It’s wrong to build your house before mine: says my Father…
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Video needs update oh…€100 is =N=250,000. Anyway, I always love Phrank. He's a realist and keeps it 100%. Much love, brother. I live in the USA and cam relate..
Phrankleen I think the trauma bonding from childhood is deeply ingrained in our psyche. It is almost like a drug addiction to play super man. Nobody is holding a gun both the super man and the jester are aware of what they are up to. The issue is can you quit first because it’s even harder the longer you continue.
Cut me off quick 😅
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Phrankleen if Naijas curses carried so much weight majority Naijas would be dead by now "Thunder fire you". kkkk Love love yr vlogging at least you r opening minds.
All these story's should wisen up the youth of today to breed less children, children that they can afford to take care of and not push their responsibility's on the older children. each member of fam should work and tcare of themselves. Have and Birth children you can afford.
Bet u money s the father claimed he borrowed to get to UK was fibbs, it was all arranged, while the struggling son was slaving thinkg his sending money's tompay back the loan was all made up. Bet u the Monet went in2 the fathers pocket. How can parents be so wicked to their children. People do not pick money on the streets in the Western worlds
Shame feel for him and These African foods are so costly they even cost more here in the western worlds. May God Lift this Man up again and May he be wiser this time, really he should distance himself from his family for now ND lie low concentrate on Building his life up.
You owe nobody nothing. Why should you lie? People pleasing is like pregnancy, eventually, everybody will know about it. It is your damn life, just live it on your very own terms.
You are so funny with your way of words
Mind control is a reality.
I had to check to see if this was a comedy channel. Unreal. Keep your mouth shut and learn to say NO. Excellent info
Great talk! I have been in the USA since 1997 and I wasted 23 year supporting my parents, siblings and their wife’s and kids while neglecting myself! I awoke and put a stop to that! Thanks to your show!
Africans families like to blame women the daughter in law
Slavery all over again from your father and family. ….dictators
This got to made up for the movie …lol 😌
I think parent learn this kind of manipulate from other parents back home. They will make you feel so guilty. They learn tactics on how to take all your hard working $$$
In my head he has done so much and thought he was going to build some real estate money so he can help them even more when cut a major chunk out of their leech money.
Buy land and build elsewhere. Stay away from a toxic person.
Never start what you cannot Finish..Have your boundaries from day 1..periodT
This is terrible indeed., people do struggle to survive in except we happen to be rich.
I’m sorry to say this Phrankleen but that man is sick, who go sending 700£ to family in Africa while he has kids to raise and bills to pay in the UK? A man of 61 years for that matter. 🤦🏿♂️
He is enabling his brother back home to have children and put responsibility for financially supporting them on him…….
Abstinence
I know one guy who DONT SLEEP at home and work by to back!! -working within the HOMELESS residential homes earning £9.00 an hour as a support worker. (HE HATE working with these vulnerable people anyway) and goes round doing these jobs, buys fake designers gears, drives BMW and sleeps on the JOB. When the CCTV catched him in one of the jobs he played "the racist" card!!
i have been told by certain family members and friends that i dont look and behave like someone who lives abroad because i am just jeans and Tshirt person!
starting with £800 was too much. He portrayed to them that he had the POUNDS tree in his house and just picked the money from the tree every morning! Big Mistake!!
the money was toooooo much @£800 per month!!
Are parents not supposed to leave an inheritance for their children and not vice versa.
Ive been listening to this channel for the past month, and even though im from another continent south america, some of us are suffering the same bullying from our families, luckily is not my situation, but my mother is suffering this shit, my grandmother and uncles live in a mansion with swimming pool while my mother have to look after an old lady giving her pension to them left by my dead father when i was 10.
Now im 38 , she's nearly 60 and she has nothing.
I am so glad I don’t allow family members anyway close to me!
This has nothing to do with who ask you for money, this has everything to do with YOU. You are not a victim, this is people-pleasing, it is best to have no family or friends than to live in poverty and miss your destiny because you want to support some people that are helping you to not achieve anything in your life but expect you to put them higher than where you are in your life. Those people don't ask small, they want money to build their dream home, get their dream car when you cant achieve your dream because you get those suckers in your life that never once don't ask about you. If they are taking advantage of you, it not their fault but your fault.
A person that apparently a cousin that I never heard about, never contacted me before, contacted me to ask me to buy her a car cost 8000-11000, She sold her old car and got 5500 for it and her with my mother find it normal to contact me to get her the car. I don't have a car because I think it is a waste of money, it is not cheap to have a car. This person wants a new car with my money and she saves her money, she got no job, she got 3 kids, she lives and benefit money and don't even say hello or ask how I am but think I will use my money to buy her a Chevrolet 4×4. Some of those people got zero care and respect for you. If you give them money that you have it or not it is not their fault it is your fault. You cant build a future for yourself with people that want you to pay for their luxury life for them. The girl did not ask to borrow money she simply expected me to just give her the money. My mother in the back supporting that move. I do not throw away my money all over the place I heard well and live well from my hard work. Many of these people live on given benefit money given by the state for child support. What do you do? Spend it on a car. I do not that and I heard 10 times what they get. you cant help stupid people.
Emotional blackmail is very prevalent in Nigeria not just our brothers and sisters in diaspora but here in Nigeria. If you just hustle to build a house or buy a car they just see you as someone that has money and keeps disturbing u. Where as that house takes alot of savings for years.
£700 monthly…wow. He is not a serious person. Seems he doesn't know how to say 'NO'
Parents need to make provision for their old age. Why expect your children to feed you. They can care for you but not expecting the children to take care of you 100%
He should even stop sending that £200. They should have 0
“In pink colour please ~! “ 🤣🤣🤣🤣
The whole world is becoming more and more narcissistic ☹️☹️. People need to educate themselves about these kinda people, they’re the future of this planet, sadly!
A "coachroach brown" ribbon – that's a new one on me! Sometimes I can't with you Phrankleen 🤣🤣
Honestly, some parents are the reason some people are in prison, gat no relationship, lack of focus, lack of saving, no investment, wealth building is zero, etc; just to mention few, it takes a lot of guts to cut so called family members in Africa. You have to be mentally, psychologically, spiritually and physical sound.
I'm not surprised that's bad family for you guys may almighty ALHA protect and save up against evil family!!!!! I can't just stop laughing
Phrankleen you need some merch scissors I laughed so hard!
You doing a Great job
Frank you are doing a job many of us have already stop sending Money back home
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