He won’t let me return to Africa for $3500 Monthly salary because…
He won’t let me return to Africa for $3500 Monthly salary because…
He won’t let me return to Africa for $3500 Monthly salary because… is about the story of a couple who relocated to the UK, left their life and earnings in Africa and struggling in the UK.
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The problem with us Africans and black people in general is that we think on an individual level. As long as I am doing fine in the white man system, I believe I have made it and to hell with Other black people. Other groups think on a collective.
Phrankleen I am an ardent listener. I love what you are espousing. Africa needs to wake up and gain some respect. Diasporans need to connect with our place of origin.
P that's why Bitcoin and cryptocurrency I never invited the thought in my brain to deal with either cuz I know exactly what you're talking about but a lot of people don't see it and you can't tell them otherwise. Just like the guy that lost over a million dollars because he lost his pen and can never retrieve it in a lifetime but at least if you lose your pen at a bank you can call the toll free number and reset your pin I'm not saying that the bank is perfect but the government is continuously trying to figure out ways to control out every freaking move. Thank you brother for making this video 🇺🇲✌🏿 the eagle will be landing in five more months ✈️🌍 thanks to the gods of my ancestors.
Accepting the offer, and zooming off, I sense selfishness in the part of the husband. Take the offer n leave him below put ego aside.
I will accept it without batting an eyelid
I will take the offer without thinking too much about it.
This man is stuck between a rock and a hard place.I’m not going to be hard on him. What I’ll do is let her go and I won’t fight for the custody of the child. However, I’ll die making myself into the best version of myself regardless of any obstacle rather than the alternative. Just saying.
Any country in Africa is sweet, that is where you find mental freedom, you realize this only if you travel
You lost me when you used epithets of womens privates as an insult. Why? Mental emancipation on all fronts please.
Not Telly Tubbies…😄😁😄
There's corruption in every country under different labels. People find a way to survive and thrive in all kinds of situations. 150k in GBP doesn't go as far as 1.7 mill NGN per month. They are in the same earning brackets when comparing the cost of living in each place.
And if she wanted to leave him nko? She isn't allowed? After his forcible decisions destroyed their very comfortable life, that wouldn't be an outrageous choice at all. Marriages have broken up for less.
I don't wish that kind of partner on anyone. How absurd. Will pride feed them? Living a life of luxury in Nigeria to now living a life of penury in the UK. She needs to stop playing with her life and move forward without the overwhelming baggage that won't let her live. None of them care for her or wish her well. The husband doesn't even wish himself well. It's madness to continue in such nonsense.
I would have packed my bags and left the UK in the middle of the night
I will leave his sorry ass in the UK and go back home 🏡 to take up the job offer. Just watching it now, did she finally moved back 😳
Seems like they are unequally yoked
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I'm a black American live in Texas. I ran across your channel somehow and I really like it here. Husband is from Benin city, Edo state. You really help me understand alot about the Nigerian cultures!!!!👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾👍🏾
It takes 20 years to get an indefinite leave to remain. Even at that you still pay ridiculous amount just to apply for the stay without any guarantee. They need to go back and start afresh
@prankleen I love your contents I have been with your channel for sometime now; you need to let your viewers have their opinions on whatever content you creates without getting offended and blocked them because of different mindset on what you know!
You were not born with a husband and marriage is a union that can end if both parties have major differences like this. They are clearly not compatible even when it is clear that the "white man's" country isn't working.
Sister "pak n go". Either he comes around or you two get a divorce. Let him continue on his own.
I hope she's gone back. Similar thing happened to a cousin.
I will take the offer very quickly.
It’s easy to say I will go back and take the offer…..it’s the same people that will say she’s was not submissive and broke her marriage 🤣🤣🤣 . Confused world!
The sad thing about this situation is as you say he has a broken ego! He is letting his ego block his family’s blessings! She can’t keep following this mentality disturbed man into the gutter! The biggest thing a woman needs in her relationship is security! He will never give it to her! He is that type man! He has absolutely no humility! Unfortunately as we say here he has a Looser mentality! That is they way of the world! But she is the polar opposite! I pray she doesn’t waist her brilliance! She is destined for greatness! I bet her parents will Change there toon when she becomes highly successful with out him! Then you will see him drag his sorry behind back still trying to be a boss!
Wife should dump him. This is a toxic husband who wants to sink. That was a life jacket for the family. I'd go back and stuff the extended family. They aren't living through the hell. This would be keeping up appearances and not worth it. I hope she left with her child.
With everything in life there is a process… and patient is needed.. you can’t start a journey and complain along the way.. if he wasn’t complaining then.. I would have said she should not take the offer.. but since he’s complaining..it’s a no brainier.. a man leads and not complain.. if he believes in a dream stick with it.. and sell it to your spouse.
Feeling you
Who are the wind rush generation.
Please tell me she went back! I can't even wait to watch the whole video.
If you ask me, this video is absolutely phenomenal. Can’t add more to the truth here. Always awesome✊🏿✊🏾✊🏽
It’s easy to say “I will go back” but should she do so, her marriage might be over…. So she’s caught in the middle… dammed if she does, dammed if she doesn’t!
All logic is on the side of her going back, it’s the only real positive solution but…. She’s got a lot of weighing to do…..
Oooooh today I laughed oooh, I live in Kent, blah blah 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The colonial mindset is so well embossed in some of us black folks it's so sad..spiced with an element of selfishness.
I would definitely go back. Pride is killing the husband.
Afikan John snows -They know nothing
Thanks for sharing this. It brings insight into various situations. Plz provide an update.
Fantastic Frankleen, i respect your Candour and honesty about the reality of life abroad………..
It helps reduce the ignorance and gullibility that drive our people into insane decisions that run them down.
It also helps shames and shuts up Nigerian charlatans who serve as megaphones and propagandists of the western systems that do blacks no good on the long run……….
Thank you, ! ! ! Thanks you! ! !
The guy is scared of going home with next to nothing and he probably had lied to his people about his job and the amount he was making ijs
Don't do "Ruth Aboko ku ooo"
Burst his ego, move on……..with your child………Leave him to find himself. ….
Cos he's a million miles far from reality and logic……..
I would pack my bags and run to the job..Her husband will follow her with apologies and a lot of gratitude when diaspora reality sets in. .He better pray someone else doesn't snatch her from him. Such good women are hard to find.