I DIVORCED MY HUSBAND BECAUSE HE LACKS AMBITION AND THIS HAPPENED
I DIVORCED MY HUSBAND BECAUSE HE LACKS AMBITION AND THIS HAPPENED
I DIVORCED MY HUSBAND BECAUSE HE LACKS AMBITION AND THIS HAPPENED
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Thanks bro for your honest opinion on the issue of women pressuring their husbands to relocate abroad for the sake of their children. I know many with good jobs and businesses who left them and relocated abroad, hoping it was greener over there – only to start from the bottom and divorce their spouses. We can go to the best university or born abroad, our asses are black.
Phlankleen, you're the best, and you will always remain the best because of the candid advice you rendered to people.
I listened to one of your clips two years ago, talking about spending time in Nigeria ( at least 3 months) I really appreciate your advice and its really helpful, and please don't allow people to frustrate the good advice you're given to people, thanks bro.
Again you're the best.
"you can't force someone into an environment to cater for your own selfish interest." That hit me deep! I can relate with this …been there👏👏
The guy is simply cut out for business and not the IT or office environment. But the wife doesn't want to accept that because it is not in line with what she wants to see in her ideal man.
@6:34 love it
I love you Franklin!!!! I am a man though so no be that kind love o! but brotherly love! I wanted my wife to become a teacher here in the USA but it became obvious that she was not cut out for that but she is in fact an excellent mother and has a sound business mind! I let it go and we are very happy till date!
I like this guy … Was about to make stupid decisions you platform help me to read more between the lines. Twice I have in the UK and was Racially profiled in the shopping centers.
I love your show so much but please reduce the insults I beg. I share your passion. yes let's link up.i am Yoruba but live in warri Delta State
Women in the diaspora don’t understand this. They fail to realize that just because your husband is working a lowly job doesn’t mean he can’t make money. There are can drivers in America making $80,000.
All these pale-faced foreigners are "funded and founded" by their various governments to give colourful papers aka… "money" 💰 to naively ingenuous Black people aka…Africans in exchange for their "Soils and Souls"!!!
"Currency" is the current surreptitiously designed to blow Black people away into oblivion. For Real!
Always remember…"The African Soil is the African Soul"!
"Don't gain the world to lose your soul"…
In honor of our Ancestors- Robert Nesta Marley
Phrankleen The Black Race Has Been Moved Around The World, Been Up The |Ecomony Of This Countries, They Change Our Names To Their Names, physiological, Physically and Then Stole Your Religion And Then Place Your Religion Onto Your The Black Race. I Have Studied History And Natural Resources.
He could have stayed in Nigeria, while his wife go to London.
That's foolishness of her to divorce you Partner because he doesn't have the ability to do what you like. Insert of her to encourage him to be a better husband. She is Ungrateful woman. She Should have embrace all what the man have been doing. He is working for Christ seek. She should have appreciate the man for whatever reason he had. Not everyone can make it in life. Some women are destiny killers, men be aware of it. Choose your Partners wisely. Not every women can surport your Vision in life🤔🤔🤔🤔.
Women stop comparing your Partners to others. All Fingers are not the same. So appreciate whatever you have. Period 😀😀✌️✌️🙋♀️
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That woman just threw away a man who was a provider and who was actually sporting the family and paying bills. Well done to her. Welcome to single mom-hood. She in for a rude awakening.
As a wife… u help ur man work with his natural passions and likes. If he doesn't like IT, support him along the areas he is more naturally inclined to. Men flourish on their purpose and grind. If u are against it, there will b problems
Carer! Nursing is a long process and it costs money.
The grass is always greener else where! As a Nigerian and a Ghanian, with a USA citizen, I will tell almost anyone thinking of The west is an easy Path, it is a lie. Don't think about the toys, Just think about Joy and Happiness! It took me 28years to get my 6 figure salary.
This is just like my own story🤦🤦
She nagged him away from his growing business and all the way to the UK then nagged him out of the home. He too was too short sighted because his woman wanted to be in JAND! Guys we need to learn to say NO and firmly too to some nonsensical choice options that women bring to us.
This is a message to all the Brothers… Woman are never satisfied!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Brothers also remember this if your woman leaves you… Thank Her. A real man is much more productive when he is BY HIMSELF!!!!!
We need to build Africa and then tell them to get out and also tell them you can’t come here.
Phrankleen! You're gifted, surely you know this. You took this life story and paraphrased like it was yours. Well done!
After reality set in, It couldn't have been easy at alll…for that man considering he firstly, abandoned his thriving business and white collar job at home for a vision that wasn't his; Secondly, he relocated leaving his siblings upset and most probably disappointed on the same issue, one of whom BTW, helped start his honey business; Thirdly, he struggled to get and manage two jobs to make ends meet and care for his family in a "supposedly estranged environment" haba!
Plus the nature of jobs he took up were clearly not in line with his past job experiences (managerial and entrepreneurial skilled jobs). It must have taken some sort of psychological adjustment before admitting, Ah! this is what I have to do for me and my family to adapt here ooo. So, how can one blatantly say, he lacks ambition?? Oti oo!..
On the other hand, please you guys should be open minded and objective about what I'm about to say. I'm just trying to see from both the husband and the wife's perspective. That being said…
The wife in my opinion is a progressive person. Why? There are some people that believe in making their lives better and encouraging their loved ones to do the same, which is great. I believe she is that way. I may be wrong though.
Speaking generally, Now, the problem sometimes is, they (advisers) don't sit back to know, talk more of understanding or analyzing their loved ones' capabilities or career choices. They simply strongly believe, "you can do better" and just throw career options at you regardless, besides, others that do it don't have 2 heads, so hustle and make it happen.
They believe if you try hard enough at those "career opportunities" you clearly don't like, you can grow in it and better your life. So, put in that energy you'd use in what you like doing into the " shinier job" and it'll be more rewarding.
That's probably why she pushed for them to live abroad based on the fairy tales she's heard and didn't notice how it affected his psych, then even pushed further to get a white collar job. Now, even after 11 months of separation, she strongly feels she was helping him build a better career.
My dear, like Phrankleen said do what you know best, yeah! and I'll add, "blossom in that department" once you discover that's what you're good at. Shikena!
Thanks for this brother.
The mindset that the west is better no matter how successful you’re back home is what we Africans need to change..
My cousin sold his entire logging company to a friend because he felt there was a greener pastures in the U.K.. Remember, a business which was passed on from his great grandfather right down to him.
After five years of struggling in the U.K., he went back and asked the friend he sold the business to for a job!!
I once asked a brother how lucky he was for owning a new s class and living in a six bedroom bedroom house with family. He said he would gladly give it all away to have a house in Nigeria as everything I see is borrowed. The s class was leased which he could barely afford and their house was mortgaged to the hilt.
O gun eshin Obin….lol
Sad story
It’s the woman that’s actually lacks ambition. This is what happens when your spouse doesn’t really have a sense of purpose and just follow others blindly. Some women put pressure on their husbands to make financial decisions that may hurt them and then turn around to blame him when things go sour . They keep seeing things on a superficial level and get depressed over mundane things. Moving abroad may serve others better but may not be in your own best interest. Likewise corporate jobs may not necessarily make you rich. Everyone has a unique skills set , aspirations and should be comfortable staying on their own path as long it makes them fulfill their own personal financial goals.
I stand for unity and hope this woman changes her mentality while the husband by divine intervention returns home. The great part is the wife’s family sides with the husband.
i regret coming here for "the kids", the kids that have would have jeje come here from naija for school after the have grown with sense. instead of being here picking bad habits from people with no home training and having psychological scars from racism.
Also people here don't tell you the real truth until you come close and then its too late and you are stuck like them. dont get me wrong i have a good job but the sacrifices are not worth it
its ojukokoro worrying the woman, even if he got the job she wanted her big eye will not allow him rest. she will still look for something out of her reach to covet…. that his local business could have grown into a multimillion enterprise, even international. but her ojukokoro will not allow her see it
We women have plenty of issues. You married someone knowing he wasn't your kind, why try to change him or her.
F.A.C.T.S
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U use your own hand divorce and send ur man away but now u want him back? Has he changed his profession? What make u think if he comes back u won't keep attacking him?
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Phranklin thank you so much for this channel. I have been in Nigeria for the past 13 months from UK to set up my fish farm with little or no money. I have actually done my first harvest. Going to restock this January. There are huge opportunities in Africa especially if you know what you're doing. I'm going to dive into piggery soon after training. I was struggling financially in England and I know that in Nigeria there are golden opportunities and took a leap of faith. When planned to come back to Nigeria, some people told me to wait until when it's safe to go to Nigeria, if I had listened to them honestly I will still be waiting. My tips are live a low profile life and NEVER lend anybody anything please.
Is the wife an uneducated health worker or just a nurse's aid? If she wants an IT husband why don't she go into IT herself and let her husband pursue his passion for honey. IT is not his passion. He has ambition but she has covetousness against her friends. Thou shalt not covet thy neighbors/ friends etc. The wife needs to check herself. My cousin is a teacher in the UK and runs a honey business in Jamaica when school is on holidays in the UK. It's very successful.
Wow are u here in the U.S . Ur English is great
Omg u are right sir god bless u