HARSH LIES “Successful Black Women Can't Find a Man”
HARSH LIES “Successful Black Women Can't Find a Man”
Some people believe there are not that many successful Black men on the market for the large amount of successful Black women. However, how true is this information? Is this a narrative that keeps getting told with little truth to it? Why do Black Women keep allowing themselves to be manipulated by this information?
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Come on, black women, white & other women are not the same, we don't experience the same life experiences historically. Rich & previously poor white women are married to rich white men, Asian women marry high earning accomplished Asian & white men. Black women are on a few worldwide polls, saying we are the least desirable, ironically, while being the most copied & emulated. We don't have the same dating experiences, because so many black women want to be loyal to black men, and we just don't have the numbers when it comes to successful, high earning bm. BM need to step up.
What we need is more bm to step up, and stop making excuses. Most come from the same neighborhoods as many successful bw. Go to college, go to trade school, work for the city or state, the plants, or in natural resources , like oil. Go get good high earning jobs, and don't become a controlling, game playing man, just because you have new money, and you are mad at the women who didn't desire hou when you had nothing. Bm should prioritize these actions, instead of crying about the successful, unattainable black women who put in the time and effort to achieve success, and make their lives better. Black women are the only group of women that get criticized and condemned for actually doing good and taking care of themselves and their children…we just can't win, the world hates us, and bm have a huge part to play in that hate.
Eboni I am sure is a nice woman, but I really can't listen to her, because I believe she is an elitist intellectual snob. She also contradicts her stances. Eboni should have no problem getting a man, so it has to do with her attitude & personality.
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I love my career and I'm single. I will stay single and happy. A man don't make me happy or sad. I live for the Universe not some human. I travel, have fun and enjoy my circle of friends and family. I don't have children and never wanted children, but I love and spoil my nephew. Stay single ladies…it's safer and peaceful. Move how you want when you want. Stop listening to these dudes, when they open their mouth it's for their benefit only. Keep it moving ladies.
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I have yet to see anywhere on social media where it is said that "no one really wants a black woman, so she should accept anything" . I've heard it suggested that a black woman in Eboni K William's tax bracket should consider a man who makes less money than her. She also said that lighter skinned women were the preference but I've never heard it said. I've heard it saiid a woman with a softer demeanor is the preference and that's the opposite of what Eboni K Williams demeanor is. She's a "boss chick" who dismisses what men says and speaks on behalf of them. Who wants a woman like that long term?
I think we can have high earning careers as single women, but lay it aside or work part time once married with children.
Women are responsible for the cesspool of dating mkt we see today. Women who embrace hookup culture, prefer the “bad boy”, are rude to men who are on their journey to success, with bad attitudes are responsible.
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That is just mean! Why would you say that? 😧
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5:04 So, don’t be too intelligent and self-sufficient because males will take that as a threat. Got it. 🙄🤦🏾♀️
Ladies know your worth, its likely far lower than you think
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I just want to go on a regular date. Nothing spectacular required. Yes, I think the man should pay initially because we all have our roles. I am finding men in my socio-economic grouping to be arrogant and demanding. 😟
I love this channel! I have to disagree though. I've had a TON of dating trouble. I am a teacher who makes around $55,000. I wanted to date another teacher or professional man who made around the same… $45,000ish was okay because of where I live. White collar or blue collar didn't matter as long as he was skilled at his work. NO DICE! Many of male peers were taken, arrogant or sexually demanding. It's true, that I don't want to date just anyone, but I feel that my standards are appropriate. 💐
They don't know what they want and don't know what is good for them. She is the same one that said she wouldn't date a bus driver. ( Unless he owns it). Ayala V. and the Lil guy on the Breakfast Club got her straight. Black women especially those with a certain income have the wrong mindset. And foreign women are swipping up black men with the quickness. You educated women keep thinking that way. They may never get married. And as easy as us men are. And the sad thing is we are looking for beautiful black wives. But not their types with that mindset.
Today's dating has become so transcational and what you get out of it. Sad thing… this is common from your so-called independent, well educated with most degrees, dont need a man for anything type of black women. Oh well… more missed opportunities in 2024 and beyond. As for me, just minding my business 😅