I was deported from Germany to Kenya and my own mother has not checked up on me since | LNN

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Lynn Ngugi

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I was deported from Germany to Kenya and my own mother has not checked up on me since | LNN


Yelsha has never felt love from her mother.
When her mother moved her to Germany at just a young age, she admits she did not want to go
Now Yelsha who is just a young mom to a beautiful girl has been deported back to Kenya from Germany
So, what exactly happened and why has her own mother never checked up on her? What happened between…

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  1. Hey Lynn.
    I can relate to this story. It is similar to mine because I am also pained that I am not in good terms with my mother. But it is life and I move on raising also my children.

  2. It’s horrible to invalidate someone’s story. Just because you don’t have abusive parents/relatives doesn’t mean that others do not. You should be thankful that not only have you not had abuse from people who are supposed to love you, it is beyond the realm of your understanding. Biology does not make a person. Just because you have given birth as a woman does NOT automatically make you a good person. Be kind to other unfortunate souls, learn and count your blessings. But do not for a minute try to rewrite someone else’s story/experiences.

  3. Lynn i live in a box. Rent is £650 going up to £670. Council tax £115,;: electrity and gas 120£. Bus pass &70, internet £40. When all that's added up
    Your pay monthly is all gone. She's telling the truth about bills

  4. Unfortunately, this lady is telling a lot of things that are not factual about Germany. I feel sorry that she went through with her mother, but she needs to tell facts about Germany as a country. 1. She was with a pflege familie and not adopted 2. You can travel out of Germany and back with a Duldung 3. You can not be forced to a job because of your skin color (we have black doctors, engineers, IT experts, pharmacists etc in Germany) in Germany kama uko na kichwa ya masomo and bidii you can get into any career path. I believe the main issue with her was lack of integration, lack of proper information, and her state of mind. 4. What she described is not deportation but expulsion. Not everyone can thrive abroad. I believe she will do great in Kenya.

  5. This girl is wrong about being adopted, she was placed in a temporary foster home.
    when you are adopted you can apply for the germany citizenship and get it, because your parents are german. But that was not the case for this girl.
    She didn't understand how the system worked in germany and she could not speak the language, that made the situation worse for her.
    This is a lesson to all girls who move abroad without having a plan. These european countries know and have plan on what to do with you when your not german. This is something africans need to know.
    This girl made so many mistakes. Do not get a boyfriend and start having sex, when you dont have citizenship of the country you have moved to or a job.
    Dont be having sex, it is a mistake.
    This girl was not cared for by her mother and thats why she ended up like this. 😢😢

  6. I don't think the mother was a bad one…yes she might have made mistakes but she takes this girl with her ,,if that is not love I don't know what that is …when people learn to accept their mistakes they can move forward. The act of blaming mammy or daddy is just a pity stunt …we all went through hell as children and that's not what we are . The opportunities that are in Germany are vast ,,,sad tho that it dint work out for her.

  7. You are setting yourself for suffering if you decide you will never forgive them. You see forgiveness, we all require. The minute you start in forgiveness, your own unforgiveness begins. Such that any error you make, you fail to be forgiven, because forgiveness is the only thing that is received when given. And when people won't forgive you for the slightest error, life can be very difficult. You will lose jobs out of little things. You will be sent out of very many places, etc. Because we do not realize that grace is something we are constantly given in life. You might find that if it was someone else, they may not have been deported for small reasons, but the grace failed in your case only because you cannot forgive your mother. That is a promise in the bible. ,' If you do not forgive, neither will you be forgiven.

  8. This girl needed guidance,I hope kenya will be a blessing for her.Germany you need wisdom to leave here,some of these offices can make you miserable and where Nigerians are kayanga kubwa kubwa.