I WAS REALLY AFRAID TO MARRY HER! RICHARD MOFE-DAMIJO
I WAS REALLY AFRAID TO MARRY HER! RICHARD MOFE-DAMIJO
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R.M.D as he is fondly called is Africa’s biggest actor. On this one, we talk about the death of his first wife , love and fidelity in marriage. And then, a bit more!
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Great interview. Baba Teju, bring in some women too. It seems your shows have been about women for some time now
I believe chude beats TJ when it comes to empathy. Just my opinion
So only stars go through challenges? Would the men see their wives kissing men in a corridor, and they act like nothng happened?
Abeg the word is "discipline". Self discipline is expected from both husband and wife. Whether star or not.
I did not know RMD was so wise. He is speaking so many biblical truths without even quoting scripture. He is a powerful example of true marriage.
Wow!
@RMDwords🙌🏾
Someday I hope to meet a man that loves me how this man loves his beautiful wife
I did feel initially disappointed when I heard what RMD said about his wife. She actually was a star in fact it gave RMD more substance marrying her. I then paused to decipher his words again. I personally can't marry a person in show biz as I know the chances of scandals is 99.9% and I am super private so it takes a special kind of woman/man to marry them. Someone who can rise above what they see/read about their partner and still stay strong. It takes a lot to manage a home. I have been married for 17 years and I can say, we both are still WI. I don't think his words should be taken literally but TBH, it sounded disrespectful.
Africa is full of broken women. Bruised emotionally over and over and over until they have just gone numb. Most married women do not understand what it feels like to be loved anymore. of course these men will not feel butterflies in their tummy anymore with ur wife. u are having brand new love affairs ,meanwhile ur wife goes without the love and attention she so badly yearns for.
I have only one question, if the ‘weaker vessel’ falls, she is never ever picked up but a man expects a woman to pick them up all the time. All I hear is selfishness and lack of consideration. Total bullsh!t. Congratulations 🎊 to all my sisters who have come out of this slave tomb.
RMD's wife is a 'content' woman. She's not materialistic. That's why she's not too expressive in response to 'abroad gifts and fat money gifts'. And her love language is obviously not 'gifting'. He's blessed to have her. 👍to Jumobi.
Regular men face multiple of temptations…not to talk of stars…I get their point of discussion but if you open the door for rat to enter in the hope that you will kill it later, the rat might multiply b4 you get the chance to kill it…having a woman who will look the other way is like telling the man that he has the hall pass to cheat, maybe once or twice….it does not encourage men to be faithful…after all, wifey can take one or two slip ups…I think this interview tried to be pragmatic and realistic but it defeated the purpose of building men of discipline and self respect
Absolutely! Well said about us as a nation building more groups and getting stronger. Individuality is the bane of our country's problem. We have individuals who are bigger than our national system. Elsewhere in more developed climes, there's no one person or group bigger than the governing systems!
Lesson Learnt:
1] Have small circle of Word filled prayerful/accountability friends
2] Which is the MOST important : Marry someone who has a god fearing heart, a kind patient person and You yourself Must be VERY patient
3] Have a God purpose VISION, you working to accomplish that will lift people up and draw them to Christ
Rmd sounded disillusioned at the beginning. But at the end i got his point. He valued his wife! No, he wasn't advocating for irresponsibility for men but rather preaching forgiveness to the women. There's a place for forgiveness! We have made infidelity the unforgivable sin, cos some people say so. Some women have husbands like this and your marriage musnt end because he cheated. All men do not have the same grace. Cheating is more difficult for some men than for others and the wife needs to acknowledge this. Know your man. Bros definitely had some excesses and still carries some of those thoughts around but his wife understands him. She married HIM. She knows him. She stayed for him. Like he said, they both understand it's not a competition. No one he's being cheated. And oh, he makes up for it in other areas, not necessarily in the giving of material things. Beautiful. I started with a frown (like, whats this?!) but ended up smiling deeply. Big ups
RMD is TRULY "fine wine" His WISDOM with age is TIMELESS!!! God BLESS him & his wife Jumobi🙏WOMEN PLS lPROTECT & FIGHT for our MARRAIGES & CHILDREN! DO NOT GIVE UP ON THE FAMILY GOD HAS GIVEN U it's a PRIVILEDGE & God will CAUSE OUR HUSBANDS TO ARISE TO HONOR & PROTECT OUR FAMILY!!! Habakuk 4:14 REMEMBER the Lord who is GREAT & AWESOME and FIGHT for your brothers, sons & daughters, your wives & YOUR HOME!!! MEN pls be a PROTECTOR!!!
RMD just described me of what he is to his wife.That is true of me too,If I buy a new car the new car becomes my wife's own while I take the old one
Women are like Delilah and Jezebel?🤔What do you mean? Not all women! That statement needs to be clarified because all women are not like that! You are degrading some women when you make a statement like that. I respect you Mr. RMD; don't put all women in the same category though!
And most men are demons and prostitutes that pick up women on the streets, sleep round with multitude women deceived them abandon them when pregnant making women single mothers every were shameless .!
Pls i need an honest answer — if tables were turned men, will you pick your wife that's a work in progress?
RMD’s wife: Do I have somewhere I‘m going? Just priceless. God bless you madam for being there for him.
Lol look at this idiots talking about looking for someones daughter they can constantly cheat on and she will look away . will you look away if ur wife cheats on you too? Animals!! stay single ! stop teaching impressionable young boys this bullshit
I cannot believe what I just heard so what they just said is get a woman who you will cheat and she will just act blind if she does her own now and ask you to act blind you will say she is a woman she should pretend. Does being a man mean undisciplined. I hope men will keep the same energy when their wives cheat on them!!
So if you are a protector would you do anything to hurt your wife? This is just not encouraging.
Eeew….. I keep hearing such disgusting view points about the expectations of a wife from a Nigerian perspective. I guess Nigerian men come with a label warning… marry at your own risk, like cigarettes.
The Bible says he who finds a wife has found a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord. Young men out there, not every women will out up with a cheating husband.
The men should know that they need the Holy spirit to help them when it comes to cheating. Not to look to marry a woman who looks away when you cheat.