I gave $20000 to my Mum for Land Procurement and this happened
I gave $20000 to my Mum for Land Procurement and this happened
I gave $20000 to my Mum for Land Procurement and this happened
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Pls can I get Vanessa email, I like her ideology n will like to connect with her.
Goodbless the second caller she hit the nail by the head.
I see the same shit in my haiti culture,.
People are really different just good and bad people….Bottom line you are on your own
What kind of parent steals from his/her children.
Venesa get off these ancient Hollywood fraudulently stories of religious nonsense. We should all be communist spiritual wise. Religion and bullshit
African mothers remind children constantly that they gave birth to them, so they have rights over your life, your emotions, they are the ultimate law, judge and jury over you, with sanctions imposed for non compliance, without the right to speak or any other form of defence, they own you. This is supported by fathers and other extended family members, in this claim of ownership.
This also manifests in adulthood, by their speeches, their manipulation, other forms of actions or inactions, your salary, savings, property, business belongs to them.
If they ask you for money, the mindset is you are obliged to hand it over, as if you have a unlimited lifetime debt to be repaid.
The thinking is they can do what they want with any monies given to them, whether given for business or not.
Vanessa…other than that Abraham/Garden of Eden mishap, Girl you are so on point! I love, love, love all of what you had to say.
This is my advice. go to Nigeria which €500,000 period
abuse is not part of African culture. I don't know what type of family do you come from? I don't care if. You are my family. If you cross the boundary you will face consequences
most have the assumption that your parents wish the best for you. You would think that if you are able to better yourself they would also benefit from it, but that is where the mistake is made. They feel they are entitled to your money and you can do them no harm because they are family.
They've been asking me to come buy land for years. I said to them all the time same answer.Nah fanks
The mindset of relatives and people back home in Nigeria is toxic. And, their level of reasoning is very low and dangerous. JMO
I hope it's ok, if I share my story. I do have Nigerian in my family.
I'm Jamaican and have always been the black sheep in my family.
I had to get away at 17 and joined the Army. My wicked aunt who raised me, was very abusive and toxic. Went through rape at 7 hands of her brother and was told I was liar when I started talking.
I didn't know my aunt wasn't my mom until I was 15. She and my real mom lied. This took me over the edge, I started rebelling. The Army saved my life. My aunt a PASTOR (forgot that part) cleaned out my savings while I was in Korea. I didn't realize until two weeks later. She cursed me and told me I owed her, for bringing me to America.
Now I'm a successful entrepreneur and happily remarried. I went into real estate did well, and kept pushing myself to start different businesses. I tried to reach out to my family because now they're reaping their karma. Part of me, felt bad I've been away for about 15 years. My uncle ( aunt's husband) who raised me, told me I'm dead to him. He was the only father I knew. My husband tells we should focus on continuing building wealth for my kids and never look back at my struggles.
In africa better do deal with outsider than your family .you Know how you suffered befor you end your money .the bad family only give better Expirense
If you want something done well is better do it yourself to my expirense
I love Venessa. You speak my mind and I always put my foot down. I don't care who I have to cut off as long as it means I have peace in my life. I am raising my children to be free minded and fearless just like me.
Sis, God kicked Adam out of the garden of Eden not Abraham.
My family accused me of killing my own sweet mom after taking good care of her when they all had left her in the hand of house helps who were taking advantage of her since we were all living far,I cut all them off my life and trust me not am super peaceful.
All I just want to say is Vanessa God bless 🙌 you..simple as APC ..
Absolutely love Venessa 👏🏾
The African culture is building in manipulation and intimidation!
How many people believe Africans were like this before colonisation?
This happens in the caribbean aswell. Stealing from your family abroard is normalised.
How is it that its only the people who have been robbed speak about family….some one needs to speak to the people who are doing the stealing about family…..i think the worshing of money and putting it above all things is the root of this problems…..only prosecuting them will stop this problem….Sorry if i offended anyone
Hi everyone, this is David. Thank you all for the advice you've given me. Definitely appreciate it.
Regarding RELIGION, is this culture or a deception brought by Europeans with a BIBLE and from whom the parents got this indoctrination??
They SQUANDER the money, so there is NO PROGRESS for you or for them.
They, parents and family members, know they are wrong when they steal and deceive and yet are not ashamed, THEY MUST BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE!
This is such a great topic to bring forth and discuss.
First, HONESTY, all around.
Parents must be honest.
Children must know their parents and their abilities and be downright HONEST!
My mom and father swindled and misused my hard earned money meant for building my mansion…i told them they eill both pay and today is their 7th anniversary in prison. And my mansion is now completed thanks to my brother and sister who scared of being jailed accounted for every penny and built my mansion. When it comes to my money i pull no punches…anyone stealing from is stealing my time and i can go to war to get even.
One thing is for sure. No one has to complain about buying property or land through their family, because Phrankleen is available to guide you. Period. Excellent video. 👍🏾👏🏾✊🏾✌🏾
Vanessa is the bom 💣. Fantastic
A friend told me that her step elder brother asked for help to set up a chemist whilst he was doing apprenticeship to learn the trade. Sister suggested to partner with the brother instead cos she couldn’t afford to just sponsor a chemist for him to cater for his family whilst she’s struggling abroad and living a minimal life with her small family and with no investment to her name. She was going to set it up and let him remit 60% of the profit back as her capital until full capital is achieved and then he can start getting 60% of the profit because he would be the one running the business. He reluctantly agreed and when she made an attempt to arrange her lawyer to prepare the agreement to make sure its legal binding, he appeared shocked, became withdrawn and never spoke about the chemist business again. It turned out that he already owned a chemist and was looking for money to set up a second branch. Gbam 👏🏿
Humans have a tendency to rely on others for guardians, and that can't be dangerous sometimes. because it open the door for others to manipulate you to their advantage
Been in this position before from other family members. Learnt a huge lesson . Had to work two jobs to offset the loans from the bank. Times changed, they started having children and realised the real position of life. Now when we could have done real good things together, I just give them the shoulders. Never again will I do business with them and the other thing is it bought me a huge slack from this "ehn…na your blood" brainwash.
I tell you , I've done a lot better without that string and I'm reeling in the freedom those very silly insensitive actions of theirs have bought me.
Pls don’t give your money to a family member to build a house for you and you should always use a real estate person or a developer.
It is all over the world especially in the poorest diaspora like Latin America
A ghanaian friend, struggled in Amsterdam, Holand before he got his resident permit. This friend left a wife in Accra, Ghana with 4 children. He worked hard and bought a Toyota mini car, send it to his wife to use as a taxi to feed his children. When his mother got the information about the car, she went with her family and collect the car from his wife. After 6 years he went to visit his wife thinking the wife has worked with the car and fed his children.
This guy learnt that his mother and her family was the one who had used the car. Being an ex-soldier, he made a complaint to Burma barrack, Accra. The mother was invited and as she could not account for the car. The mother (his mother) was given 24 cane lashes on her bare buttock in front of him. She was also asked to pay the wife for the car.
I and some friend were troubled about the mother treatment, but later we agreed with him. Some parents is sabotage their offspring happiness especially in Nigeria and many black countries in Africa and the Caribean
Moonshot is missing the point! Noone is saying prople shouldn't't help people…the point being made id about the charlatans and the lazy ones who look to dupe people in the diaspora!
Hi Phrankleen, lovely content as always! Thanks for continuing to educate us!!
I love Ole's analysis….its almost like people who have been successful are custodians of a collective wealth and not seen as hardworking people who actually "earned" what they own!! Love the she broke it down!!
Black American parents possess the same pathology. This toxicity is the remnants of Oppression & Colonialism imposed upon us. Shining the light on it & confronting this wickedness, as you & others are doing is how we heal & rebuild our majestic cultures❤💋
Parents are just Caretakers God is the maker so they should just stop playing God. They act as if they did kids favor by giving birth to the kids.Actually if we want to look at it reverse is the case, they are the one that choose to have kids so that kids are answers to their prayers. From the look of things it is the kids that do them favor
The entitlement mentality is just too much. Very wicked people, very controlling, manipulative and very dominating. I made that mistake myself of letting my mum into my home up till now am still feeling the effect. To add salt to injury, she in conjunction with some people still threatening me for making a choice to live my life. The bully is just too much and totally UNACCEPTABLE. I have my own story and will share one day but crossing my arm now and let God fight my battle. For now I have made up my mind not to let them walk over me
Not just Africa its most 3rd world countries i know even Indian's and south Americans this has happened to
I sent my vousin in zimbabwe money during pandemic he couldn't work. Je never asked but i knew he was in a bad place. When he got the money he called my uncle from his house and bought food for both household. 3 months down the line back at work he called me and asked how i wanted it paid back. I told him it was never a loan. He said he will use it to fix things that needed doing at our family home and stuck to his promise when our durawall got damaged by weather and he fixed it. I am blessed to have had pardnts who have invested for us .
They groom their children to accept this behaviour
Now i understand Nigerian films