I left my marriage for two years but I went back to my husband and had to apologize and own up | LNN

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I left my marriage for two years but I went back to my husband and had to apologize and own up | LNN


When Leah got into her marriage, she had skipped a major role in her life. The self-healing journey. So, she got into the marriage with illusions of what a marriage should look like. She became an alpha female who could not be advised or led towards the right direction. And so, she packed her bag and left with her two children.

So, why did she…

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  1. How many of such women can swallow their pride, own up and be that courageous to tell such "FORBIDDEN " subject to the world? You can count.
    Lynn, this is a unique case told by an intentional, beautiful soul for many to learn and review their life.
    Disclaimer!!, my wife did exactly that albeit minus our kids and after two weeks, she realised her error of judgement. These things are in vogue in our society today but is never told. Leah is one of a kind.
    Leah, allow me to commend you for that move and remind you that you are so beautiful and authentic. You have taught many women out there that marriage indeed works if both parties put their efforts, purpose and intention to it. Marriage is so good guys, but its success must come from you not the other party. Leah came to her realisation that she had something to give in her marriage, interrogated her conscience and God revealed to her that this was the man that He purposed to her. A marriage with God's blessings can't fold.
    Guys, there is no pride or ego when it comes to marriage. Marriage brings in values and purpose then the rest falls into place. I also wish to remind us that the best and most successful marriage can manifest where and when both of you places your past aside and place your values to the table then agree on how, as a unit you can navigate and model life in the way you think best. What I am saying in simple terms is, outsiders will never help you build your marriage but destroy it. They weren't there when you met or when discussing and agreed on your trajectory. To that extent then, they are strangers to your marriage just as they are not part of your life journey or painful experiences. Leave 3rd parties out of your relationship and be nil or scanty in sharing anything about your partner and marriage in social media groups.
    Leah's story in respect of her father, is indeed sad and unfortunate. Leah, sorry for the childhood trauma you endured but God has it all positioned for you to your destiny. It is well. Men, when a relationship has failed, bringing another woman to your matrimonial bed is a big NO. There are several ways you can approach or handle your relationship without causing unnecessary bitterness or subjecting your children to such experience that Leah and many more go through. With the advent of alternative means of resolving differences like counseling, church etc, you can do it guys. AIDS, STDs, Traumas you inflict on the innocent children like Leah, and the shame that you alone go through among men, all these is unwarranted.
    It doesn't matter what anyone can say about women, but our mothers are awesome. Majority of women do a lot in terms of shaping humanity. Many women out there including my own mother are transformative to matters children welfare, albeit, away from public glare. Social media is exposing some stories of women power and how much they impact society at large. But the truth is, there are so many silent mothers like Leah's that have done wonders that never come to public gallery. We see other great women even here on Lynn's show.
    As we celebrate international women's day on Friday 8, 2024, I request all of Lynn's loyal fans to join me in Celebrating Leah's mother, Lynn the icon herself, and all women in the world for being wonderful mothers to all of us. I postmously celebrate my own mother for single handedly taking me to university through Busaa brewing, my wife for giving me 4 great men and women and my two daughters for making me feel the proudest and fulfilled father in the world. Happy international women's day to all.

  2. I would like to tell women to love their husbands husbands when they are alive because the way we suffering outside here as widows .You feel like huyo mwanaume angekuwa tu hapo hata asipoleta anything watoto wamwone

  3. Wow! What an inspiring story. I shed some tears along the story & then went like "wait, if she didn't feel sorry for herself, who am I to cry for her" You were so brave at a young age and very courageous . Pole for all you went through but God has rewritten your story. Mama taught you well and I'm sure she's happy & smiling at you from heaven.

  4. For The 1st Time i sit 2 Hours Listening to a woman..WISDOM At Its Best..How i wish Women Could Know How Powerful FEMINITY Is To a Man …Hata Kama Umekasirika aje ata Ukuwe Simba.. a womans Feminity Brings You Down…FEMINITY Can Make Your Man Do Anything For You and Still Makes Him FEEL AND BE More Than a Man He Knows Himself …

  5. What Type of a man cant desire to have such a woman…ACCOUNTABILITY Is what MOST WOMEN FAIL in…MEN LOVE THE TRUTH WHOEVER Hurting it is ..This Is Not for emotional Men ..Its FOR DOGS LIKE ME

  6. As I'm listening 🎶 from Namibia 🇳🇦 SADC SOUTHERN AFRICAN COUNTRIES I think you made a big mistake to go to speak to your mom's grave the Bible said DO not speak to the deads. Leviticus 19:31 and Deuteronomy 18:9-13.that was the big trap for devil in your life. Speak to God my younger lady when storms cames dear!

  7. Happy belated 2024 Lynn!aunty always following your stories all the way from Namibia 🇳🇦 SADC SOUTHERN AFRICAN COUNTRIES. Blessed 🙌 you indeed. Can you help me to tell your client to express in English please is too much swahili and most of the time I'm lost But I'm following her very earnestly up to the.end.

  8. I hv cried the whole time,i know Leah on personal level but i never knew she's such a strong and courageous woman. At some points she was talking and i was breaking down because of what am going through at this perticular moment. How i wish i had such courage to talk and ease the pain.