I accepted my husband's other wife and we're all happy | Tuko TV
I accepted my husband's other wife and we're all happy | Tuko TV
Becky Gitau is a relationship expert with a wholesome experience in helping people fix their relationships… Today she speaks to us about some of the things people ignore that cost them their marriages
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Before the white man came with his bible – women were just ok being the 2nd, 3rd or even 4th wife.. the white man came made our men feminine and forced them against their nature to be monogamous.. in return, they took away our land and resources and weakened our men.
This woman is telling girls the truth they dont want to hear.. let me add
1. 95% of men cheat
2. and it's not only Kenyan men
3. it hasn't started today, even in biblical times people like Solomon refused to hide it
4. a wise woman will accept her place as the husband's main wife and let men go through a phase – because eventually as men age they tire of those games and get serious
Its a high time we accept that men are polygamous and live with it, otherwise you'll die of depression
Hakna mwanaume ako na mke mmoja, I'm happily married and if he feels like marrying another wife, well and good
Let me laaaaf in a way that pleases me!!Nooooo
A very boring story…. She is not even telling the truth…
If you think about it, it is all about power. Why does it have to be a man to have multiple partners? They know it is wrong. If it were right, they would have normalized that so women too can have them if their economic status allows it. Some women are blinded in that cult. If my husband were to love another woman, I would simply step away and let them stay together. This is insane in my opinion.
So many 'happy' divociis projecting as expected. She simply chose her battle and prefered to stay while you prefered to leave and face your own battles outside. She is a counsellor hence more understanding.You are afraid your husbands may follow suit
Sarcasm laughter you are right yah
Pure lies! To hell with the side chicks…..malaya sugu wote….
Self esteem yako madam iko down sana. Keep your advise to yourself, tell us your story only. Were you are you really truly loved??? If so, huezi taka another woman by your husband side. Get love and be loved. Uko down sana
Some of us are quided by Godly principles, where does it say that you accept and stop fighting?. Mislead yourself. We have seen and listen to others come on these platforms with same narrative, yet its the opposite, depressed and bitter pretending to put a brave face😮
I wouldnt waste my precious time with this counsellor .
Three is a crowd!!! Period!
so umekuja hapa mtu mzima ku encourage polygamy huna kazi ya kufanya
So who do we follow
Humans or bible
Gods rule or traditions
I just know some Kenyans are polygamous but in this case I see a woman that has been antagonized by her philandering husband to accept some bullshit. She needs a self esteem boost. My heart ❤️ goes out to her because you can tell she is a lovely person
The English… woi..
Marriage ia is good but when he goes for another woman it means he is dissatisfied with you. Life is more than marriage and children.Self awareness is key and best thing is to give him space to live the life he wants but stooping down to a third party ????it should not be allowed.You are complete without that unfaithful man.
Uongooooooooo
Jipende mama
What happened to Abraham's Empire ?
This woman has the audacity to lie to all of us.Nkt….
since kitambo . kwanza mimi nikona mumama
Other than giving our her story she was also here as an therapist or counseller so shes allowed to echo advise and pointing out the mistakes..there is nothing wrong wth that
Weuuuh!!!!🙆. Comment section today has alot of bitterness why??? This her story just sit back, relax and ejoy coz mnapiga Yvonne teke mara bla bla, mara story teller is lying. Then tell us her side story which you knew before. Guys just be nice
This lady is very mature,pure African daughter. Those criticising her majority are from broken marriage or singles trying to imagine what union looks like
I cannot stand anything, just The same way with a soda boda raiders
Danganya toto jinga😅😅😅
Mimi hata siwezi maliza kusikia. Huyu ajiongelelee tu.
U have to be happy cos you don't want to loose your man
How's Ibrahim's so far??? Pure lies.
This Ann Waiguru twin's personality is strong, I should say. A PHD in clinical psychology? Wow!!!
I like the way she is relating things with some degree of judgements and conclusions as a qualified counsellor at the PhD. level!!!!!
The title did not rhyme with talk. Especially the interviewee did not get to tell how she accepted her husband to have a second partner despite the fact that she stayed in her marriage.
"…my husband too remaaaaaaried!!!!" Red flag.
Marriage is not easy, and let me remind us that there are so many issues that are not said out there because we fear backlash, shame, or judgement.
In counselling, we are taught not to judge. 75% of us men don't like speaking family issues in public. But truth be told, what happens to us individuals are all about us(personal), not the other party.
Marriage has got no manual. It is personal. No two marriages are the same. Each is unique.
Submission is not a negative thing but an act of respect and responsibility boundaries. Submission should not be misconstrued negatively, and again, it is two-way. The gender roles remain intact in marriage even as submission is in practice. That word is often misunderstood and misconceived.
For marriage to work effectively, basic tenets like compatibility, purpose, and respect are prerequisites. Outside this, we can refer that relationship as shaky.
Marriage failure is a result of cause-effect relationships. Every problem or challenge has a cause. Trace that cause and resolve it on time. Cumulation of unresolved issues breeds discords and finally a blow.
Madam therapist, we men don't lust in isolation but as a result of many causations, though not all. I prefer to reserve my response on that, for now. Like I said, we men are by nature selfish in matters exposure to public gallery. That's why it is hard to get the other side on balance of probability. If this lady's husband comes to this bench to share his sude of the story, you will be taken a back. We agree to be condemned and judged every way, though it doesn't change anything in our lives. We know who we are on the inside and contented.It is a personal thing.
If my husband marry second wife even me I look for a sponsor outside but I won't leave my marriage But the fact is these sidechics ate always paying games outside.
Pple keep trying to study about men n they will never get the answer even wen try to say bibilically the head of a man is GOD dats y even fore fathers could talt to him n they had several wemen n ladies cannot accept reality so akili kichwani yesu moyoni pesa mfukoni……
She is scared to be alone she had to accept coz the man couldn't leave the gashungwa she's weak and promoting nonsense
Leaving a marriage is not easy for women in kenya. Divorce causes the woman and her family a lot of stigma. Most women would rather stay in a humiliating marriage than return to their father's house. What will the villagers say? How will i face my home church members who witnessed my wedding? Won't my divorced make my mother to be the subject of gossip among the women's guild?
she looks alike eith Ann waiguru
Yvonne. Healthy advise…when interviewing people with controversial life choices, better to just stick to their narration of their own story rather than the guest giving advice or philosophising their issues. Next time just ask what their story is. We're more interested in the details of your guest's experiences than their advice. Bulk of the interview should be the personal story.
God is so wise, one woman one Man finish and cla. No man can save two masters at a goal. You bring demons into your lives
African culture expected women to shut .But have we ever thought that all verses in bible saying a woman should submit and the man is the head were actually written by men?How comes there is no woman version of these verses.One pastor said that the bible was written in a misogynistic era.A woman had no place.
So jewish culture and African culture the same.God never created anyone to be oppressed.This narrative of women this and that is outdated
Thank you! That’s a big topic. Thank you for trying to bring it together 🎉
A few minutes into the video,I think the lady is insincere.Resigning to fate or stopping yourself from fight is a survival mechanism.Deep inside what do you desire
U just look like a lier
Talking sense
Hehehe 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
Pure lies and utter nonsense! No woman would be happy to welcome another to her marriage willingly, this only happens when you have no choice.
Kwangu ukileta miguu nitakukata😂😂
Men if u see ur woman wife is easy accepting ur second wife, the know that woman is not fully in you, or that marriage. She will know how to end it
Man lost his leadership once Adam fail he become weaker and the woman become stronger this has continued we better accept it as men