I am called Inadequate just because I turned 40 years old…
I am called Inadequate just because I turned 40 years old…
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Shield yourself. I love this channel.
Phrankleen I agree with you 💯.A lot of people was born with a golden spoon in their mouth and they pretend like they worked so hard to get where they are today
You're a blessing to us,
Love what you said about defining your own success @ 7:34
Well said!
To me success is growing in my faith. Learning to love others as myself. We are trained to view success through money as children.
I'm currently 43, childfree and single and prefer it that way. I've already been disadvantaged in life from a young age and noticed that all the women in my family had unhappy marriages. My mother was married twice, covert narc and my dad was also married twice and was an overt narc. Marriage did NOTHING for either of them yet I KNOW secretly my mother wishes for me to be married and have children. I have told her before that's not happening. I was told this by someone else and I did feel offended. Why would you want to place your daughter in an arrangement with a high probability of misery especially when you were a failed role model yourself? My younger brother has 2 children from 2 different relationships so I know he is now the apple of her eye. There is so much dysfunction to unpack. I don't understand why anyone would want their children to experience unhappiness just to fulfill an image.
I have no delusions on how family background and connections are key components in many gaining resilience in this life. When you come from dysfunctional and low income family life we must admit that it very much influences your outcomes. The unfortunate thing is that many of them have conceited attitudes and perceive themselves as intelligent and 'hard working' all because everything went as planned and think others who were not fortunate were just lazy or stupid. When you work under or among such types you have to try hard not to keep kicking yourself or biting your tongue too hard because dealing with them is a constant reminder of how disadvantaged your are and how you have to put out 100 times the effort than they do to attain maybe just 10% of their luck.
PHRANKLEEN (YOU ARE GENIUS AND GOD BLESS YOU FOR INSPIRATIONAL TALKS.)
All the so call rag to riches narrative on the media and Hollywood artist are all lies. The ordinary people need to focus on themselves and work on what reasonable goal they set, be healthy and happy and stop stressing.
Great Vlog today. I'm seeing the repeat and enjoying it. I look forward to all the clogs Phrankleen. You bring the truth. Thank you.!!!!👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽👍🏽
The thing I would disagree with you on is this Phrankleen. You made me laugh though. I'm in the USA, I would not trade it for the world, despite the many horrors. I've seen and heard white ex pats. from Russia, Italy, Germany, the MiddleEast etc. speak for America than their birth countries and loudly. Yes, America was built on the backs of slaves, blacks captured from the African Continent. The US Capitol that was attacked, was built by slaves; that person who told you it is not so, better read The History Books.
Phrankleen, yes a two individuals of opposite sex concieve children…but only the WOMENS body changes during the nine month period…you have to respect that…seems as if you dismissed that concept when you were discussing that point
Yes, folks save your money, put aside a certain amount from each paycheck and put in a savings account. Arrange for automatic deduction each month, you would be surprised at the amount saves yearly. Be real and live well but below your means, don't try to impress anyone by living fake lives.
So many people living Fake Lives and defeating their success.
Phrankleen, there are folks who live beyond their means, fridge. empty, but the trappings of the house would lead anyone to think they are 'doing great'. Not true, trying to keep up with the Jones's, they dress beyond their means, are living on credit. Don't believe the hype!! Pretenders! Stay away from them. Yes, the Balencia sneakers are more important to him. Misplacement of Priorities!!
So true what you said!
What is really this thing about marriage in our society? I am officially "TAYAD" (tired). The more I hear this song, the more I push my mind not to settle for less. Learn to love yourself, learn to live alone, have healthy relationships with your friends, learn to grow (financially, personally, spiritually, whatever "ly" floats your boat).
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You have that preacher voice. You should preach. That's your ticket to the millions lol
My mother told me at 43 years old that my mates have built houses for their parents. I replied her that her mates have built houses for their children to inherit and that shut her up. Yes I have made it now, I never allow anyone to bully me with their expectations of me.
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THINK OF BEING MOTIVATION SPEAKER IN COLLEGES UNIVERSITY AND WORKING PLACES YOU CAN MAKE MONEY IN THAT AREA
I just love your Chanel so much, you always speak out nothing but facts…
my husband is Nigerian, and anytime I ask him do you know the story of otedola, what business is he in to , he never tells me anything meaningful.. I just know from the media he’s a billionaire and spoil his kids ..🤷🏼♀️.. ok what’s his success story ? Is he self made or aided made..
Like how they called Kylie Jenner a self made Billionaire 🤦🏽♀️ girl gat $200,000 from her mom to start her business..
To me success is when you are happy with what you have achieved so despite your age and you are working hard to grow further..
As for am 28 am so successful, I have a huge plot of land in my home country, have been able to send my 2 brothers out of cameroon 🇨🇲 to better their life , am married, am currently in dental hygiene school and I have very good credit and savings in my bank accounts.. AM SUPER SUCCESSFUL PLUS AM HAPPY ..
People need to stop leaving by what people say and want them to do ..
Yeah, a white man will never pay a black man enough to save money. They only pay you enough to put shirt on your back and food in your stomach, so that you can come back to work the next day!
Hey Phranklee, thanks to this hot topic. I can't find Charles YouTube because you didn't include it here. I remembered Marriage but not the whole name.
The all too familiar faux 'meritocracy amongst the elite'…:) at different points in my life I witnessed it, in other places I benefited…the fact that you can get on a plane and travel seperates you from many, now when you land you will be further separated…their are levels to everything .lol Secondly, You can modernize an African but you cannot westernize us–lol, we gauge success through age groups and class….true I never heard a Westerner say "my mates are….." but we Nigerians do that all the time even involuntarily. Even those that complain use the same standard against others. Example, if you demand respect based on age alone –so it means your age has certain 'expectations' for you to command the respect. What would we do and where would we be without the ability to shame each other?…hahahahaha
So wait… Let me get this straight. This guy is upset because his POOR parents called him poor 😂😂😂
He should tell his parents to go adopt hushpuppi and his wife should go find another man. She's a free woman
Bro, shock em with truth as you do. You're a Human Councilor Born and self Taught by Life Goodies And ills. Be blessed, be well, be Good
God bless you for saying this Frankleen. Its really a blessing. Many don't have support from parents let alone financial support front them. Some people are even looking after their parents, parents who are in the diaspora. Some don't have parents at all. Once again thank you for saying this.
Hi Charles , it is true before you become a parent, you should be educated emotionally , at BEST by the example of your parents and/ or your care givers . If you sadly lack these experiences , you might chose to attend self help groups as EA ( emotions anonymous ). Check it on the internet if you wish.
My mother is just the same. That's why she is no longer welcome to my home. Our love is from a distance.
Say it as it is @phrankleen
By the time Bill Gates got to High School, late ‘60s to early ‘70s he had ALREADY clocked-in 10,000 hours of computing experience, because his family was affluent enough to afford to give him that exposure… It turns out beneficiaries of wealth and access are the ones who shout the loudest about “meritocracy “!!
My cousin and I are the only second generation in my family that own homes. My dad died when i was 12 and mother had a break down two years after. I had to work three jobs in college, rent rooms..even was homeless in a car for two weeks until i got an apartment. People only look on the outside…finished results. I told my Nigerian boyfriend what i had to endure to make it here in America as an african American women. He didnt believe me initially. Im tuning 40 next month..and just happy to be healthy and alive.
My aunty that didn't contributes nothing to my life, were comparing me with her neighbour son, that travelled to Germany after me, said the guy has sent many cars to Nigeria, and you haven't send anything in your 5 years in the UK. i just ignored her. Rubbish talk.
Otedola father was rich, Dangote, Father and Grandfather were Stinkingly rich…
Phrankleen with “will you keep quiet” 😂😂😂
I live in Kent and I am not a contractor. But what you are saying about of definition of success is indeed very subjective. I am not in competition with anyone, I am running my own race in life and others need to do the same and not live their lives according to friends and families and trying to be like the Jones' because you know know how the Jones' are making it.
Success to me is my ability to manage the inspiration and resources I have to achieve a balanced and happy family life.
Earning more money or acquisition of material resources does not necessarily mean I am successful, it's my own race,my own choice, my own struggle and my own life.
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Try putting the light in front of you on the side. That might give you better lighting.
Blessings to your wife. She must laugh all the time! Your a great brother phrankleen- keep us all thinking, having dialogue to overcome our shared traumas. We are all worth so much more than we or others think! Asè
"He should have built THEM a house" lol ..not even build for himself but for them..
Listen we all wish we had an easier path but listen life does not give us equal opportunities!
This is like the Davido vs Wizkid success argument.