"I just wanna be successful" – NdaniRealTalk S3E6 – Success
On this episode of Real Talk, host Yinka Oladiran discusses the concept of success in the Nigerian society with guests, Somadina Anyama,…
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On this episode of Real Talk, host Yinka Oladiran discusses the concept of success in the Nigerian society with guests, Somadina Anyama,…
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A passion is just a feeling. It comes and goes. I will not leave anything tangible for a feeling.
No homeless person is happy talkless of happiest.the lady who says success is having something to showoff is so correct.
These people are defining ambition, as oppose to success! If death comes now, you'd say you are not successful! lol wow
Started off well saying success is personal and what you deem success is personal to you, then ended up defining what is successful to you is success in general. You can not measure some one else's. What s successful to you may not be to the person sitting next to you. Period.
Yes, the homeless happy guy is successful.
To be homeless is a struggle. He struggles to survive on the street exposed to the dangers out there and he survived the night. That is success if you ask me.
He achieved his goal for the night which is waking up and he is fulfilled by the thought of that alone.
Even if he gets a home and makes it big some other time, he will always recollect how he ‘successfully’ survived nights on the street with a sane mind.
My 2 kobos 🙂
Conversation in each of the episodes just keeps getting watered-down and very boring, come on NdaniTV!
Depends on how each person defines success, very subjective. My idea of success (short or long term) might not align with your idea, so if Yinka were to ask me the homeless person analogy, it's totally acceptable for me or the guest to say no because that is not our idea of success. It might be for the homeless person, and that's also fine. Yet another ambiguous-bait question/duh moment by Yinka because that analogy was stupid cause you made it seem like the guests were contradicting themselves by saying "no," like duh! what did you expect them to say?
Yinka is 25?!!
Delphine is so beautiful OMG 😍😭
My least fav episode. Delphine did it for me tho👏🏻 Love her
"The problem with Nigeria is not corruption, it's pressure" 😂
To the question of the homeless man who is happy, is he successful?
Yes he is. If he believes that he is successful, then he is… irrespective of what I believe is success, it does not make his definition of “success” invalid. Same with any one of us.
Thanks NdaniTV, I really love this Real Talk show. Kudos Soma for being real, "I mean it's Real Talk!". I think everyone sometime in their life do things they're not really proud of.
I think soma’s definition of success using cars as analogies was very shallow 🤷🏽♂️
Success is subjective. Its based on what goals(or benchmark) a person as set and achieved for themselves, irrespective of what someone else thinks. My success might not look like success to someone else. Someone can see success as when they have attained the wealth of someone they are competing with or look up too (ie in comparison to someone else).
I always love these segments 🙌🏾
I always think the food is cold by the time you finish talking
First time I've seen the Delphinator without her hat
Delphine!!!!
Hi Delphine, Soma and Deji 🤗
Success for me is to be able to take care of my people…that's my ultimate goal. For the homeless guy analogy, well u can't be homeless and happy except u a crack head… Cause everyone wakes up (except dead people and they dead… So that's a far off). A perfect example: goggle Ted, the homeless man with the golden voice. Nice convo
Delphine, great definition of success; the best I've heard actually. Also, I don't think there is such a thing as being happy without a reason. Happiness is tied up with something else. Are you happy or filled with joy because you are saved? Are you happy because your family is happy and at peace? Regarding the analogy of the homeless man, his happiness is brief if it is dependent upon food which will be eaten. Temporary happiness cannot equal success.
For me, success is fulfilling God's purpose for my life in its entirety. I'm not interested in pursing material wealth, spiritual wealth is where it's at.