Mum says gentle parenting doesn't work
Mum says gentle parenting doesn't work
Gentle parenting does not work for these new generations according to this fed up mum. Now she is getting the spankings out, she said. Her attempt went viral on TikTok.
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What kind of ridiculousness is this? The mom can keep her calm tone of voice, but she seriously needs to give a consequence
PUT YOUR PHONE DOWN AND PARENT YOUR GREMLIN
Why would you film this and post it?
You don’t look good here and your kid doesn’t either; and most importantly in that situation I believe the little one was very aware of the recording and it made it worse for her.
Try redirecting
Crazy….teaching a tiered and exousted kid…recording. No matter how you call it. It's not parenting at all. People,wake up!!!
Gentle parenting is making sure your child is talked through difficult emotions, like those and not making it spiral further -.- That kid is fricking panicking!
I mean,she learned this from someone. Either you or the dad. The fact that she's gotten to this point shows alot. Maybe,oh idk,put the phone down and actually talk with her
Good parenting is to be in control of the situation, you are literally being bullied by a child, how sad..What did you teach the child? screaming and hitting is OK, because she isn't listening to you, she has no boundaries 😢
Yeah…spanking might be better, lol
This is not gentle parenting. This is complete ignoring of feelings of the child. Mom is saying: I don't accept you in your feelings when you are angry, I am ready to be truly with you only when you are behaving nice.
Gentle parenting is not never setting any boundaries and letting them do whatever they want. It’s not yelling at them to do stuff. What ur doing rn is letting the kid boss u around.
My Asian mom is different. With that attitude she will either get pinched, slapped hit by her shoes or twisted ears.
Poor little girl! She only needed some advice how to open that door. Instead of showing her what to do and help her becoming more independent the mother only ignores her and talks to her in a way the little girl can not really understand. She is too small to know what inner voice might be. Instead of helping her to calm down and showing her how with respect and a mind that would help her, she let the girl hurt her and become more angry because the little girl does not understand the behaviour of her mum. Seems like the mum is in a battle with her kid instead of leading her with love and respect.
I believe I am a gentle parent but when my son hits me I do tell him to stop it and be gentle. Hitting is not acceptable. I reiterate it every time. There are times when he gets warnings before a Time Out and then he pays attention. I must confess I speak loudly and some might consider that yelling. All good, happy to be a yeller and be judged for it. I do get angry but am also very vocal with my kids telling them I am tired, need alone time or have things to do. I also apologize after I yell as my frustrations are a result of me caring about their emotional needs too much and not being strong enough to always say no. Something I have to work on.
this is not gentle parenting, this is neglecting. You're filming your daughter while she actually needs you. She can feel it. You don't set boundaries clearly. You don't show a minimum of love, you don't touch her. I see a very punitive way to make your child understand the limits
Tell u the truth, the recording was definitely trigerring that little girl.
I bet,.if this lady had used the same tone without recording, the results would hv been different.
BUT she wanted to teach the world, how to be a gentle parent…well…now u see…how she failed…
No father no discipline
They say that spanking sparks the aggression in children. If she’s being gently parented how did she learn to hit? It doesn’t work, accountability works and there’s spanking a child which is not abuse. The society we live in today is falling apart right here in this video
there is no consequences here. The child is learning that they can be beligerant when they dont get their way and no one will tell them its inappropriate…. thats not gentle parenting, that not parenting and leaving the neighbours and everyone else to handle the consequences of lack of parenting from here until well into adulthood… children scream for boundaries to feel safe and secure… this here teaches the child they are not secure
My mother would swap me across the head just for a no or back talk.
This aint even parenting-
Why are you recording the video? For whose benefit? Definitely, the internet is not interested. First pacify your kid. You seem to be recording the video of her tantrums so that you can spank her later. Bad taste. You need schooling first.
A good spanking is NOT child abuse!!! In fact, good spankings (occasionally when required) may not fall under "gentle" parenting but it fit perfectly within the guidelines of "good" parenting. Spank your babies if you love your babies.
Pulling out your phone to record your kid having a tantrum isn't "gentle" or any other kind of parenting.
This was traumatic to see
Did she say, hands are not for hitting, then also said ,she was going to spank her for this.
Oh no! Did she throw a chair at her mom….?
This is how my sister parented her son, he is now a ward of the state and nobody can help him. She turned him into a monster, no matter how much we love him and try and help him to understand that long-term consequences are coming as he gets older he can’t understand… She parented like this and gave him no consequences. He just can’t wrap his head around the idea that he can’t do whatever he wants now…
She destroyed that child … Don't let these lunatics do this to anymore kids
Video title "gentle parenting doesn't work"
The comments: "it isn't working, lady"
No, really??
That's NOT gentle parenting! It's NOT!