He built a House and confided in his Mum
He built a House and confided in his Mum
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I understand there is madness out there in the name of pastors but that is not the truth about the word of God. People just don't want to do the right thing and so they follow fables and stupidity. The bible says faith without works is dead. Many Christians are the ones sleeping on their brains and allow scammers and charlatans to take advantage of them. The bible does not even allow that. Our people need to use their brains and read their bible for themselves. They just want to follow magic papa's under the guise of pastors. ..
I personally never dated another African person due to this same issue …mother in law issues. I know myself, I would not be able to tolerate this. I would probably start dating and saving money on the side in preparation of leaving.
Phank, unfortunately here in Africa some parents go to the babalaos to pur a spell on their children to be ever submissive to them above everybody else including spouses.
I believe in God, God the creator of all things.
A lot of so called wife's in Nigeria, don't bring nothing to the table.
It is good to get a honest wife but they are some body ladies out there who only cater for her families alone.The men families are kick out only her families can enjoy her husband labour and it is very sad.
This was done to me and I quit the relationship and until now he's languishing in poverty in the UK with no vision moving from woman to woman and nobody can stand weak men in a 21st century tough life.
Patience is a requirement in marriage. The lady should stay in the marriage. Since the husband has set a trend of keeping secrets, she should keep her own investments secret, just in case there is a divorce in future. When her husband gets stung by his extended family, it will reset his brain.
Magical thinking and religiosity🤣🤣🤣 these have definitely stunted the growth of Africa and its people.
Your mum is your mum, and your beautiful woman is your immediate person… however, you need not place your mother on top of your wife…
Just watched this…..Phrankleen kills it…..🤣🤣
Phrankleen you really need to concentrate on your narrative without constantly being distracted by the back&forth of the story. And hailing the commenters…
Oooooo that Dami s voice– super delicious!!! He can chat to me anytime day or night😝
When you said I do either man or woman then there should be no secret between both of you and both of you have to make sure no third-party in your marriage.
So you cut off the man on his point of view on religion. Shame on you. If you dont believe in God. They are people that listen to your channel that does. They should be given a chance like anyone else
I don't blame this man mom,the man .needs to be blame for this,Some men think their money is their money not for whole household. What was hiding now exposed.
Phrankleen u are baaaaad u cut ✂️😳that brother off lol @Mrmalone.
Africans mothers thinks the children are a gold mine, they would tell them how much money they spend on them and they would speaks curse on the children, the parents are too controlling , but because of the culture the children believe they are doing the right thing to obey their parents, so wifes need to work and have their own money to do their own thing
The twinklegg excellent convo…the magic IDEOLOGY is what is killing Africa. AMEN
When a person decides to hide from their spouse it MEANS 1 thing only Non TRUST of that PERSON.
I do not think mother inlaw is to blame. The husband and wife characters are weak and the relationship is weak, this is why mummy, who has a stronger character, is able to interfer with their relationship. The husband has been complaining to his mother about his wife and pretends to be detached from the mothers behaviour towards the wife. Buying land and building of the property behind the wifes back, is just a reflection of his solo plans for the future, she obviously is not part of his future plans.
He's off topic. What you believe is not what you are talking about. You are talking about the bull that happens in the culture. Those men must understand that women are human beings with feeling too. I love your reasoning Phrankleen.
Divorcing the man is not solving the situation. She needs to work on her self esteem and keep herself busy to gain financial independence which I suspect she maybe lacking . If she leaves the relationship in this state of mind I don’t believe she would she would find that happiness so easily cos she’s an emotional person and the emotions could get the better of her. The husband upbringing is what is affecting him and divorce will not change his mentality overnight. He cannot even see what wrong he’s done in the first place. Most men act like babies and expect a replica treatment of their mother in the matrimony. Please woman just apply wisdom, build your confidence, your finances and regain your self worth whilst balancing your home life. Don’t rush out, instead take your time to apply these things and gradually you will begin to find your inner happiness and contentment. Stay blessed 🙏🏻
Aaah hah! Mama's boys too old but never really men!
Similar story here.
😂😂I cant stop laughing when phrankleen hangs up the call on the guy talking about mixing sperms😂😂😂😂😂😂
Me I will kukuma work hard build my own small empire cos clearly she may not have a place in the husband's future
Well said, when my brother chose a woman that refuse to visit our family home anytime she visits Nigeria, we objected to that and my brother put his foot down and I told everyone in the family to support his wishes. Ten years later she built a house in her father's house and told him she needed space. He was ashamed of himself that he could not come back to the family. She turned around and told us he is useless because he lost his job, forgetting the years he took care of her. I decided to embrace him and encouraged him to keep looking for love. They both live in London hopefully he open up to finding love again.
It’s good to be financially stable,even if the family thinks you control their son/brother,they will still have no Choice than to give you your space and men often acts better when the wife is financially stable,knowing she might decide to leave the marriage if she thinks she is not loved,respected and protected by husband especially when it comes to his Family.Honestly Women should wake up from slumber,just be a humble and a good wife but please don’t hesitate to save yourself and you kids if it’s not working for you .🙏🏾
Your husband is in a crazy situation between 2 queens. The elderly queen has been there before you came. If you really want to enjoy your husband you have to ignore her because she is seeing you as a rival which indeed that is what you are. They want their son to get married but can't let go. No matter how close you want to be to her you can't please her. SOLUTION : 1) Pretend it doesn't matter and sincerely it doesn't. 2) See your husband behavior as a man who doesn't want to involve you in his assert contribution. 3) See it as an eye opener for you to get something done too. If he put your name on the property project add his name on the one you wish to do. Let Him know you are doing something and permits him to give you any financial assistance. It is your right for him to help you in whatever you are doing. He is the King of the house you are just Olori. Let him spend on you and bring solution to your life. Mother's euphoria is always a temporary issue. When you ignore them with their vanities he will come back home. 3) Their situations is only a distraction keep your home. You are a helper if he doesn't need your help why worry yourself. You are the thermostat of your home. If you are married then your husband is your focus not his mum or his properties. See him as some one in crisis and just stabilize your home. By the time your marriage is 10 to 15 years they will let you be. If you leave your home now the children will suffer in the end . Trauma of divorce on children is more than the recognition of external influences in your marriage. Just don't be at her mercy financially . If your wholistic health is being tampered with go for marriage counseling with counselors who has happy home and you are permitted to live apart not divorce. Most husbands are Kabiesi, where their siblings and Mummy are concerned. Cling to your children and find solace in them. I experienced more than you. My marriage is now 40 years plus and they have let us be when my husband became 40years old.. All is now a story.
Religion is different from relationship with God. New levels!! We move!!!
This husband and his mom are the sort to have him marry a second wife
Hope the fools are listening…
Hmmm. I had the exact same situation and I took my stuff and left him with his people…
Everyone seemed to say walking away from her marriage is the only solution.
BTW-Every marriage has problems and going by your guys line of thinking every marriage is due a divorce. That’s just primitive nonsense.
The key objective is that this woman wants to save her marriage.
My suggestion is for this woman to adjust her thinking to the men’s level, she could easily mirror his behaviour and build her own house- best believe, the man will be calling your podcast complaining about the same think.
Genesis 2:24 That is why a man will leave his father and his mother and he will stick to his wife, and they will become one flesh.
YES…counseling WORKS! Stay away from pastors!👍🏾
#FACTS👍🏾 my MIL did this too & caused divorce to get my ex’s retirement & be his beneficiary. Sick!