A very pathetic observation from this gentleman in the clip (not phranklen)The PROBLEM is that BLACK PEOPLE as a whole have been looked down on. Instead of us seeing the real problem we blame each other.
MEN are the gatekeepers of the community. The men protected their communities and uplifted everything that was theirs unapologetically
1. Women would not be seeking validation from white people
2. Children would feel secure and love themselves
3. White men wouldn’t brainwash us so easy
4. Women won’t feel the only way from them to get a good man is to ‘trap’ a man with a baby
5. White men would not walk into Africa and give us stupid deals to trap our great great grand children.
The damage has been done and the only way to fix it is to SCRAP western influence but let someone mention that. The top 3 comments will be most likely a Nigerian man saying…”no we need ‘them’. “Western life is better” “that’s village thinking”
Women have a very big role to play YES..,but it starts with the men. You are supposed to LEAD be example and you’ve thrown the community to the wolves. The state of our community is a reproach to you men! Whether you like it or not! The man represents the household
Asian Community: Many Asian Parents encourage their daughters to MARRY White American Men.
Indian Community: One Indian woman a day loses her life from ‘Dowry Murders’.
Pakistan: Many Baby Girls are found and they have to be buried because they were ‘discarded’. It is a high status for the mother if the first born child is a Boy.
Also some women are ’violated’ and they abandon the baby because of shame.
Your video was a very interesting and informative. Thank You. :::
This man is saying the truth. BW accept or not its the truth. They like too much superficiality and Money. Thats what we see on social média all the way
I trained my brother from high school to university. He is an attorney now, after he married he cut all of us off. It's sad but for me I know I gave him life, the guilt will follow him, Am not angry what Always say IT IS WELL. Some women are bad. A good woman will remember who trained the husband who made him be who he is
This man had so much to say about African women and yet, the same can be said for African men. Both are reflections of one another. Most African and women have no sense of cultural identity, full stop. Is it only African women who change their accents?? Is it only African women who act more ‘western’ when they move abroad? Some African men even go out of their ways to date ‘western’ women to further remove themselves from their ‘Africaness’. When an African man makes money, what does he do next? Start a whole new family elsewhere. How many Asian men have you heard do this?? Yet, it’s only the women who are troublesome when they make money…lol ok.
Our people are always bashing one another online. Trust a black man or woman to come online with some BS about the other. Smh. It’s tiringgggg
Black men have been comparing their women to others. Have you seen a Chinese, India those countries you mentioned doing this? Black men have failed they put the blame on other women,which race does that? Those women of other race you just mentioned has the highest rate of marrying outside their race but the black women. BM what do you want from BW,you keep on nagging them. Do you want them to start marry outside more like the women you're comparing them to? Nigerian men has legalized cheating and polygamy,doest those men of that country do that? And hw can you give your all to unfaithful men? I see your video as a one side scale,you criticize women but you're not doing your part as a man. Women in Nigeria are decreasing in population now cause of the men are killing them.
Man wen don dey beat e wife for house, don even knack house girl carry belle go come pack their 2 go America and he dey expect to not see pepper 😂😂😂. Wahalurrrr. Phrankleen got it so right tho. Black people and flexing on each other are like bread and butter. The self hate and competition is real even within families. We need to do better
Phrankleen, this is not an excuse but we blacks got a late start in so many things that it’s affecting us. These countries we’re not brutal colonized like Africa was. They got to keep their language. We took the colonizer language. They speak with one voice. We’re still feeling the effects of colonization and it’s on going.
Even indians have problems and alot domestic violence they don't see it because they marry their relatives, and they they have a curse system very deep in their religion, let's not compare our ourselves with the others ,
In all my entire life, I have NEVER seen an Indian man that is a polygamist. I have NEVER seen Indian men cheating on their wives. Which woman wouldn't want to be loyal, faithful and respectful to such a man?
he is completely right , the black woman is nothing but a tool to destroy the black man , just see how the dress to expose their body social media nowadays
It's funny BUT deeply sad because foreign women are too busy trying to find WHAT they think should be a MODERN women without realizing the increase in the destruction of the family. Child neglect will find your child being put into foster care, a stranger home etc because you are now divorce working multiple jobs to financially support a child. Only a naive women thinks being a single mother is strength and part of women liberation, those European women who preach women liberation are mostly living in intact marriages.
MAYBE INDIANS ND CHINESE SHOW RESPECT FOR EACHOTHER AND INSTEAD OF SHOUTING BEATING EACHOTHER, THEY SITND EXPLAIN DISCIPLINE EACHOTHER ND ELDERS ADVISE WELL. I ENJOYED this mans
The men created the single mothers. Additionally, maybe these men get no respect from their women because they don’t play their roles as men should. This video is off point and lacks logic.
My brother frank some of our brothers fail to Overstand and that is the black man or woman should never never rise and this is done in so many ways some of us if not the majority fail to see it how many vedios has been out there to show what is going on??
And same thing goes for African men. Am yet to see any Chinese or Indian men who goes online to speak negatively about their woman. African men need to hold up to their own part in this issues as well. If you want to be treated like a king and have your wife to wait on you all day while she's also looking after your kids… What about you work harder and provide for all your household expenses.
But no, you want her to bring in money and still want her to takecare of the house 🤔 Who the hell do you think you are?…. African men with their backwards mentality.
We are not humble, God is humbling us but we refuse to be humbled, without humility we are not going to work together its a spirit its a curse, we individually need to i look inside ourselves we.need transformation of Spirit/mindset And stop blame everything eg.rascism, sexism etc …. .God has put us in this.position so we can discover true and.productive selves again….Humility is key..💯💯💯🙏
The big let down in black societies of African descendents are our women. They are the weakness in the society and the back door by which the enemy will pass and destroy our community and children. Every single group of women from African descent we can see the same pattern. When I was a young boy our women from Caribbean communities had culture which they took from their mothers and fathers by the time I went to secondary school they had already abandoned everything and this is where the single parent families start to come in. When I was in primary school I knew the mother and father of all my black friends because they were married by the next generation that was finished and we know what followed. Then I come to see African women who had even stronger cultures come and do exactly the same thing.
Go to America you see the same pattern is even worse. The black American woman is almost a laughing stock the way they have abandoned everything their previous generation gave them. Then you have those from the Caribbean and Africa just arrive there and each group of black women will go the same way and abandon their culture and just end up like savages, divorces, children all over the place for Tim John and Harry. One of the things we as men have to learn is this. Women left to their own devices cannot regulate themselves. They are unable to. .They are like children. The Bible Quaran any document of consequences teaches us that..Every new fashion and fad they exposed to the run towards like children seeing shinny new things..and they do not care about the consequences on their children, husband, society or future generations.
Until we men of African descent come together to solve this problem in our own specific communities we are finished because these are the mothers of our children and future generartions and it is clear our enemies and the devil himself works through these women..We will never be strong when women are so culturally weak. Worship everything the white man put in front of them like little kids..
Most black men too are not good. They should change their ways. Black men will be with black women but will be dreaming of women of other races. Nothing you do will please them. The things they will not tolerate with their black women, they will tolerate 80 times more of it with women of other races. They want respect but they will be doing things that will make it difficult to respect them. Black men have always ran after women of other races, replacing themselves with mixed-race children and in the process dissolving the originality of the black African race. Both sexes have faults and we must come together to mend our race.
It's mostly black men that love to marry foreign women and that has made black women to look foreign in other to compete with women all over the world. Black men should learn how to love their women. Black man should put his house in other be contented with your women and stop complaining .your job is to lead and protect not complaining. Stay away from drugs, internet fraud, cheating, alcohol ,jail and unhealthy competition this is your home fix it for the next generation, and yes black man is the smartest, bravest, and strongest you can fix it.
This video is one sided , its both men and women that has messed up the family system. Most men goes abroad instead of getting married to women they met abroad they will come back to Africa to get a semi maid eventually the women will grow up and learn from other women and she tries to be independent from her master husband. And that is when this things you listed comes into play. Narcissistic husbands created this type of women. A big shout out to families that has maintained lovely homes despite all odds.
Welcome my brother. Its wrong to put everything on the women . Nigerian men are taking no responsiblity for their part.. You are in USA Stop comparing other races to yours… Part of this is spiritual not natural… Deal with foundation issue and don't you think its Karma.. For years , Men treated their wives like Slaves, maids, and sugar mama
The man that made this video has serious issues, did you notice he referred to the asian women as little things. Any sensible person knows the colour of that man's problem straight away. Many black men are abusive and they expect to get away with it, how??? Please let us fear God and be humane to one another. African men debase and abuse their women and before anybody says I am lying, think and educate yourself. This issue needs to be discussed properly, women are dying inside.
Infact I see alot of our sisters embracing their nature beauty . And the black men are running behind other races of women that comes out of the loins of their oppressors. Here in the uk the most who dates or marry outside their communities is the black men.
I work with adult social services, we support alot of Indian women who are victims of domestic violence. All that you are referring to as strong culture is just women who are oppressed and have no say in how they live their lives. They do not drag their men to court as they marry their cousins . I am from uganda where we have a big Indian population , please get your facts right . They are being controlled. So why do you want the women to do everything , please take your misogynistic views
Maybe because the Indian and Chinese men support their women and lead. Women will follow if their men lead . And most of African men love wigs and weaves otherwise their women wouldn't wear them, your women are the reflection of you. And also the Indian, Chinese men hold their communities together that's why their women respect them. Remember these men don't make single mothers and abandoned them There are a lot missing fathers in the black homes When are black men protected their women? throughout history and it's well documented that the black men don't protect their lands, women, and resources be it in the motherland or on the plantations. what im seeing is that black men love to compete with black women Instead of others races of men. Which systems did black men created for their women and children? Be it in Africa or abroad.
I agreed on the issue of lost cultural identity it makes me sad for us African. But he can’t just generalize that African women drag their husband to court because he forgot to mention the way our men treat their African wives if a man change a baby’s nappy the child is his and he forgot to mention that when our African men married from other western countries or African Americans they treat them right and behave themselves. He should stop generalizing not all Nigerian women are bad. No woman ever runs away from good man or a good marriage.
He just hates black women and wants an Asian. I bet nobody wants him so now he is angry. 🤷🏿♀️ he keeps say he was born in America lol not with that accent buddy you can't fool me 🤣
When you have been a second class citizen all your life as a girl/ woman growing up in a patriarchal society, where the men in your life can beat you without any reason or consequences, then you move to a new place and gain a level of freedom (to earn and live as you like) previously unimaginable, it is understandable why you will want to quickly ditch your old repressive culture. Even as a man, I cannot fault any lady for this because really when you give someone who has been previously oppressed power they may seek to use it to right many perceived wrongs to the extent that they risk becoming oppressors themselves. I have learnt the hard way to be cautious of such women otherwise you may pay for the sins of other men who have caused deep hurt you are unaware of.
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A very pathetic observation from this gentleman in the clip (not phranklen)The PROBLEM is that BLACK PEOPLE as a whole have been looked down on. Instead of us seeing the real problem we blame each other.
MEN are the gatekeepers of the community. The men protected their communities and uplifted everything that was theirs unapologetically
1. Women would not be seeking validation from white people
2. Children would feel secure and love themselves
3. White men wouldn’t brainwash us so easy
4. Women won’t feel the only way from them to get a good man is to ‘trap’ a man with a baby
5. White men would not walk into Africa and give us stupid deals to trap our great great grand children.
The damage has been done and the only way to fix it is to SCRAP western influence but let someone mention that. The top 3 comments will be most likely a Nigerian man saying…”no we need ‘them’. “Western life is better” “that’s village thinking”
Women have a very big role to play YES..,but it starts with the men.
You are supposed to LEAD be example and you’ve thrown the community to the wolves. The state of our community is a reproach to you men! Whether you like it or not! The man represents the household
I am a Black American Woman,
Asian Community:
Many Asian Parents encourage their daughters to MARRY White American Men.
Indian Community:
One Indian woman a day loses her life from ‘Dowry Murders’.
Pakistan:
Many Baby Girls are found and they have to be buried because they were ‘discarded’. It is a high status for the mother if the first born child is a Boy.
Also some women are ’violated’ and they abandon the baby because of shame.
Your video was a very interesting and informative.
Thank You. :::
This man is saying the truth. BW accept or not its the truth. They like too much superficiality and Money. Thats what we see on social média all the way
I trained my brother from high school to university. He is an attorney now, after he married he cut all of us off. It's sad but for me I know I gave him life, the guilt will follow him, Am not angry what Always say IT IS WELL. Some women are bad. A good woman will remember who trained the husband who made him be who he is
This man had so much to say about African women and yet, the same can be said for African men. Both are reflections of one another. Most African and women have no sense of cultural identity, full stop. Is it only African women who change their accents?? Is it only African women who act more ‘western’ when they move abroad? Some African men even go out of their ways to date ‘western’ women to further remove themselves from their ‘Africaness’. When an African man makes money, what does he do next? Start a whole new family elsewhere. How many Asian men have you heard do this?? Yet, it’s only the women who are troublesome when they make money…lol ok.
Our people are always bashing one another online. Trust a black man or woman to come online with some BS about the other. Smh. It’s tiringgggg
Black men have been comparing their women to others. Have you seen a Chinese, India those countries you mentioned doing this? Black men have failed they put the blame on other women,which race does that? Those women of other race you just mentioned has the highest rate of marrying outside their race but the black women. BM what do you want from BW,you keep on nagging them. Do you want them to start marry outside more like the women you're comparing them to? Nigerian men has legalized cheating and polygamy,doest those men of that country do that? And hw can you give your all to unfaithful men? I see your video as a one side scale,you criticize women but you're not doing your part as a man. Women in Nigeria are decreasing in population now cause of the men are killing them.
Man wen don dey beat e wife for house, don even knack house girl carry belle go come pack their 2 go America and he dey expect to not see pepper 😂😂😂. Wahalurrrr. Phrankleen got it so right tho. Black people and flexing on each other are like bread and butter. The self hate and competition is real even within families. We need to do better
Phrankleen, this is not an excuse but we blacks got a late start in so many things that it’s affecting us. These countries we’re not brutal colonized like Africa was. They got to keep their language. We took the colonizer language. They speak with one voice. We’re still feeling the effects of colonization and it’s on going.
Even indians have problems and alot domestic violence they don't see it because they marry their relatives, and they they have a curse system very deep in their religion, let's not compare our ourselves with the others ,
In all my entire life, I have NEVER seen an Indian man that is a polygamist. I have NEVER seen Indian men cheating on their wives. Which woman wouldn't want to be loyal, faithful and respectful to such a man?
he is completely right , the black woman is nothing but a tool to destroy the black man , just see how the dress to expose their body social media nowadays
A VERY OLD VIDEO. HE IS A STUPID AKWABOM MAN
It's funny BUT deeply sad because foreign women are too busy trying to find WHAT they think should be a MODERN women without realizing the increase in the destruction of the family. Child neglect will find your child being put into foster care, a stranger home etc because you are now divorce working multiple jobs to financially support a child. Only a naive women thinks being a single mother is strength and part of women liberation, those European women who preach women liberation are mostly living in intact marriages.
MAYBE INDIANS ND CHINESE SHOW RESPECT FOR EACHOTHER AND INSTEAD OF SHOUTING BEATING EACHOTHER, THEY SITND EXPLAIN DISCIPLINE EACHOTHER ND ELDERS ADVISE WELL. I ENJOYED this mans
The men created the single mothers. Additionally, maybe these men get no respect from their women because they don’t play their roles as men should. This video is off point and lacks logic.
My brother frank some of our brothers fail to Overstand and that is the black man or woman should never never rise and this is done in so many ways some of us if not the majority fail to see it how many vedios has been out there to show what is going on??
African women have a lot of adrenaline compared to Indian women and the rest.
And same thing goes for African men. Am yet to see any Chinese or Indian men who goes online to speak negatively about their woman. African men need to hold up to their own part in this issues as well. If you want to be treated like a king and have your wife to wait on you all day while she's also looking after your kids… What about you work harder and provide for all your household expenses.
But no, you want her to bring in money and still want her to takecare of the house 🤔
Who the hell do you think you are?…. African men with their backwards mentality.
We are not humble, God is humbling us but we refuse to be humbled, without humility we are not going to work together
its a spirit its a curse, we individually need to i look inside ourselves we.need transformation of Spirit/mindset
And stop blame everything eg.rascism, sexism etc …. .God has put us in this.position so we can discover true and.productive selves again….Humility is key..💯💯💯🙏
The maaculisation of the feminine divine and the feminisation of the masculine divine.
A hot darn MESS!!!!
The big let down in black societies of African descendents are our women. They are the weakness in the society and the back door by which the enemy will pass and destroy our community and children. Every single group of women from African descent we can see the same pattern. When I was a young boy our women from Caribbean communities had culture which they took from their mothers and fathers by the time I went to secondary school they had already abandoned everything and this is where the single parent families start to come in. When I was in primary school I knew the mother and father of all my black friends because they were married by the next generation that was finished and we know what followed. Then I come to see African women who had even stronger cultures come and do exactly the same thing.
Go to America you see the same pattern is even worse. The black American woman is almost a laughing stock the way they have abandoned everything their previous generation gave them. Then you have those from the Caribbean and Africa just arrive there and each group of black women will go the same way and abandon their culture and just end up like savages, divorces, children all over the place for Tim John and Harry. One of the things we as men have to learn is this. Women left to their own devices cannot regulate themselves. They are unable to. .They are like children. The Bible Quaran any document of consequences teaches us that..Every new fashion and fad they exposed to the run towards like children seeing shinny new things..and they do not care about the consequences on their children, husband, society or future generations.
Until we men of African descent come together to solve this problem in our own specific communities we are finished because these are the mothers of our children and future generartions and it is clear our enemies and the devil himself works through these women..We will never be strong when women are so culturally weak. Worship everything the white man put in front of them like little kids..
Most black men too are not good. They should change their ways. Black men will be with black women but will be dreaming of women of other races. Nothing you do will please them. The things they will not tolerate with their black women, they will tolerate 80 times more of it with women of other races. They want respect but they will be doing things that will make it difficult to respect them. Black men have always ran after women of other races, replacing themselves with mixed-race children and in the process dissolving the originality of the black African race. Both sexes have faults and we must come together to mend our race.
It's mostly black men that love to marry foreign women and that has made black women to look foreign in other to compete with women all over the world. Black men should learn how to love their women. Black man should put his house in other be contented with your women and stop complaining .your job is to lead and protect not complaining. Stay away from drugs, internet fraud, cheating, alcohol ,jail and unhealthy competition this is your home fix it for the next generation, and yes black man is the smartest, bravest, and strongest you can fix it.
This video is one sided , its both men and women that has messed up the family system. Most men goes abroad instead of getting married to women they met abroad they will come back to Africa to get a semi maid eventually the women will grow up and learn from other women and she tries to be independent from her master husband. And that is when this things you listed comes into play. Narcissistic husbands created this type of women. A big shout out to families that has maintained lovely homes despite all odds.
HAVE YOU OF HEARD "PASSPORT BROS" ??
Phrankleen this video was made years ago
Welcome my brother. Its wrong to put everything on the women . Nigerian men are taking no responsiblity for their part.. You are in USA Stop comparing other races to yours… Part of this is spiritual not natural… Deal with foundation issue and don't you think its Karma.. For years , Men treated their wives like Slaves, maids, and sugar mama
The man that made this video has serious issues, did you notice he referred to the asian women as little things. Any sensible person knows the colour of that man's problem straight away. Many black men are abusive and they expect to get away with it, how??? Please let us fear God and be humane to one another. African men debase and abuse their women and before anybody says I am lying, think and educate yourself. This issue needs to be discussed properly, women are dying inside.
Infact I see alot of our sisters embracing their nature beauty . And the black men are running behind other races of women that comes out of the loins of their oppressors. Here in the uk the most who dates or marry outside their communities is the black men.
I work with adult social services, we support alot of Indian women who are victims of domestic violence. All that you are referring to as strong culture is just women who are oppressed and have no say in how they live their lives. They do not drag their men to court as they marry their cousins . I am from uganda where we have a big Indian population , please get your facts right . They are being controlled. So why do you want the women to do everything , please take your misogynistic views
Maybe because the Indian and Chinese men support their women and lead. Women will follow if their men lead .
And most of African men love wigs and weaves otherwise their women wouldn't wear them, your women are the reflection of you. And also the Indian, Chinese men hold their communities together that's why their women respect them. Remember these men don't make single mothers and abandoned them
There are a lot missing fathers in the black homes
When are black men protected their women? throughout history and it's well documented that the black men don't protect their lands, women, and resources be it in the motherland or on the plantations. what im seeing is that black men love to compete with black women Instead of others races of men. Which systems did black men created for their women and children? Be it in Africa or abroad.
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I agreed on the issue of lost cultural identity it makes me sad for us African. But he can’t just generalize that African women drag their husband to court because he forgot to mention the way our men treat their African wives if a man change a baby’s nappy the child is his and he forgot to mention that when our African men married from other western countries or African Americans they treat them right and behave themselves. He should stop generalizing not all Nigerian women are bad. No woman ever runs away from good man or a good marriage.
Its not just women its also men you raise children in the diaspora who cant speak their native language
He just hates black women and wants an Asian. I bet nobody wants him so now he is angry. 🤷🏿♀️ he keeps say he was born in America lol not with that accent buddy you can't fool me 🤣
My first time watching your channel and I like the video 👍👍👍👏
THIS VIDEO IS 3-4 YRS OLD… WITH THAT BEING SAID… NO WOMAN RUNS FROM GOOD…
When you have been a second class citizen all your life as a girl/ woman growing up in a patriarchal society, where the men in your life can beat you without any reason or consequences, then you move to a new place and gain a level of freedom (to earn and live as you like) previously unimaginable, it is understandable why you will want to quickly ditch your old repressive culture.
Even as a man, I cannot fault any lady for this because really when you give someone who has been previously oppressed power they may seek to use it to right many perceived wrongs to the extent that they risk becoming oppressors themselves. I have learnt the hard way to be cautious of such women otherwise you may pay for the sins of other men who have caused deep hurt you are unaware of.