LifeUpdate: home sweet home , we broke up & I left

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lelwa Gayi

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LifeUpdate: home sweet home , we broke up & I left


hey guys ….

welcome to my first life update (am pretty sure I’ve done this before) today’s weekly vlog am going home to recharge. I’ve been travelling alot so I was really excited to go . I filmed today’s vlog in Switzerland , home in Zurich , spent the night in a hotel in Lausanne and went to Bern .

Life got real , I’ve been under a lot…

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  1. I completely get it. This is called info dumping. People have to be considerate of others if they have space to accommodate them/their thoughts or not. It can be too much.
    I highkey think he is lonely and was using you as a comfort friend. Emphasis on “using”. Men tend to do this a lot with their female friends if they don’t have girlfriends and their male friends would tell them to shut up.

  2. I can never get enough of your vlogs. You are so effortlessly creative! Literally in your own league, locally….

    Watching your vlogs is like watching a short film. I also love that you are so unapologetically YOU. ❤

  3. I think your friend loves you…. and you are not in love with him….thats why you get irritable…. Maybe look at the benefits you are getting from living with him and focus on that or maybe find your own place so that you can find peace. Said out of love

  4. Sometimes telling him the truth about him being talkative is the way to go. What happens after that it’s up to him. I just want to hug you and tell you God did not just bring you there just to check in. Once you shift your focus, things will fall into place.

  5. at the risk of getting blocked,😔 it sounds to me like you didn't communicate effectively. You don't communicate that you are not a chatter and you need space, I also understand someone hosting you always wanting to check up on you. I hope you are able to communicate your feelings better, ignoring a situation is a bit childish because it leaves one with more questions when you can communicate your feelings without filter or feeling attacked, it might be really uncomfortable During the 30-45min of discussion but you get over it and make up than to walk around with this cloud hanging over you especially when you are so far from home, you need people in your corner (not in a selfish way) but you need people who can help you and it doesn't help that you ignore someone who is trying to communicate with you coz wena you stressed. TALK, don't expect them to read the signs through a closed door.
    I wish you well.

  6. Sana, I think it’s best to let your friend know uba ungumntu we nerves and can’t take uthetha oko 😂🤭

    Also you both clearly like each other nomntu wakho, so thethani nibuyelane chomi 🤭❤