, no matter how nice you are to them are just very selfish and would only do the things that would suit them.
I have so much to say about this coz in my 4years of having househelps ( coz of the nature of my job), it's not been so pleasant. Can't wait for my kids to be grown so that I can do without having a help.
I am still trying to set boundaries but it's sometimes difficult because of my nature.
I pray for wisdom on how to handle them.
Househelp ish can be stressful.
I remember a pastor in my church once said that they had to really really pray about the househelp thing and even sowed seeds in church and God finally gave them someone that stayed with them for 8 years.
I pray God give you wisdom on how to handle the househelp and I pray this particular househelp stays with you for long.
My advise is that you keep your househelp off your channel to avoid issues.
You can't trust these people, most of them are ungrateful and impatient, you don't know their next line of action.
Right now, I ensure my househelp does the job she is employed to do and I ensure she does it well cos, I have really really stressed myself in the name of "I don't want to stress my househelp" but they still end up leaving or sometimes we have to send them away coz of their behavioural issues.
I now ensure I utilise them, afterall, they are paid to do it. Thank God that my husband is firm, it has helped me coz I'm so soft that I get taken for granted but my husband sits them up.
I'll do my best for my househelp, if they choose to leave, fine. I know I have tried.
For phone, I can help you fix your spoilt phone but to give a new one or my old phone, you have to stay with me for like 1 year plus. Coz these days, I noticed that these girls are phone addicts, instead of doing their jobs, they'll be on phones…
I can keep typing about this but in a nutshell. While they are around, utilize them, do the best you can do for them, advise them about life, hygiene, their future etc.
Don't carry their problem, including their family problems on your head, do the best you can do. Be ready for any shocker, If they choose to leave, move on and don't depend on them for everything.
I'll be glad to know more about how to set boundaries coz I'm so open and free and I hate it, I'm working so hard on overcoming that.
Nice people find it hard to get a good help.
This story is interesting I think I will be the director, where are my cast we need to act this for others to learn a lesson 😂😂😂😂
The meme videos😂😂
Nj nwannem, it is well with you.
I love your heart, you are a very good person.
May the Lord send good people your way always.
I will always come back to this video as a reminder to be strict . Because I have the tendency to loose guard with people. And over do
I think the guy should have been arrested and investigated. She's a child.
You did well by taking the things back , we are proud of you😂😂.
I am sorry but she dey craze. How many employers treat their house helps the way you treated her? I can also say was being childish sha.
My dear, what you have to know is that there is nothing you do to please them. My help then will always leave my kids to go and meet her boyfriend in an uncompleted building near our house. She bribes our gateman so that he wouldn't let me know. Luck ran out of her the day i came back before my usual time, i didn't see her at home. She later came back and lied eventually Gateman exposed her.
See how Angel lost her biggest opportunity to stay with Kind NJ.
When my help acted her drama, people made me feel bad saying I spoilt her and gave her leg
The clothes I bought, the gifts to her sisters
It’s well
I just told myself, next time my boundaries will be stricter
Hahahahahahahahahaha
Nj ooo
Why are you telling my story on the internet 😂😂😂😂😂
I remember when you posted about looking for a young help and I commented I wanted same and got someone
I take pride in how considerate I am, because I always get second hand discomfort when those around me are not comfortable.
My own dear ‘Angel’ showed me shege literally
To think that I was planning ‘our future’🤣🤣
Somebody that my MIL told me how much to pay her monthly and me I was like it’s too small na, and increased it🤣
I already planned to sponsor her in nursing school as she said that was her dream
Lesson learnt.
Will I be wicked next time? Of course not
I only feel sorry for her because I know deep down in my heart, I took her like my sister
We move
God almighty will bless u with babies ❣️❣️
The girl played her age, truth be told, she loves and respects you. Just that the guy in her life is a destiny killer
Chia i feel so sad very disheartened story. This children of this days wow.
I enjoyed this story time too much 😂😂
What is she staying with him for 3 months for biko?😮
I have noticed that nice people are not lucky when it comes to house help but you see all these wicked madams, they have the best of house help, I don't know why.
It's sad nice personalities are not rewarded with like niceness. It was sad to hear you say I've learnt my lesson. I'm like this and I've learnt my lesson too
Thank your lucky stars that she left if not she fir show you pepe…. delete any spirit of angel in your housdhold
I don't like maids…you did a good job by taking all the tins you bought for her….Angel & her mother smh….I blame the mother
Ah this story is close to the one I had with my househelp o those girls ehn
Nj your right!!!!!! It’s nice people that this helps show shege, I agree
I have had my fair share of ordeals with live-in helps….
Now I am done…l & my kids will continue to manage ourselves
Heeeeeeeeh… The ending shocked me o 😂 The way I shouted "Heeeeiiii".
not even talk of the numerous helps we've had(they were not leave in helps)
We've had thieves,one will even steal food that she'll go and use to cook for her children to the extent that she stole the dog's rice to cook dor her children,one stole the milk that was meant for a puppy, one was feeling too entitled
You see all these helps ehn 😂 I stopped trying to act nice to the one in my house because she's rude, saucy, doesn't know how to talk,if you ask her to do something her expressions will change,I think she has changed now after my dad scolded her that he'll send her out if she doesn't change. Something told me to check her torch light phone 😅 This girl is 17 and she has like 3 boyfriends that she's managing, I was just saying "heeeh" as I was checking her phone😂 I checked her bag and I found a pregnancy test strip( I didn't tell my parents tho), she's always on the phone calling her men,we can't hear whatever she discuss with them because we don't understand her language. She even had the guts to ask for my parents to buy her an android phone and that they should remove it from her pay (scope 😂)
She's going home for Christmas and my mum said she's not going to allow her come back
She has done a lot, I wish I can do a vn because 😂
Nj Ur eyes eeeh😂😂😂 fear just dey catch me!
Omoh this story eeh😢 some helps sha may God have mercy on them
I don’t have house helps but if I do, the person will NEVER have a phone, that is the condition I’ll give to the person bringing her. Davido’s son passed because the help was on the phone.
SM is very addictive, I’ll rather fill the house with books and encourage her to read but you see mobile phone NEVER.
It's a mix of good and bad out there
Lmaooooo
I literally laughed out loud when you said you messaged her after a while
Chaiii
You truly a nice person
Maybe it was the bf that responded to you at that time or she truly wasn't an angel. She was just waiting to leave her parents house to fly 😂
People like this don't know how to receive love from genuine helpers. They prefer to go to men to get love. It has nothing to do with work.
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lol. My help dt I took like a sister. Anytime I caution her in presence of my husband, she wd retreat into her shell. Not wanting to eat or associate. She wd say mummy I dnt like wat u said…in tears!!. I’m like…😮I’m ur boss, I correct u when u are wrong. She’s 35 wit 3 kids and separated from her husband. She packed her bags and left my house one Sunday morning. Maybe she liked my husband or maybe she feels too big to be corrected. 🤷♀️ I’ve discovered that those maids dt have sisters in same town as where they are working dnt blink an eyelid…they are tired of d work they pack to their sisters place.
In this case, NJ's kindness was abused.
Having said that I need to know if there are employment legislatives which govern the employment of domestic workers in Nigeria. What are their employment conditions in relation to age, vacation leave, working hours, working conditions, sick leave etc. Furthermore are they getting paid end of the month or their salary is kept by their employers. What is their minimum pay per hour or salary per month.
It hurts me that some of these girls are younger than 15 years. This is malpractice, and it's called modern slavery. I hope there are we employment laws protecting both the domestic worker and the employer from exploiting each other.