Is the Westernised Woman Deadly? // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 51
Is the Westernised Woman Deadly? // SAY IT LIKE IT IS – Ep 51
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Hallelujah!!!!!! Phrankleen! it’s all about power and control of these men. My family had no money when I meet my husband. My husband brought me to UK and used his savings to educate me, I mean paid my university tuition fees because at that time I was considered a foreign student. We are still together after 30 years. My husband is proud to have an educated woman, he’s not intimidated by my progression. Currently he has supported me to pursue my MSc.
Through his support we educated our daughter, she married and a mother of one and the second on the way. We adore our son in – law, he’s from Africa and our daughter grew up in UK.
It all depends on how a person was raised, it does not matter whether a woman is westernised or not. African men think cheating is acceptable and except the wife to endure pain in silence, when a women voice her opinion she is considered westernised.
Your have nailed it in the coffin Prrankleen!
Rosa
Yeessss deadly as sticking your hands in a starving tigers mouth
I think you are very mature & a true leader. The way you broke it down, couldn’t have been said better. Much respect to you.
I never experienced sexism coming from a Dutch culture. I moved to USA and I experienced comments from African men and dominant behaviors that were very foreign to me. There were also comments such as: You are too independent; You women have too many rights; It's good for a woman to have an opinion, sometimes- I spoke up about what the conversation was about in a group of African men. ; no man will want you because you have your own place; You need a man to make decisions for you.. My friend is Igbo and she told me that she has to have to have sex WHENEVER her husband wants to. He can force himself on her and it's not rape..
You can't shop for a wife like you buy a car, a house, or a cow. A woman is a human being with her own hopes, dreams, and ambitions in life. If you don't respect her wishes for her own life, then you do not deserve her.
African countries really need to advance in their recognition of women's rights. The black woman is the most disrespected everywhere on the globe. They should at least have safety in the motherland.
We men really need to do better. We have to start respecting women as equals.
I can relate to this story having observed the high numbers of single mothers in the UK during a brief stay there and being recently dumped by a man living in the US because his friends and pastor said women whose spouses bring abroad "grow wings" and change. That was my first experience of the prejudice and fear that people face due to the experiences of others and stories of this kind in the African community.
My take is that a good person is a good person no matter where they reside or find themselves and it really does take deliberate commitment to adapt to each other, build and remain together for couples in "the abroad" due to the system. It would thus be good to highlight more successful marriages and common pitfalls like you're doing to help relocating spouses and young couples make better decisions. Kudos
What an articulate and rational African man. His mindset alone can give a woman orgasm! Your lady is blessed!
Just found ur channel, you re phenomenal.. subscribed..
Phrankleen God Never Put The Man As Companion To The Woman, Let AlonePut The Man In The Home With The Woman!!! That All Is Man Made, Not God Made!!
Sir,I'm American Jewish, African American, Woman and,Yes,the woman here in the USA Western, Eastern, Northern, Southern,are deadly.From young age,,I would watch women in my own family do strange things to their own children, husband's, boyfriend's and family members as well as friends.I began travel,out of state around,19,years,and the woman were so got of their position as being a respectful person.I no longer wanted to travel,State to State,then work took me, international and it was worse than state to State. Glory has told me my position in His kingdom.Now Sir,I have seen and witnessed a level of discuss,,even in the men This that women do,,the men I have yet to see these things.Not to say men are not worse ,the evils that are done from the woman too the men, children, family and other women and creation,is out of this world.
Phrankleen you always have enlightened episodes. As a Diaspora slave descendant inthe Americas who is married to an Continental African for the past 35 years . I have to say most marriages prior to its onset most people must have a lot of ground rules.
And you right there are a lot of problems in marriages even the both
people are from same tribe, same country , same town
We the Westernize woman is not dangerous. It is just we know our rights.
Most people must find ways of communicating with each other before disagreements escalate or better yet book an appointment with a Psychologist .
I agree that there is good and bad to everything in life. Yes there are men and women with bad and some evil ways and sadly it is always the good men and women who are affected by the madness of such people behaviour. I also have to say mainstream media have shaped the lives of the majority of men and women, not just in the western world but they seemed to be influencing the outside world as well. Despite all the brainwashing and everything that is being put out there to destroy the family, there are many, many good men and women who uphold family values and refused to emulate or be shaped by what mainstream is putting out there. I would say before anyone can judge, take time to get to know a person.
Man of respect
Love how you speak the truth
…wish the subject was on 'white' women who I consider real 'western'…others na make believe….but the real western woman; she's deadly! She breeds and protects the oppressor!
Yes they are that is why i don't have a girlfriend at 38 am still trying to get a girlfriend they are 100 percent difficult.
You WOMEN TALK TOO MUCH on MEN’S issues.
Start punching these bitches in the mouth. 👄
Very well said and right on point.
Mature ladies in the west are best.
Beautiful video. I'm a black American lady. A mature lady in the west is best. I'm a mature western women who values respect & kindness in a relationship… if make mistake, I welcome correction but I like it done with compassion & respect…after all we are supposed to love eachother.😊I dont mind if my guy sets boundaries, but it must be reasonable boundaries.
Short answer is yes but it is not that simple. I am from the Caribbean and people from the Caribbean will tell you not to date an American woman but they never explain why. It is usually not fleshed out and quite shallow in reasoning. The real reason why a westernized woman can be so dangerous is because of the culture not the woman. The westernized culture of materialism, consumption, selfishness, and egotistical behavior destroys all that partake. However even in the Caribbean people will do things for status i.e. I am going to get a PHD because that is what people want me to have to look prestigious. This too long term does not work because you are living for other people. Now that I am older, no matter where you live, you have to live a life or create a culture based on minimalism, attaining a good quality of life, and stay away from consumerism.
God bless you bro
Thanks Phrankleen.. for this content. Yes we have a system to protect us in the West when it comes to abuse. Child support system is definitely against the black man. All in one breath no one wins. So many women do abuse the system an lie on a man.
I am sorry but I see a lot of African are just American white. Very greedy I have seen it in America I am a American woman. But they are great educated American women that that black American men and African men well not appreciate are approach at all.I feel as a black American woman with an African culture that it’s in our black men to be in control of a woman and if you see a black woman that is educated they feel intimidated
Wow! An African man who has seen the light, who'd have thought it? Much respect to you Sir.
Hello dear Phrankleen. Oh yes, the arguments definitely goes both ways. I am black mixed race African Caribbean origins. I married an abroad Nigerian man. Long story… but I would just make three observations/comments. First, I do believe age and station in life at the point of meeting the prospective spouse is a material factor that would provide some insight upon the prospect of success, and any potential hidden agenda, at both ends. The second is this idea that I have read many men below citing maintaining traditional cultural African ways as a reason for deliberately seeking a bride from Africa….hmmmm. I find this interesting because based upon the state of Nigeria (I use Nigeria because thats the largest populace Country in Africa were I have travelled to) there is major problem in family life and traditions are being eroded due to things not being what they were. Nothing remains stagnant ever. That is fallacy. Nigerians given 70% are aged under 30 now have a very westernised way of thinking or aspiration, rightly or wrongly or both particularly around money and relationships. The idea that you can find unexposed potential partners is most unlikely in todays times with the globalised obsession with all forms of social media. Materialism is rife in Nigeria compared to even 8 or 10 years ago. Not sure how often these men travel to Nigeria if they think the women will be installing traditional African values into their children. Women everywhere want change and financial independence or those looking to be housewives want husbands who will cover all their costs not just basic food and accommodation. Thirdly, I would argue that actually it is men and not women that have really gained from feminist ideologies and agendas. Why? because a woman’s commodity was her sexuality. In order to secure a woman’s sexuality many moons ago, men had to be able to provide. They were motivated to achieve to secure woman’s sexuality, which was secured through marriage. Women in these days could make demands in order to get the best bargain for themselves. We all pay more when a commodity is scarce, prices rise right. Along comes feminism, steered by men in order to bring down the value of that scarce commodity ‘ a woman’s sexuality’ It became a free market, men could secure sexuality for free, and women have bought into the belief they are liberated. But what has been the real price for women? Just look to places like Nigeria to find the answer. Women are desperate for marriage but many cannot attain it in the same way women before them were assured of marriage before the FM took hold. Men ceased needing to marry to secure a woman’s sexuality. This may be fine in countries whose economic policies provide for women to be sexually liberated because they can also secure their own economic stability not having to rely upon a man. But woman in less economically inclusive societies suffer the consequences of low value sexuality alongside low chances of securing economic stability without a man. The family suffers because nature must be nature and eventually even the most economically stable woman through her own efforts, ‘the boss lady’ will feel the desire to become a mother in most cases. The problem for her then is how can I secure a husband but for different reasons to raise her children within a two parent balanced environment. Food for thought my people. Stay blessed 🙏🏼
Thanks brotha for Truthfulness.
Oh my god i am so glad to find u i am a Jamaican Registered Nurse lives in NY and tried to date a African man i just finish 8 months of Cultureral battle all about submission and woman must keep quit he finally block me even though he lied that i am not block.
Nucca
Found you on YouTube for few days now and I love ur chanel. Just love the way you always say it like it is 👌 Love from Canada
That's another form of slavery, great video! A sister from the DRC
Great talk Sir 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾
I don't support any control freek but it depends on your ideology and values in life I know there nice Western women just that I love and prefer most of our values to them. So it's about values, conscience, family etc not controlling and maltreatment. Most white ladies are more obsessed with things I don't understand… So go for someone who u share CORE values with and don't pretend to be pet-friendly or be a vegan or all those shit just to be with someone u don't have anything in common with. I love my African women… they are not perfect but the devil u know is better than the angels u don't know period!