Marriage Is An Empty Box // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 12
Marriage Is An Empty Box // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 12
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Looking for marriage advice?, well here is one that I put together called Marriage is an empty box. I discuss the misconceptions in most marriages and how to make things better in a marriage.
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Good morning phrankleen how are you and everyone
Marriage is rubbish
Thia man, just spoke the truth. Thank you for the knowledge
Thank you for posting this. More people need to watch this
YES Agree marriage is an empty box which has to be filled up. What u deposit is what u get.
Personally , I think most pipo pressuring pipo to marry, just want to see them miserable or mobbing them. . I dont know why it becomes my problem when someone isn't married.
Am so in love with your flow man. God bless you.
Absolutely true bro
Phrankleen marriage I'd much better for woman, than for a man especially in Europe or the u.s of a. Let's look at the power a married woman have, security when she have children, she becomes literally the queen. I was looking at the coby briant passing the wife is the next of kin, the wife and cobys mother dont get on, she could bar his own mother from her son funeral, all the side chick and secret baby mama, life becomes very difficult, what I am the wife takes total control of all assets?
You're spot on. It takes two to tango. Both parties have to put in the effort to make the marriage blissful.
in this day and age, marriage is for women and fools.
Oga, 2 good heads are better than one.
I do myself and you do you that is my slogan
What do you do with a spouse who doesn't seem to key into your visions and goals in life?
I am tired.
So relatable. the 2 parties have to be whole first!!.OMG Nigerian parents need to chill so much pressure especially if you are a female over 25. I still cannot believe mom think its ok to introduce me to someone in Nigeria, distance relationship is not easy and starting here fresh God have control. People also think someone will change, even you changing is not easy not to talk of changing a grown man/woman.
Uncle Frank good afternoon lots of love to you and your darling wife.
Uncle Frank good afternoon lots of love to you and your darling wife.
I honestly don't know what you have with religion but you can make your point succinctly with obvious facts and leave religion out of it. No one can force anyone to do anything especially love; even the pastors weren't forced into their union. Good points though but because you're not religious shouldn't make you base your ideas on what religion should or shouldn't be! Let those who are religious continue with their beliefs and let those who aren't like you hold strong to their beliefs as well…overall; good points on marriage though✌✌👌
Thanks for this message
You are 💯✔ bro. Most people married for wrong reasons, that is why divorce rate is high.
you have to find your match from the cosmic world but religion has blinded a lot and end up bringing two unwanted stars together….
I call that ignorance because the bible told them so 😂😂a God that can't understand and love himself will never love others talkless of marriage..😂fuck Christianity and there unexisted jesus…😂fools
Relevant!…Got to share…!
God bless you Phrankleen.
Married is a scam
There was a guy I wanted to marry, my mom was against it, she told me “over my dad body , you won’t marry him and if you convince your father to give you to this guy then forget that I am your mother, if you see me on the street, don’t even say hi to me” 😂. African mothers are better than the FBI in mind control, they can make you do whatever they want. They are the best mothers.
You've said it all.Thank you.
Marriage and religious guidance has worked for centuries and millenia. The problem today is that graduates wherever they are in the world have been molded by the new religion of Western freedom their whole lives from the time they were young, whether through music or movies etc. Western freedom is all about individalism and selfish happiness even at the expense of family etc. In marriage you cannot be self absorbed even though we have been molded by this new age "freedom" myth. Western world has high divorce rates and many more failed relationships. This is not the fault of marriage but the unfortunate consequence of people being molded and indoctrinated by notions of so called "freedom". Marriage for such people (our generation) will always be a recipe for disaster. Religious guidance to do with marriage was supposed to be applied as we were growing up, rather than being told this once we are already grown up. Religion cant teach you the importance of family and sacrifice when we have been molded by a false sense of entitlement, selfish freedom and the inability to compromise.
The fact is for whatever reason, couples who are religious tend to have a successful marriage.
Marriage could be a beautiful thing but only if you can locate the perfect mate on all criteria which is almost impossible. We all have different personalities and characters which comes into play during a relationship. It's when some of these characteristics come in that we become selfish or conflicts come.
Interesting very true open minded conversation love the video
Hey invite creditable someone on your channel just saying.
What is marriage? Countries imitate western world concept of marriage! It is unnatural to sign marriage certificate for validation of the union, this is where one of the root causes start! Look at the people who the civilize world call uncivilized or primitive, among them their way is of higher discipline then civilize people, their is no rape, no divorce, no crime, etc. When the male and female comes together in union it should be base on them, not them and the government or system they reside in. In the Western world men do not benefit from marriage, the women is married to the state no him! Also we see this now in the East China divorce rate is climbing rapidly!
Well spoken, but you need guidance from somewhere in life. The Bible and it teachings is important to me. Most importantly life that’s worth living is there for all to see, never mind some of the pastors.
There is a whole lot to this topic than we can think of anyway. The so called white mans world or ways.
Hope you do one on lavish weddings soon
U make a lot of sense bro, and i admire your wisdom. God bless you and keep you. Thank you for the knowledge you share on this platform.
I hope African people don't fall into this thinking. Career fulfillment is overrated. Creating life is far more important.
My brother, in the beginning, there was no college degree, no money and none of that bullshit that people pursue these days but what was there from the very beggining is marriage..God said said, go into the world and multiply and replenish the earth..God never said go into the world and have a college degree and make all the money ..So work and marriage are too things that will always bring fulfillment to man.. Find work and get married and have children..every other fulfillment is ephemeral
Religion is causing lots of issues in the world today . The Pharisees are better than them .
You nailed it brother . I really appreciate how you broke it down here . Instead of some people to love themselves first , they keep looking fir someone to fulfill their needs . The truth and challenges of marriage are really eye opener . People may lie and pretend all they can at the end of the day is their life . Empty box indeed .
Very good point u made about marriage being an empty box in the beginning which both parties has to contribute in but I think there is problem in ur logic because u contradicted yourself when you also condemned transactional relationships. I think both mindsets are similar or at least have a strong overlap. If we can be honest with ourselves we can all agree that there is always a reason for loving someone. We can love someone because the person is kind hearted , respectful, humble, caring, hardworking, generous, rich, beautiful etc. The notion that we can love someone for no reason is a big lie because nobody wants a lazy and a selfish partner just because they're love struck at first sight or because the partner is so beautiful. As long as u can give what u expect I don't see anything wrong with being transactional in ur expectation as long as it is voluntary and reciprocal. Relationship is only sustainable when both parties contribute in that box like u opined which don't necessarily has to be money but it has to contribute to sustainance. People only love when they feel they are been cared for. Almost every body comes to the table with a seemingly wrong concept like for example money but come to realise that it is much more than that when both contribute selflessly and suffer through the ups and downs of marriage that they eventually gets bonded into the relationship. Marriage only crumbles when one party has a selfish transactional mindset to only take from that box.
Spot on!
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Well said bro 👍