I bought my own ring, financed our wedding and the marriage is over after 120 days | Lynn Ngugi Show
I bought my own ring, financed our wedding and the marriage is over after 120 days | Lynn Ngugi Show
Imagine buying your own engagement ring, wedding rings, financing everything, and covering your man up so people think he was the one doing it only to have the marriage last for 120 days.
Here is June’s story on today’s episode of the Lynn Ngugi Show
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Am one of the victims, but God did wonders after the divorce.
Weuee..am sorry..hold on to Jesus and He will hold on to you.
Lyn kwan huletangi wanaume
can we get such stories from men, please
I was married for 3 months but here iam very happy
Things don't go wrong. They start wrong. What are you doing with a man who is unemployed and isn't actively looking for a job? The minute you find yourself financing a grown man, you're living wrong. A man is always the provider. 😊
Love is a funny thing …..
Marriage is a scam. Full of pain and so much judgement. I don't know why it was allowed! No wonder in the US it's a contract!!!😢😢.
Should i share my story or should i keep quiet
Ashindwe mahali popote ako….staki
First and foremost, thanks to God for his protection
My take home
✊🏾Don't propose to a man
✊🏾Don't date or marry down
✊🏾Don't keep a man
I've the courage of walking out of a toxic relationship.
Thanks to June for sharing
I commented on this video 2 years ago .and i didnt know ill meet june. Now we are friends and am laughing here .to more wins girl..
Greetings Lynn, this is not a wish but a prayer that one University with a great name will award you honorary Doctorate title. As for me, I have already given you the title of Doctor such that you'll be called Dr. Ngugi Lynn from now henceforth. Let me wait and continue to pray for it to happen
Why do I feel like am the one narating the story 🥲🥲. . . Isn't easy to narate the story. you're strong mama
I can relate to the story,but we will rise again,now l won't make any stupid mistake again in my life,this is any eye opener,l love your shows Lyn,they are really helpful
Lord! She's lovely. Can't believe she went through all that. Main lesson: Try again with Jesus.
This debate is so feminist..get the man and hear his side..
You cannot substitute you child's father..even if you divorce him
My observation is that the man married a wrong woman. She clearly cheated first that broke the man,. Just because her man was not making enough money she decided to leave him, I am not convinced the man was abusive in any way. She is here disrespecting her husband before divorce, how toxic. Shame. Give a woman money, a few would stay in marriage. She is celebrated by social media 😢 controlling sad woman
My story..I realised the more you support a man,the more he loses his self esteem and the more insecure he grows..don't try
When a man loves you ,you will never have to question whether he does or not..
Am going through worse but I don't know how to get out of it or any help because I have 2kids and jobless for now
You cant propose a man
What i know ia that i can never fund a man never 😢😢
Ur a strong woman.keep going n all will b well
First of all, no matter what view one takes on the issue of divorce, it is important to remember Malachi 2:16: “I hate divorce, says the Lord God of Israel.” According to the Bible, marriage is a lifetime commitment. “So they are no longer two, but one. Therefore what God has joined together, let man not separate” (Matthew 19:6). God realizes, though, that, since marriages involve two sinful human beings, divorces are going to occur. In the Old Testament, He laid down some laws to protect the rights of divorcées (Deuteronomy 24:1–4). Jesus pointed out that these laws were given because of the hardness of people’s hearts, not because such laws were God’s desire (Matthew 19:8).
The controversy over whether divorce and remarriage are allowed according to the Bible revolves primarily around Jesus’ words in Matthew 5:32 and 19:9. The phrase “except for marital unfaithfulness” is the only thing in Scripture that possibly gives God’s permission for divorce and remarriage. Many interpreters understand this “exception clause” as referring to marital unfaithfulness during the betrothal period. In Jewish custom, a man and a woman were considered married even while they were still engaged or “betrothed.” According to this view, immorality during this betrothal period would be the only valid reason for a divorce.
However, the Greek word translated “marital unfaithfulness” is a word that can mean any form of sexual immorality. It can refer to fornication, prostitution, adultery, etc. Jesus is possibly saying that divorce is permissible if sexual immorality is committed. Sexual relations are an integral part of the marital bond: “the two will become one flesh” (Genesis 2:24; Matthew 19:5; Ephesians 5:31). Therefore, any breaking of that bond by sexual relations outside of marriage might be a permissible reason for divorce. If so, Jesus also has remarriage in mind in this passage. The phrase “and marries another” (Matthew 19:9) indicates that divorce and remarriage are allowed in an instance of the exception clause, whatever it is interpreted to be. It is important to note that only the innocent party is allowed to remarry. Although not stated in the text, it would seem the allowance for remarriage after divorce is God’s mercy for the one who was sinned against, not for the one who committed the sexual immorality. There may be instances where the “guilty party” is allowed to remarry, but they are not evident in this text.
Some understand 1 Corinthians 7:15 as another “exception,” allowing remarriage if an unbelieving spouse divorces a believer. However, the context does not mention remarriage but only says a believer is not bound to continue a marriage if an unbelieving spouse wants to leave. Others claim that abuse (spousal or child) is a valid reason for divorce even though it is not listed as such in the Bible. While this may very well be the case, it is never wise to presume upon the Word of God. In cases of abuse, a separation is definitely in order and should occur immediately.
Sometimes lost in the debate over the exception clause is the fact that, whatever “marital unfaithfulness” means, it is an allowance for divorce, not a requirement for it. Even when adultery is committed, a couple can, through God’s grace, learn to forgive and begin rebuilding their marriage. God has forgiven us of so much more. Surely we can follow His example and even forgive the sin of adultery (Ephesians 4:32). However, in many instances a spouse is unrepentant and continues in sexual immorality. That is where Matthew 19:9 can possibly be applied. Many also look to quickly remarry after a divorce when God might desire them to remain single. God sometimes calls people to be single so that their attention is not divided (1 Corinthians 7:32–35). Remarriage after a divorce may be an option in some circumstances, but that does not mean it is the only option.
The Bible makes it abundantly clear that God hates divorce (Malachi 2:16) and that reconciliation and forgiveness should mark a believer’s life (Luke 11:4; Ephesians 4:32). However, God recognizes that divorce will occur, even among His children. A divorced and/or remarried believer should not feel any less loved by God, even if the divorce and/or remarriage is not covered under the possible exception clause of Matthew 19:9
https://www.gotquestions.org/divorce-remarriage.html
Eh wanawakeee!!! Si mjipende tu wah😅
I love your interview style and compassionate personally.❤
Big mistake you did buying ring for you is like marrying yourself may be that's Why the husband feared but we learn through mistake sorry for that dispoitment
Pray for men, something is not right spiritually men with out a relationship with christ Jesus I feel sorry 😐 tough times are just starting 😢 my advise to men, run 🏃♂️ 🙏 to Jesus. its the only way you are going to survive what is coming a head. Only those who are prayer full will realise what is going on spiritually.
I agree, it's good to know yourself before entering any friendship let alone marriage though allow me to say that hakuna kitu kama ati kujipenda kabla upendwe.
As I grow I realize that every single thing, good or bad, that happens in our lives is authored by God. We may sometimes battle with the thoughts of why he allows so much loss and disappointments in life but He knows what happens to us and why.
Yes we should be very careful but at the same time, remember our past and traumatic experiences shape the lenses in which we look at the world.
I look at things this way, try to know yourself but it is better to know who you are in our creator or maker's eyes. Only the maker of a product has the full manual.
De' javu
Seem the Man was not in it, She was pushing for marriage,
I can now attest that people hardly change. Believe them the first time
True talk. Never buy your ring or completely fund your wedding. Life after will go that way —you funding and crying both emotional and financial weight through out that relationship
A really interesting story and yet sad but with all due respect it's a well known fact that some women have mastered ways to manipulate stories into their favour,just saying.
I remember I gave a guy 30k yangu nikiwa third year😂😂 wueh it was bad
All of us do crazy stuff at some point. Most important thing is to learn from them
So much to learn from this story! Thanks June for sharing and for acknowledging your mistakes.. many guys play victim… May God heal you completely and grant you a second chance in marriage.
oh sounds like my life story. proud of you sister
Your story resembles mine completely. My marriage just broke on Christmas day, it was so painful
If she is not careful the life of her mother will play out in her life. Already single motherhood is knocking. The script is set. Gal pray.
It's better for people to laugh at you for getting married late than for you to stop laughing when you get married