I prioritised my US PAPERS over her love and this happened
I prioritised my US PAPERS over her love and this happened
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A supposed friend of mine tried to scam me. He introduced me to his friend, via phone speaker, and in Yoruba, he kept telling the man to talk to him in Yoruban. I felt something wrong and I recorded the conversation. I then shared it with 3 friends originally from Lagos and they told me what was said. My friend said I was an old lady, but looked very young and pretty. Called me an Akata, and told his friend to pretend to fall in love with me, marry me, and get his papers. I cried for a week because I couldn't believe he would do that to me. I confronted him 1 week later and informed him that I knew what he did. I would've respected him more if he said marry my friend for his papers and he'll pay you $3,000 USD a month. My friend stated that is how he rec'd his own papers.
Ano her good topic!! Truth!!!
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Oga Phrankleen me am in for the connection thing man. Lock down is making it hard to socialise lol and age's not on our side 😉(single woman in London).
@1:08:47 is so right. Unfortunately some carry the same attitude from home to work and mistreat their subordinates: The bosses who reason that if it took them 10 years to make Manager, they can never promote anyone in 5 years. Makes me pity their families and domestic helps.
He should had told her and let her make that decision of marrying him or waiting to marry him. If you love someone u have to be honest with the person. I understand why she was not ready to marry him because she wants to make sure that he loves her.
Hmmm. This happened to a guy. He was in the armed forces… He had two baby mamas. One white girl and another black girl. Child Support was taking all his money. Then he went home and brought a wife who didn't know anything. She was working 3 jobs to support him, so they could afford to pay their bills. Then the guy died…
Tell her l live in the USA in Boston Massachusetts to contact me if she is interested
Oh no, not the sugar walls…LOL!
sugar wells… hahahaahaha
If not I'll get a k
Both of them were not wrong in their decision
BaBa Sugar wall . Most especially banging in the middle of winter 🥶.😂😂😂
No fake or arrangee marriage in this guy's case, America does not recognize girlfriend but wife. He better run with his two legs back to his legit wife and forget about that time waster. It's dangerous out here God knows 🙏
Just a little correction phrankleen. If you come on a spousal visa from Nigeria, you will get your indefinite leave to remain 5 years after as long as you’re still married. However if you got it whilst in the Uk, it’s 10years before you get your indefinite leave. So it’s always good for one to go back and let the significant other file from the country they are both from.
Yes ppl do catch feelings, speaking from experience
This happened to a Zimbabwean family friend. She’s a UK citizen. She fell in love with a Nigerian guy and got pregnant by him. He was on a student visa. They got married, despite her mother’s and brother’s reservations about the guy’s intentions. They urged her to stall the wedding but she refused. She was blinded by love. The managed to get married, sadly he abandoned her after a month. He was not present at his daughter’s birth and rarely sees her. She filed for divorce after 7 months. Not sure what will happen to his application but he’ll likely get it because of his daughter.
Frankly, he should not have used the other woman for his own good. Always tell the truth. If he agreed to the arrange married then stick to it. May take 🤗
By the way, in the US marriage interviews for adjusting to permanent residency are done here in the US. Is it the same in the UK and across the EU ?
Thanks for this vlog Mr Phrankleen. It is not easy for Africans trying to normalize their papers in the western world. Marriage is the only route for many of us. If you are lucky, and i mean lucky and HIGHLY SKILLED, you can get labor certification and H1B and even that is through lottery (100,000 issued every year out of a million applicants, and many Indians and Pakistanis seem to get these).
AS FOR ME THE GUY HAS TO CONTINUE WITH HIS ARRANGED MARRIAGE BECAUSE IT'S MORE SECURED FOR HIM, BESIDES HIS GIRL MAY MARRY HIM AND PUT HIM IN A HOT CHAIR IF PROBLEMS ARISE, SHE CAN EVEN CANCEL THE MARRIAGE AND DESTROY HIS PAPERS. MEANWHILE I DON'T BLAME THE BOTH BECAUSE THE GIRL IS TRYING TO BE CAREFULL WHILE THE GUY IS TRYING TO BE STRONG INTO SYSTEM, BESIDES, IF UNDERSTANDING CANNOT SETTLE THE ISSUE, IT'S BETTER LET THEM GO THEIR SEPARATE WAYS.
FACTS.
I understand where both parties are coming form but at this juncture they need to discuss to either say together or move on.
Laying his wood more than the pencil factory? Phrankleen!
If you feel someone is interested because of your papers find someone who has papers. Girl needs to understand that you can't eat your cake and have it. She felt he was with her for her papers and she chose to hold onto them, nothing wrong with that. It's selfish if she expected his needs to hang while she decides what to do with the relationship. Anyone who has been abroad understands how serious proper documentation means. What if the relationship had broken down would it make it okay that he put his life and future he put his life on hold just to prove his love? Love is a risk most folks are not willing to acknowledge. Dude faced the reality of his needs and still stayed with her, babe needs to wake up, put emotions aside.
I clicked thinking this was your story explaining where you’re from. Well, I’m leaving a comment to say I’ve lived through such. I’m ADOS, btw.
The guy should forget the girl and continue with his life oo this abroad is not easy when you dont have papers. One has to do what they gotta do. No be love we go chop here..
8:16 minutes. He should have told her because she wasn't his only optin at this time. Depending on her reasoning, she can call ICE on you for hurt.
He should not make the mistake of divorcing the arranged marriage. No matter what he feels for the other lady, the only thing he can count on right now is his papers not her or her emotions. If she could make him wait one year to prove his love, then it is not out of place to ask her to wait for one year. If she can't wait, he will find someone to love again.
He's using both of them.
So true, know of one female who tried countless of times who took men to the west but they leave as soon as they realize that all she had to offer was a trip because she is basic.They don’t even wait to get papers out of her
2nd or 3rd hand I phone UK mcheww
If a guy was into real estate in Nigeria, he can easily work his way into real estate when he gets here too, all real estate agents are hustlers everywhere on the earth, be it the UK, USA or Nigeria. Learn the ropes and get in the game. He shouldn't have to get into security work. But I have no full knowledge of the relationship so just giving an opinion of the "Fictional analogy you gave".
Phrankleen bro you the best your view on this message is so accurate and fact big up
Moreso you said this happened, What happened?
Don’t get at me phrankleen but 20 ads is a bit much on a video fam
I have an Nigerian friend who’s this happened to him. He dated a Nigerian girl as well, but when he told her he didn’t have papers her parents became demons and stop the relationship . He then married a white femaleat work and now he has a daughter with her, 7 years in the marriage he wants to make it works, the chemistry is gone, and her family and friends said they know he will divorce her bcos it’s all papers. I feel sorry for him
Don’t blame the guy for doing what he did in the 1st place he asked her for marriage she said no she not ready simply because she thought the guy wanted to use her for paperwork and this guy has seen it from this lady behavior as if he wanted paper… a lots of home marriages have been damaged due to tell their partners to the face i make you a citizen i do paper for you
those parents are very hard, what is wrong to help somebody to sort out his papers
Love u sir because ur content is based on trueth
@ phrankleen You reference him as a "boy, dude and brotha". In the US a boy is under 13, over 13-18 is a teenager. 18 thru 30, young men. Men were usually called Boys during slavery. A "man" is a better reference.
I think the lady is wrong. He shouldn't marry her. She unworthy of being his wife. Marriage is about sacrifice, plain & simple.
I really appreciate your knowledge
His actions didn't break any trust. If you've been in the position of not having papers you will understand. The constant fear of being caught or someone snitching on you, the mockery and disrespect you receive from fellow Africans, your inability to drive especially in US, even when you get injured or sick you can't go to that hospital due to fear of being caught and deported. I totally understand the guy. In this world to each one his own cross.He did what he had to do.
He should just throw her into the back burner and move on. As a Ghanaian living here in America I see a lot of these stories all the time. When the man was down and needed her the most she was playing cat and mouse games and now that he has fought his own battle u wanna tag along. This situation is so annoying and we hear it every day in the immigrant community. When a guy doesn't have papers no one respects him, even potential partners shun him but after he finds his way they suddenly come back around like he never existed. She laid her bed and she should sleep in it. In this world no risks no reward.She failed to risk it. It will be a lesson to her. Such people always end up with men who actually use them for papers because they try not to repeat similar mistakes by giving in too quickly to the next guy. Vicious cycle smh
Welcome to the basic 'snookered' entrapment 😅😅😅. This just fizzled the life out of me.
This is the truth about the abroad lifestyle. People back home should do their thorough research and pray for the spirit of of descernment. Most people live to regret having met basic people and end up bitter for the most part of their lives.
Be as wise as serpents, poverty mindsets make people fall so hard 1 won't be able to take a stand again.