Mothers Over Wives Any Day // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 89
Mothers Over Wives Any Day // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 89
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U say it as it is 👌🏻👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I'm with you 💯.
I am married to a beautiful lady who’s the love of my life with 4 beautiful children. My wife is very close to my mother and they are good friends. My wife buys all kind of gifts when we go visit my mother in Kenya. We currently reside in Boston USA and hopefully in the near future will move to Kenya. From my experience it depends with you as a man of the house
First…I am a practicing Christian. It amazes me that so many Nigerian families are hyper religious, but ignore Mark 10:7- 8 For this cause shall a man leave his father and mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh: so that they are no more two, but one flesh.
100% facts
hey bigman i hope u realise it going to be the other way round as well mothers anyday over husband too
The saying that mothers should come first because they give unconditional love and wives don't is a myth. Many parents also abandon their children. Yup. Infact so many mothers either abort or throw babies away or give them up for adoption or even walk away from their partners and young children in search of greener pastures. Not all mothers love unconditionally. Same way not all wives walk away from marriage and men. It takes a good woman who is given support in marriage to make a good mother eventually in the marriage. That's the cycle of life. Young wives today are the mothers of tomorrow and must be respected.
Four months for what?
There's some mother that thinks their son is still there baby instead of treat him with respect like men, I will never take that shit a bit she can do whatever she wants because that's my home which I will never allow any influence from anyone including my mother and my father simple.
Relationships are complicated! Some people will say that you can have another wife but can only have one mother. It all comes down to commonsense though. I won't tolerate my mother disrespecting my husband and vice versa. If y'all can't get along then we can't even get married in the first place. A lot of people think it might get better after marriage, but it only gets worse and creates tension in the marriage. I love my mom, and when I settle down, I'll love my husband. I don't want to have to choose! Clearly define boundaries.
Wow 4 months. I know the parents I have, if I invite them for even one week or my brother invites them to stay. They will never stay more than a weekend ( sat& Sunday). And I think you inherit how your parents bring you up. So now I'm very uncomfortable staying in people's house, talkless of interfering with other people's business. I cannot see myself going to stay in my brother or sister's house talk less of my married children's house. If they want to see me they know where I live. This was always my parents response, "if you want to see us you know where we live."
The husband should take control of the situation. Unfortunately, he is letting his mother not only destroy the peace in the home but cause disharmony in the marriage.
I don't know what is wrong with this mother-in-law I have a friend her mother-in-law told her not everything you shld tell ur husband and she told her son the same this I told her simple run away from ur mother-in-law she don't meant well for ur marriage.
The mother is not busy.
You are 100% spot on….👍👍
Bro what do you think about the backlash from Fantasia 105 Breakfast club interview..She said women need to "submit " for relationship to work in todays world.She clarified it with her husband later…please do a video on it if u can..Thanks
i agree , i had to move my family 2 hours away from his meddling in laws, they influenced my husband too much! and since the move i enjoy peace! my ultimatum was either we move away from them or I leave, we moved!
We on the same wavelength yo! My MIL kuku knows me.
And we’ve set boundaries well.
Me, I’m quick to show my bitchy side ASAP! Y’all can preach culture all you want. You in my house, respect my space.
That’s it!
Dueces!
I totally agree with you. My mother doesn’t come into my home on her own accord, because I will not allow her to walk into my house and be disrespectful to my husband. Let me tell you I’m alright with it, I still love her I just love her from a far.
Egbon Phrankleen, I just can't love your opinion less. You are not biased but objective. Sentiment does not help anyone . Keep doing the good work👍
Just bad manners
I can never understand why the mother wanted her son to get married? She is his wife a partner in this marriage, also she is raising your grandchild. Sounds like she had a daughter instead of a son. My Grandmother who didn't visit often, helped out when she could since it wasn't a mansion with servants.
Why was she so petty about a tv. It sounds like the wife was on the way out if she didn't produce children. I can't imagine the stress she was under. Just a clue it's very hard to get pregnant in a stressful environment. Looks like Mommy was there to try and push her out the door. Makes me think he has someone else in mind to replace her.
Marriage is a contract, and it doesn't sound like she did anything meaningful to break the contract. Just nitpicking maybe because you want out of the marriage and you want to blame everything on her. Sounds like she can never do anything right.
I agree with you too, I believe when a man takes a wife the mother needs to realize he is no longer your baby. He is a man and a husband with a family of his own. Mothers at that point need to realize they take a back seat to the wife. He can't be man and a husband if he's still behaving like your little boy. The husband needs to stand by his wife. She is the Woman of the house. The mother has her house and I'm sure when her daughter in law is there she respects that fact. Why can't the mother do the same? What's wrong with a little reciprocity?
Every relationship has compartments, a man must be clear about motherly, sisterly and wife love, thy all can coexist in an atmosphere of mutual respect. The boy is not able to speak up for his family and possibly lacks proper understanding of them basic principles at play in a marriage. Some folks marry or get involved/celebrates marriages because that’s the expectation but don’t understand how to conduct affairs in the institution (including some old folk unfortunately).
In other words, marriage is another received expectation followed by children 👶 their brains are not wired for independent thought about what they get into.
OMG! Classic son is husband and mother is wife scenario. Except in the case of a widow, I was suspicious of a man who wanted to date me but his Mom was single. Chances are, he (the son) was her "husband"… not everytime..but too many times for comfort…
I agree with every word bro 👍🏿
Mama sounds like she is single. She needs to get a life….find her a man to keep her occupied.
Her son will lose the respect of his wife, and possibly his marriage if he does not man up and fix the issues!
A mother in law that comes to her son's house to complain about the amount of meat the wife is eating has nothing but bad intentions for the marriage. As such, you can not welcome that kind of toxic energy into your marriage and expect to remain married. No one will accept that. It's unfair to expect the woman to put up with such rubbish.
Mothers listen, you don't go to your son's house to tell the wife how many meat, chicken or fish to eat. In fact you don't say a word to them. You are a visitor. When you go there, you keep your mouth short and allow wife to do her job. The only thing you can do for them is to shower them with lots of love, so that when you want to go to your house they will say mama please stay more, we don't want you to go.
But if you go there as a fighter, dictator or queen you will not see your son and grandchildren again. You will lose🤨🤨
Value your relationship enough to put boundaries in place, or family will wash you out and you will blink your eyes and your marriage will be over.#commonsense#respect#boundaries