MOYA EP 22 | GOGO CELI SIMENJALO STEWART | BEREAVEMENT | GRIEF | LOSS | ANCESTORS | DREAMS | HEALING

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MOYA EP 22 | GOGO CELI SIMENJALO STEWART | BEREAVEMENT | GRIEF | LOSS | ANCESTORS | DREAMS | HEALING


MOYA provides a dignified platform for spiritual healers to unpack African Spirituality. This episode we sit down with Gogo and Gobela Simenjalo as we zone in on the bereavement, loss, and connecting to our passed loved ones.

Contact Gogo Simenjalo on https://www.youtube.com/@AFROSAVVY

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  1. My mom passed away when I was 13, 10 days later my grandmother passed away. Amidst the extended family fighting over who gets to keep me, my whole world had fallen apart and no one was concerned with that. Rather I was told "you're not the first and last person to experience death" which 19 years later I realized that careless statement kept me from grieving and healing.

    We don't talk enough about how reckless our families can be when it comes to handling orphans, all they see is the money they stand to gain from trust funds and insurance payouts.

    Losing a mother is the biggest loss and it never heals no matter how long it takes

  2. Spirit will find a way for real!! I remember days after my father passed away he came to me in a dream and it was like he was saying goodbye, thanking me for the clothes I had bought him before he passed and it was like he was explaining how he had died as it was under unclear circumstances. His brother also, my uncle, came after he passed to tell me stuff about my life as well. This was before I had started on my path.

  3. Grief has kept me stagnant, even from manifesting in the 3D because transformation & transcendence cannot occur without letting places, people, situations, and even emotions go. The process of letting go triggers the feelings of loss and grief and thats how and why I end up holding on to stuff. Because I've lost key/important people, what happens is that I take much longer to bond and attach to people and thats that triggering taking place once again. Haunted by this fear that anyone who gets close will also be snatched away. Dealing with grief simply cannot be limited to one or two cleansing rituals after the funeral and be expected to be okay simply because sinxibe ezimnyama sasisa izila after a year.
    Lastly, one has to have done quite a lot of healing before they can connect with the same person they're grieving as a Spirit Guide/Dlozi.
    Its quite honestly one of the toughest challenges in all existance.

    I also know people who become ADDICTED to Mediumistic Readings precisely because its the only gateway they have to connect with their deceased loved one and this too is wrong because a fully healed person will connect to the other side on a needs-basis, but it won't turn into an obsession.

    Lastly, we also need to make room for Grief Therapy so that people learn how to be fully grounded in their life journeys as themselves and understand that Spirit exists but has its own role in its own time. Some people aren't necessarily Spiritual and you'll see how their motivation to get into Spirituality is an attempt to connect with loved ones for whom they never properly grieved. 💚🙏🏽🐝💐

  4. ​Our African languages are beautiful. Still cracking my skull, trying to find a word that would best discribe kudzila. I’ve thought of about 10 already, just the connection to “grounding”, mind blown! Depth…

  5. When I lost my Mom my world turned topsy turvy, I literally didn’t know how to breath. All of a sudden I was confronted wt a world without the one person who had been my one & 1st familiar person since the moment she popped me into this side of the universe. I realised there was a lot of answers I had never realised I still had to get from her. Answers only her cud give in any manner n sense. A life without a mother is loosing your core. My map my compass my world literally crashed and I cud hear it splintering into smitherens of bits n pieces. For years I cud not breath. Only about 18 months ago when I discovered I cud actually have direct chitchats with her did I start thawing. I now see her a lot in my physical self, even how I do & rationalise life issues is has too much of my Mom in it. And each time she appears through me, I’m now able to recognise & acknowledge her presence.
    A tear still roll down my cheek just each time I think about her, only these days it’s followed wt a deep smile. She has been gone 9 years now.
    Thanks boGogo for this topic❤🫶🏽🙏🏽